Once again, a great post that seems to sum up exactly what I was thinking as well. Especially now, I feel like I've been juggling so many "should's" and "usuallys" that I feel guilty when one gets dropped in favor of another. It's nice to know I'm not the only one. 

I love your suggestion to really consider why we do some of the things we do - so often, I find I'm the only one who cares about my shoulds and usuallys, that the guilt is all in my head. I think we need to give ourselves the opportunity to let go of some things and not feel like we have to do it all or else.