It's funny reading all of the things that Q. cannot do right now because of this broken arm. I say this because it was only recently that I realized that B. might not ever reach the level of independence that most kids have (even at her age of almost 5). Her next hand surgery will be in a few months to remove her malformed thumb and move the index finger over, followed by lots of O.T. in the hope that she will gain use of that hand/arm. If not, I may be doing what you are for Q. the rest of B's life. Good thing she is so very determined to be as independent as possible. Her good attitude will carry her through, I'm sure! My best to Q. through this time.