photo kristin tennant adult life valentine's figure explanations expectation raiser valentine's puts unnecessary pressure people relationships figure define compact express love single showy spread shows affection give room spontaneous loneliness accentuator makes people relationships feel crappy possibly holiday love alienate huge group people making feel unloved calendar crowder february inopportune time family calendar christmas year's daughter's birthday january sister-in-law's birthday days birthday month youngest daughter's birthday month thing reason celebrate love exploiter despising so-called hallmark holidays fashionable alternative types general group friends making bunch money age-old concept love decided package make people feel guilty celebrating pass kind feeling negative love admit things embrace valentine's cookie instigator valentine's excuse bake decorate favorite almondy butter cookies growing generally made christmas investing additional cookie cutters managed make cookie decorating quarterly activity house craft inspirator handmade valentines great make wonderful receive pulled biggest colored paper fabric scraps valentine's cards lace ribbon doilies yarn scissors glue brother made elaborate cards send grandparents give friends girls sort thing making valentine's cards child class love spreader brings final things embrace valentine's kids love sponges needing craving soaking love affection sniff write post eight-year-old's class list table nearby names precious kids makes heart ache love world make risk sounding mushy serve reminder spread love intently people happy valentine's estefania mario joshua laisha eliseo shauri karen lauren daniel rodrigo josie alvaro richard carlos andrew jonathan shane lidia magdalena alan seth 