I've been reading your blog for awhile and while I am happy to lurk, I felt compelled to comment on this post in particular. 

I've never been divorced (never been married, even) but I am the child of divorce and as such grew up always feeling "outside" the Christian community for that fact. My large extended family is fairly conservatively Christian (Catholic) and when my parent's divorced, it felt like they - and by extension me - were being judged as "sinful." My mother tried to reconcile herself to it and find a new, supportive church community while my father left the faith. I found myself stuck in the middle. 

I've encountered many people who pity me for coming from a divorced home, who think I shouldn't be allowed to fully participate in the church community because I was raised by parents who, in their minds, will go to hell for their decisions. It's left me disdainful and distrustful of these church communities, while at the same time, I still long to belong to some kind of faith community. It often makes me feel aimless. 

My point: thank you for putting into words what so few people do: only God can speak for God and there's no such thing as the perfect person (I'm always reminded of Matthew 7:1 and John 8:7 when I think of the "perfect" person). Reading these thoughts and this post helps remind me that I shouldn't let my encounters with one group of people ruin my perception of the much larger Christian population. So thank you for putting words out there. It may not seem like a lot, but it does help.