Jeb, I really wish everyone was in tune with where they see God best, and then willing to free themselves up to go there. I'm afraid it's not true for most people, most of the time, though. And I think these constructs of religion around God—what Blackwasp19 called "being socialized to see Christian fellowship as a Sunday morning stint"—is unfortunately a big part of the problem. I'm glad you've been able to let go of that and find your place with God.

Jennifer, that my readers are diverse and thoughtful are probably the two things I love most about them/you! It's amazing to have you all out there to write for. I love hearing your PK perspective, and about how you've journeyed to a place where you can really let your relationship with God grow.

jenx67, that's a great C.S. Lewis quote to bring into the conversation. I think most churches have become really confused about why they exist and who they're serving, or they're focused on reaching out but doing it in aggressive, guilt-mongering ways. Maybe if we can get that straightened out, some of these other issues will work themselves out, too. That tends to happen. And no, I haven't heard of Rachel Barkey. I will definitely check out her testimony as soon as I can section off an hour—it sounds like a very important thing to hear. Thanks.