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(1214, 269, 'Kimberly Beaven', 'gamer@bluewavemedia.ca', 'http://www.bluewavemedia.ca', '99.249.64.191', '2009-02-14 18:33:01', '2009-02-14 22:33:01', 'This seems to be a very present question as of late regarding social media, connections and the final statement of it all. Chris Brogan''s comment above highlights some of the outplay: dammed if you do and dammed if you don''t. While we are building our brand and creating meaningful relationships and connections (notice I did separate those and I meant to) — no one want to appear as an elite nor spammy by just following/adding as a friend for the sake of numbers. It is not a numbers game and I think it really should not be for those who are wanting to foster better communications, grow as a person and in their business and who approach social media as a launching pad. So much can be accomplished; so much can be learned, but we need to make sure we are allowing those connections to happen. Everyone will choose the social media outlet that works best for them, be it Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn or any of the hundreds now available. Remember, if it is just numbers you want and boast about, there will not be the draw to you from people who want meaningful connections. When someone adds me as a friend and I read their Twitter bio, read their tweets, check out their web site and only see them boasting about numbers, spamming with DM links as soon as you add them and how I can make millions with their advice, they are not followed for sure. Nothing meaningful there for me at all.\r\n\r\nI applaud Chris because I think he has handled the attention in social media very well. He comes across as a person you can really have a chat with. Although a very busy man fur sure, he makes you feel like he has the time to have a deep, entertaining and thought provoking discussion. A good lesson to learn and an example for all of us.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6 Ubiquity/0.1.5', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1220, 268, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-14 21:02:50', '2009-02-15 01:02:50', 'Dorie, yes, the spontaneous giving throughout the year is so much more meaningful, isn''t it? I''m impressed that you take that approach to gifts at Christmas, too. Thanks for reading and commenting!\r\n\r\nRyan, yes, you put it well: Valentine''s Day can end up feeling like a relationship gauge. Wedding anniversaries can fall into the same trap, I guess, but at least on your wedding anniversary you''re marking a specific day with a specific person— remembering it together and being grateful for the past year(s) together. In comparison, V-day feels very generic.\r\n\r\nLisaNewton, you''re absolutely right—it''s up to each individual to think about how to spend our money and how to express our love to someone. I just wish people felt more freedom in that, rather than always feeling like there''s some societal benchmark they have to meet. (The Farm''s Market sounds like a perfect way to spend part of the day. Hope you enjoyed it—and whatever you cooked!)\r\n\r\nDaisy, I''m glad you shared your "teacher perspective." It''s true—Valentine''s Day seems to have gotten out of hand in schools. Every child "must" give some sort of candy, and almost no one takes the time to hand-make cards. If everyone insists on celebrating the holiday in school, the party time would be better spent having the kids write something nice about each child in their class, rather than just sign their name to a little Hannah Montana card and ingest too much sugar.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1944, 298, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-16 23:54:37', '2009-03-17 03:54:37', 'Trina, you are clearly an experienced soccer mom (and clearly one who is living much further north than me)! Thanks for the advice and good wishes. My daughter was tired out but very happy after her first practice, and even said she wished she had soccer every day. :)\r\n\r\nAnne, as I just noted, she did have F-U-N today. And yes, the life lessons will be rich (and as a Twitter buddy pointed out today, the blog post fodder will be abundant, too).\r\n\r\nChuck, that''s a great story about your basketball experience. I''m curious, were you ever a bad sport growing up? Did you ever say you just wanted to quit? That''s something I always struggled with, and I don''t know if I would have stuck with it, had I been in your shoes. Learning "humility, trying and failure," as you put it, is so important, and so painfully hard to watch your kids learn.