Max, that's a really good point. As a girl myself, and as mom to girls (all three voracious readers), I often forget that boys are different beasts (so to speak). Thanks for bringing them into the discussion, as well as for mentioning "reluctant" readers. It seems like you are doing really important work with both groups. 

Trina, in my opinion, the world needs all the "happy medium" promoters it can get! I'm glad you like the food analogy, too. :) As far as the importance of parents supplementing what happens at school, I completely agree. While I don't mind shouldering that responsibility, I do feel strongly that learning with peers is critical, and I can't help but worry about the kids whose parents aren't able to be involved, for whatever reason.