Kristin,
I too have felt that helpless feeling in the face of a number of overwhelming disasters over the years. That is why I felt the need to write this blog entry, http://davesfaithblog.blogspot.com/2010/01/comfort-in-aftermath.html over the last few days. A description of my understanding of our place in such things cultivated in my relationship with Jesus through my church over 25 years. (I'm a slow learner!) I had not seen your entry here until mine was complete; a sign to me that I was meant to write it.

I feel my entry also addresses your previous entry on January 13. I understand organized religion has its issues. However, ignoring the connectional understanding of God's church cultivated over centuries in favor of a highly personal spirituality can have it's pitfalls. Usually the issues plaguing  organized religion occur when we forget those historical lessons and rely on tradition alone.

Blessings on your struggles and journey!
Dave