\r\n\r\nMarty, you''re so right—we''re going to screw up our kids in some way. Sometimes I worry that my kids, have more than their fair share of disadvantages, since their dad and I are divorced. But I also can see how much they''re learning, and how many great conversations we''ve been able to have with them *because* life isn''t perfect. It''s a balancing act, for sure, with lots of give and take. (Btw, I have a feeling that your focus on emotional health for your son will pay off in many ways.)\r\n\r\nDaisy, I love hearing about your kids, and about these completely different perspectives on getting involved in sports. It really helps me see how taking the pressure off your kids to be "sports stars" is healthy, because it allows them to follow their own path of enjoyment. Who knows where it will take them? \r\n\r\nCobalt-Blue, that''s a great point. I wish our society wasn''t SO focused on organized sports for elementary-aged kids. I think that''s partly why S was feeling like she wasn''t good at anything, because the things she IS naturally good at aren''t legitimized with lots of group/team activities and opportunities (or at least there aren''t nearly as many such opportunities for 8 year-olds as there are for athletics). I do think S is naturally inclined toward collaborative team efforts, though, rather than feeling like all the pressure is on her alone to win or lose, to perform or fail. It will be interesting to see if this experience softens her tendency to be a "poor loser" (a trait she gets from me, sadly).', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1945, 298, 'Lesley', 'lesleymiller1@gmail.com', 'http://millersmeetsacramento.blogspot.com', '65.78.135.144', '2009-03-17 01:13:04', '2009-03-17 05:13:04', 'Great post...gives me things to look forward to as a mom, and all sorts of ways to wonder what I''ll do someday when I''m in your position.\r\n\r\nI was not good at team sports. In fact, I was awful at all sports. But my parents forced me to play through high school because they wanted to teach me how to go outside my comfort zone, push myself, and be on a team. I was never pressured to be good at the sport, but rather learn all the lessons that came as a result. As an adult, I both love and hate my parents for putting me through all those years on the volleyball court. Mostly, I love them because I think I''m better at my career because of the lessons I learned. But, it took a lot of soul searching for me to realize that I''d just rather compete against myself. I''m a runner, or a swimmer. Not a volleyball girl. Same goes for work. I''d rather freelance than be on a big team of marketing gurus that have to work together. I sorta wish my parents would have helped me to realize these things much earlier... but it was my own battle to overcome.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(1224, 268, 'Susan', 'susanebecker@gmail.com', '', '98.212.170.125', '2009-02-15 00:29:01', '2009-02-15 04:29:01', 'Oi! Talk about bringing gold to Midas or whatever that saying is...You can let my cookies dry out and use them as coasters. Kevin and I have had the same  arrangement since our engagement 11 years ago - he brings me purple tulips (my favorite) and I bake him my cream and sugar cookies (he is a serious cookie lover). I don''t mind at all that we do the same thing every year. Life is full of the unexpected, sometimes the known can be dependably delicious.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X 10.4; en-US; rv:1.9.0.5) Gecko/2008120121 Firefox/3.0.5', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1226, 233, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-15 03:21:48', '2009-02-15 07:21:48', 'Shell, yes, I think you''re absolutely right about God encouraging us through other people. The difficult thing to understand is why God would choose to let us wallow alone at some really difficult times—at least it feels like we''ve been abandoned, even though, in retrospect, I can usually see what I gained from having the space that I didn''t even know I needed. It''s complicated, which is why I''m trying hard to be more fluid and attentive in my life.\r\n\r\nCobaltBlue, I love how you separate "divine intervention" from "intuition," yet show how they work together in leading us to these wonderful moments. A very interesting take on this—thanks!\r\n\r\nBeth, this is exactly right: "The more I wake up to the wonder that is possible in every moment, the more I grow my own ability to make contact with it, in whatever form." I''m so glad we ran into each other that day (I agree, it was no accident), I''m glad we can inspire and encourage each other. And I think we should meet for coffee soon so we can get to know each other better. :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1228, 269, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-15 03:44:03', '2009-02-15 07:44:03', 'Ribbon, Facebook is definitely a complicated beast. I think a lot of people have a love-hate relationship with it. It might just be easier to decide you don''t like it, like you''ve done. At any rate, I''m glad you stopped by my blog.