Chris, that's interesting that the Enneagram and Myers-Briggs didn't really line up. Where did you find the information about how the tests correlate? It *is* all rather confusing, but in the end, we just are who we are, right? The most important thing is to be honest with ourselves about it.

C.A., good question. My husband's main type is Peacemaker (type 9), so maybe that makes him a compatible partner for lots of different types! Seriously, though, it's interesting. We took a compatibility test as part of our pre-marital counseling (I can find out what test it was, if you're interested), and our pastor was stunned by how high our compatibility score was. In his 20 or so years of giving couples this test, he had never seen such a high score (and at that point we hadn't even known each other a year). But we aren't the same personality type, so I guess personality types don't have to line up for two people to be compatible. I think the best way to put it is that we view and experience the world in much the same way, but we don't process it/tackle it in exactly the same way. Does that distinction make sense?