One of my greatest epiphanies--though now that I think about it it was a long time coming--was when I discovered that I could be quiet and wait.  I spent a great deal of my life trying to control everything because I thought no one else would.  Then I discovered one day that if I let go and just listened the answers would come.

I'm still struggling with whether or not it is God or something else that is speaking, but just the fact that I'm even considering it is BIG for me.