\r\n\r\nChris Brogan, yeah, I totally see your point. The "damned if you do, damned if you don''t" position is not a fun one to be in, either. Your approach. though—embracing the chaos and staying close to the people that matter—seems to strike just the right balance.\r\n\r\nKimberly Beaven, this is a great summary of where I see the main benefits of social media: an opportunity "to foster better communications, grow as a person and in their business and...as a launching pad." You nailed it! That''s the motivation, and luckily we have many great models and teachers, like Chris, to learn from.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1949, 298, 'Chuck', 'cjwestbrook@gmail.com', 'http://chuckwestbrook.com', '24.98.82.135', '2009-03-17 09:50:03', '2009-03-17 13:50:03', 'I was a bad sport, I''m sure, because I''m still a bad sport when my filter doesn''t catch it. Not in the way that you described, though. I would just get upset (angry or sad) when I beaned a batter, got benched, or struck out. That was a function of embarrassment and pride.\r\n\r\nI don''t remember wanting to give up, but I must have on occasion. Most of the time, that anger spurred me to try harder because quitting would have been worse for my pride.\r\n\r\nLast night my wife and I were playing Rock Band together (an early birthday present to me), and I noticed that her reaction to failure in the game was to want to stop trying whereas mine is to try harder or try again. Now I see that you''ve posed a question about that reaction, so I''m interested in this discussion.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1689, 282, 'Matt Cheuvront', 'mncheuvront@gmail.com', 'http://www.lifewithoutpants.com', '66.89.75.162', '2009-03-02 11:43:54', '2009-03-02 15:43:54', 'KT - you asked and (more than) received. A lot of the time I feel like I am pouring out my thoughts and ideas and not getting a whole lot in return, which is totally cool because I just love writing, but I would love to get the ''silent lurkers'' to speak up on my blog as well - I see all these views and clickthroughs I am getting and it''s awesome, but discussion and engagement is the name of the game with me.\r\n\r\n(so if you are reading this here and make your way over to my blog - get involved there as well).\r\n\r\nSome random facts about me - I came up with the name of my blog, Life Without Pants, totally out of nowhere, I still don''t fully understand it. I love Hummus, and whenever the song "Everywhere" by Michelle Branch comes on, I sing it out loud - and sometimes question my own masculinity in the process :) \r\n\r\nGreat blog - glad I stumbled across it!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows NT 5.1; SV1; InfoPath.1; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Zune 3.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1956, 298, 'Jamie', 'jamie@intersectedblog.com', 'http://www.intersectedblog.com', '99.139.71.51', '2009-03-17 20:40:58', '2009-03-18 00:40:58', 'Kristin -\r\n\r\nThat post just made me tear up. That was beautifully written and you should be so proud of yourself. You are an incredible parent.\r\n\r\nI hope that if I ever have kids, I take a lot of notes from your book.\r\n\r\nThanks for writing this.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021906 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6620, 514, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-10-30 16:03:06', '2009-10-30 20:03:06', 'Susan, I really appreciate both the honesty and rational thought behind your beliefs and your comment. Thank you for taking the time to fully share where you''re coming from, and to further enlighten all of us. Your comment is a great example of how lines drawn in the sand get us nowhere, and how we can all learn from each other if we''re willing to listen. I''m sure you''re open to answering some of Ron''s questions, below, so that we can learn even more.\r\n\r\nRon, those are great, very important questions for all of us to be thinking about as we have this dialogue. So often we don''t even stop to consider how we might be talking past one another. What you''re asking, of course, is not that we all define these things in exactly the same way, but that we at least try to work with the same set of definitions as we converse. If we can''t start with an agreed upon glossary of terms, at least we can each be more clear about how we define these terms that we use.\r\n\r\ncredis, I am not going to continue responding to your comments, from this point on. This is not a reflection of your beliefs, but rather a result of how you choose to share those beliefs, your apparent lack of interest in true dialogue, and your lack of genuine respect for the beliefs of others. If other members of this blog community have the energy and time to engage you, they are more than welcome to.