We struggle in the mornings. I strive everyday to stay cheerful, even through the lost mittens, hats, and homework. I am actually getting really good at it. I think it's important for the kids to go to school without being yelled at. My husband is way behind me! I think they forgive him, because in general he is the nice, happy one! Right now, he is in the 'silent' stage ... if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all.