You know what, you are right  - I should have worded that different...men who PRESSURE their girlfriends/fiances/whatever to have sex with them are losers. Sorry bout that!

(it is my personal opinion that a true Christian who opts for premarital sex is weak in that moment (I understand why you would disagree though, believe me I am no where NEAR perfect, but I think this article was more justification than explanation.))