I found my way here because you linked to Neil's blog in this post.  I was intrigued.  And I'm glad that I clicked over.

I started blogging because I wanted to re-find my voice as a story teller.  I don't care about how many people to whom I connect (as evidenced by comments and links and stuff).  All I care about is that I connected with someone.  To me, upsetting are the posts for which there are no comments.  All I want is one.