Ashley, I hear you. I've never had a hard-core anti-TV stance, but since college I've also somehow never had a TV that actually gets any channels! It just kind of happened that way, and then it became something I didn't even think about needing (except during important games, presidential debates, election night, etc., when we end up going to friends' houses to watch). Our TV, which we use for DVDs and Wii, is in the guest room in the basement, so it's often out of sight, out of mind for our kids. It makes a huge difference in the way everyone in the family spends time.

Jaron, I've never thought of it exactly that way, but I think you're really on to something. All of these researchers talk about the critical life skills kids are learning when they have unstructured play time, and I'm sure the one you bring up is a part of the equation. Problem-solving and decision-making are such important skills. Siblings also have to practice negotiating during unstructured time. (And yes, I could use more time like that in my day, too!)

Molly, I can imagine that DC is really intense, particularly in contrast to the wonderful, relaxed, nature-centric childhood you had in Michigan. Because you had those experiences, though, and because you realize how important they were to you, I know you will find every opportunity you can to expose your kids to similar experiences. I can easily imagine what a great mom you are! (I will have to go to the library and find that book you mentioned.)

Darryle, thanks so much for drawing my attention to the article about the Yale study. That's by far one of the best things about Twitter -- having all kinds of interesting articles, sites and ideas brought into focus. (And yes, time to look at the clouds...sigh.)

ejly, I like your use of the word "downsizing" when it comes to extracurriculars. :) And your son's experience drawing comics is a perfect example of what I'm talking about. You don't necessarily learn to draw or tell stories by going to a special class for hours each week. You learn it by having time to practice and experiment. It's so great your son has been able to explore that. 

Daisy, yes, I love it too. Creativity is high on the list of what I wish for my children, right up there with kindness and compassion. I'm sure a lot of that has to do with how much value was always placed on creativity by my parents, but I've also seen how well creativity has served me in all areas of my life—even the areas that don't seem obviously "creative." It's such an important muscle to exercise.