\r\n\r\nxmartinj, that''s one way to put it! :) I probably don''t need to tell you that I think this statement "one of the great reasons to believe in god is that you no longer have to make sense" couldn''t be further from the truth.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.14) Gecko/2009082706 Firefox/3.0.14', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5359, 445, 'toyfoto', 'siobhanconnally@gmail.com', 'http://www.ittybit.blogspot.com', '64.246.146.159', '2009-08-17 15:37:51', '2009-08-17 19:37:51', 'It seems as if the case for early marriage is an ill-conceived solution to the inarguable fact that abstinence-only doesn''t work. \r\n\r\nWhile I don''t think marrying late makes you any more successful in marriage than marrying early, I do think it gives you a better chance at achieving the maturity to do so.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.0; en-US; rv:1.7.8) Gecko/20050511 Firefox/1.0.4', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5360, 445, 'Ryan', 'scotly@gmail.com', 'http://henzabits.net', '24.10.167.254', '2009-08-17 15:49:07', '2009-08-17 19:49:07', 'Jason,\r\nIndeed my view of right is very narrow, but my view of wrong is certainly not. I think this is what Jesus was referring to in the Sermon on the Mount when he said, "Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat". The gate to right is narrow, specific. The gate of destruction is large and people will find infinite ways to get there if they want.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.1; en-US) AppleWebKit/530.5 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/2.0.172.39 Safari/530.5', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6132, 474, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '72.248.201.123', '2009-09-23 15:47:19', '2009-09-23 19:47:19', 'Elaine, I see this, too: "I do believe that children’s faith is so much more pure than our own and reverting back to basic love &amp; faith can give us some measure of strength." I actually have been trying to remember how I used to think about heaven when I was a child. Also, the e e cummings poem *did* lift my soul a bit, in that intense happy-sad way. So beautiful. Thanks for thinking of sharing it. \r\n\r\nTracy, thank you. In S''s fourth grade class Monday they read and talked about the book The Giving Tree, then made a huge giving tree in honor of Maricela. On each leaf and apple the kids wrote something that Maricela had given to them, their school and the world. It was a really moving, joyful experience for S, and I''m sure for her classmates, too. (They also learned about the staged of mourning, and S announced to me that she''s in the Denial stage.)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.14) Gecko/2009082706 Firefox/3.0.14', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1702, 284, 'ejly', 'eva.lyford@gmail.com', 'http://www.ejly.net', '209.43.8.129', '2009-03-02 23:49:27', '2009-03-03 03:49:27', 'happy day! Keep up the great attitude. What''s the good of having a 20-something body when you''re too inexperienced to know what to do with it? ; )', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1959, 298, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-17 23:45:25', '2009-03-18 03:45:25', 'Chuck, I gave up on water skiing in high school, and bowling just makes me laugh, in a good way—I''m a strike-or-gutter ball kind of gal. :)\r\n\r\nJeb, I think my husband can really relate to your experience as a kid, and to how that translates for you now, as a parent. I completely agree—it is our responsibility, as parents, to keep an eye out for untapped potential in our kids. Not just the things they''re naturally good at, but (as swallner suggests in her comment) the things that give them energy and make them happy and feel fulfilled. I have a natural talent for music, for example, and I enjoy it, but it was never the thing that I felt I was put on this earth to do. I might just have to write a follow up post on this idea of untapped potential. I''ve started reading Malcolm Gladwell''s book "Outliers," which is very much about this, so there''s more to come!\r\n\r\nswallner, you nailed it. Too many kids are involved in whatever they''re involved in to fulfill their parents'' needs. It''s really sad. From the sounds of it, you''re seeking—and finding—a healthy balance as a parent. (And yes, organized sports are much more organized and intense than they were when I was a kid—another thing that makes me sad about the childhood experience today.)