AmyL, thanks for following up. You're absolutely right about how we're in different worlds, to some degree. Boys and girls need different things and struggle with different issues in general, but particularly when it comes to sexuality. Even with four boys like you have, or three girls like I have, each child will require a slightly different approach, depending on their personality and strengths/weaknesses/needs. That's one of the biggest challenges I've faced as a parent, and one of the most important things to remember. You can't simply find your preferred parenting method and apply it in the exact same way to each child. A lot of tailoring is required.