The problem with this discussion is that it's predicated on the idea that we ought to be concerned with how others perceive us. I understand the practicality of that concern, living in a society that rewards conformity, at least superficially. But true freedom (which, in my view, is the precursor to genuine happiness) won't prevail until we find a way to render labels useless and defy the pressure we feel to please others at our own expense.

I'm sorry KT, I don't have any particular boxes to put you in. To me, you're simply a thoughtful and engaging person who deserves my attention not because you're a Christian or a Writer or a Mom. But because you're searching for something, as am I, and in that effort, you shine a light by which I can see a little better.