jenx67, what a perfect use of the word "Blehhhhh!" Love it! I can see how Acts of Service could seem like a lame love language. Maybe it's like the whole curly hair/straight hair phenomenon—the one you *don't* have is always going to be the one that looks more appealing. :)

Trina, yes, clearly you and I could discuss this for days! Regarding the size of people's love tanks, I have this feeling that some people have extra big tanks, like big trucks do; some burn through a full tank faster than others, who utilize that fuel more efficiently; and some need a full-on tuneup more desperately than others. (I'll stop now. I do believe I've taken the car analogy far enough.)