I couldn't agree more.  We don't always know why something "bad" happens in our lives but we can't let ourselves sink into that hole and not climb back out.  We can have our bad days, we can have our pity parties, but eventually, we need to move on.  We need to look for the good in our life, even though it may not be obvious in the beginning.  Having a daughter with special needs has taught me that, and continues to teach me that every. single. day.  God gave us one of his very special angels and I feel so blessed to be entrusted with her.