I LOVE this post!  2 points - I blogged in the beginning of my journey as a way to redirect those who would gossip and inflate my grief.  Not hiding my pain.  Not hiding my daughter and the bad but sharing all of it - bleeding all over them as I like to say.  Wanna see my grief - here it is.

2nd - when Mr Ex cheated I ran into so many people who shrugged their shoulders and said "oh well he's always been nice to me and that was a long time ago" ---- AS IF that some how some way negated the pain this persons behavior had inflicted upon my life.  They didn't see it, they didn't feel it so it must not be real huh??  

Love you!!