I have actually  been thinking about love languages the past several days, so this is  a timely post. I, too, am a quality time/physical affection gal. Unfortunately, those two love languages are quite challenging when you live alone. I've had to learn that the quality time I have with God is more important than any time I spend with any human. And I've learned physical affection isn't about intimacy, but sometimes a hug fom a friend or a pat on the back is just what is needed. It's another reason community is so important.