OK, I see from reading the comments now, and your responses to them - I have missed part of your point. I focused on the how I live my life in response to the 'haves'. I dont make many choices in my life based on the 'have nots' - thats just the truth. Having admitted that though, I live my life the best I know how, for my family. If 'we' want to live our lives so no other individual 'suffers', we need to live more like Mother Teresa. How far are we willing to go?