Tracy, that's a great way to look at it. Sometimes reflection and pondering is helpful, because you're in a good place for it, other times it's just stressful. There is a time for everything. Thanks for your comment, and for becoming my blogging friend in 2009!

Joy, it's interesting that you used the word "refreshing." It made me realize that most things that are refreshing feel that way either because they are in contrast to everything else (a cold drink on a hot day), or because they are not overly common (grilling steaks for Christmas dinner). I guess what that means is that I shouldn't make a habit of not reflecting, but it can feel great to go that route sometimes. Happy New Year to you!

Jeb, I'm glad you approve, and glad that you inspired me. :) Thanks for following your gut and sharing your thoughts.

Nicola, I love your theories: "Maybe turning 40 means I am finally allowing myself to just go with the flow, to enjoy what is and what comes! Maybe I’m turning into a slacker! Maybe I’m just finally realizing how great my life is and how little resolutions add to it!" Whatever it is, I think it's a positive change for the likes of big planners like us. Here's to being more fondue-focused in 2010!

Roxanne, that's very true, we have *right now,* and so often we let ourselves get diverted away from that gift.

Agnes, ha! It's not like I'm completely anal, but I do think an orderly house is the first step toward a clear mind. Too bad it's so hard to accomplish!