bedtime prayer night jason thanked things community amen miss full questions bedtime asked thing community writer word-lover favorite things parenting asked explain define things obvious simple adults complex concepts thinking articulate asked empathy means mortgage answers roll tongue community words means thing depending kind experiences you've people synonym town live urbana community nice community you're passing place trip jason factors human beings buildings told basic sense community means people community jason explained thanking community people meals move care other's kids celebrate birthday holidays they're aunts uncles cousins live regular part lives explained people live relatives sunday lunch pitched make community we're gave mull sleep turns early jason individually idea community capital friends reading lots wendell berry growing vegetables talking things living simply buying property jason high school moved community house ties church chicago learned cook large groups married born shared house virginia jubal renee meals groceries shared taking responsibilities week jubal deemed dishes general maintenance cooking eventually split buying homes money american easy sharing money space property person spouse challenging keeping communications open good feelings flowing takes work leave americans pretty time move house build deck watch kids weekend free ways general lack community today economy alive barn raising anymore community good fashioned traditions alive churches today reasons church church goers practice day-to-day community fullest ways plan potlucks picnics tend rescue emergencies general times church showers mothers delivered meals baby born jason's leukemia church community family people shuttle home hospital deliver dinners evening learning church acts small group started studying acts dull history early church thought turns radical counter-cultural group people determined demonstrate living spite caesars generosity taking care sharing acts pretty exciting stuff small taste kind community stirred topic place night adults gaggle kids shared meal jubal renee's home provided wine prepared food offering gift helping move massive amounts belongings couple weeks people loads food felt cared appreciated christened home conversation laughter 