If the real question posed in the title is "Do I have to apologize to any random Christian who might be morally offended by my divorce?" the answer is definitely no.

But as it's stated... I think the answer to the question is still "yes". Divorce sucks, even when it's the best option. And people who are legitimately affected may deserve an apology. And I don't say that to heap any more guilt or pressure on anyone.

The church should be a "hate the sin, love the sinner" kind of place, and the reality is that the church hasn't truly gotten the second part done.

I sincerely apologize to you Kristen and others who just weren't loved like you should have been. I would love to say that no one in my current church would act that way, but I'm sure there are some. I want you to know that I'm trying to be different.

Much love to you Roxanne... I pray all goes well.