Karen: Yes, I've also read *part* of Lauren Winner's book, Real Sex. (If anyone out there has read the whole thing, please speak up!) The New Yorker article actually references some of Winner's perspectives--the ones that I really agree with. But, like you, I haven't read the whole book so I can't say I agree with everything she says. I should probably put that back on my reading list. :)

Sugar: Thanks for sharing your story. I think the shame/guilt issue is huge, as you point out. It could be even bigger than the education piece, but the needs vary for different kids in different situations. So...I think you have younger kids now too, right? Do you know how you plan to address this issue of sex and guilt and religion with them?