\r\n\r\nJamie, you are too kind. And I have to say, I love it when I can manage to write about parenting without excluding people who aren''t parents yet. So many parenting issues relate directly to our own experiences as kids, and too many so-called "mommy blogs" end up feeling too mommy-exclusive. Why is that? (By the way, I mess up as a parent, all the time. I''m gradually learning that being a good parent is a lot about being willing to try and fail sometimes, and try again, always with thoughtfulness and love.)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1699, 284, 'Carmen', 'capisco@verizon.net', '', '70.107.194.170', '2009-03-02 23:17:43', '2009-03-03 03:17:43', 'Show us your stretch marks!\r\n\r\nHappy b-day, pal. I miss you!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X; en-US; rv:1.8.1.20) Gecko/20081217 Firefox/2.0.0.20', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1703, 284, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-03 00:19:24', '2009-03-03 04:19:24', 'TJ, the best is yet to be, indeed. I can honestly say I believe that now—I''m not just practicing the power of positive thinking! I''m glad you believe it, too.\r\n\r\nNisha, your comment made me laugh—and cringe a tiny bit. :) I hope you know that I really don''t resent all the youth roaming this town. I think it''s energizing in so many ways, and I love having access to a student perspective on your blog, too. Thanks for being a part of this diverse community.\r\n\r\nMike, that''s so good to hear. Just as Nisha enjoys the perspective of people 20 years older than her, I''m so glad that lots of people 20 years older than me are participating in social media and sharing their wise perspective. Keep it up!\r\n\r\nNatalie, reading what you wrote, "remembering how self-conscious/obsessive I felt about something ridiculously minor," is like looking into my own thoughts. I was SO much like that, and I''m so glad I''m not any more. One of the very lovely things about gracefully aging into our selves. :)\r\n\r\nDaisy, sharing a birthday with Dr. Seuss has been one of my favorite random details about myself since I was a little girl. I can''t think of many famous people I''d rather share a birthday with. Your blog post about him is great, btw. (And I''d love to share my cake, too, if I could. Jason made me an amazing cheesecake with dark chocolate and pistachios.)\r\n\r\nCarmen, I''ll make you a deal: You get yourself out to Central Illinois for a visit, and I''ll show you the stretch marks (said with a "show me the money" inflection). I wear them with pride, but I''m not *quite* proud enough to share them on the Internet—they''re reserved for my closest, long-time pals like you. :)\r\n\r\nejly, well said. Experience can''t be gained from reading articles in checkout aisle magazines—it only comes with time. And we''ve earned it!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1704, 284, 'Cobalt-Blue', 'michelle.feelingroovy@gmail.com', '', '69.221.250.6', '2009-03-03 00:35:07', '2009-03-03 04:35:07', 'Happy Birthday, KT!\r\n\r\nGrey hairs, crows feet, &amp; stretch marks are all about life experience and gaining wisdom. That''s what I like to think about mine. Enjoy the weeks ahead while celebrating your birthday because, you know, birthday festivities need to last for more than one day.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.18.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.1.2 Safari/525.20.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1719, 284, 'The Modern Gal', 'themoderngal@gmail.com', 'http://themoderngal.blogspot.com', '67.187.116.24', '2009-03-03 21:07:50', '2009-03-04 01:07:50', 'Happy birthday!\r\n\r\nIt really is all about how you feel, isn''t it? I think you''ve got a beautiful attitude about age that will serve you well!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1272, 262, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-02-16 20:37:55', '2009-02-17 00:37:55', 'We do have so much in common. I worry about that same things, too, and can only hope my fellow bloggers know me better than that by now. I love the title of this post. I think you''re doing a great job bringing it all together and making it work.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; InfoPath.2)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1273, 262, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-02-16 21:13:41', '2009-02-17 01:13:41', 'I love the idea of the group going out for a bite to eat afterward. I imagine some said grace, some didn''t, but all respected and enjoyed each other.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2195, 312, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-04-03 00:22:09', '2009-04-03 04:22:09', 'Angela, you''re famous in my world! In your second comment, you mentioned the research you did over at WeFollow. It''s funny, I thought of just using "Jesus," but then I over-thought it (again) and didn''t want it to seem like I think I *am* Jesus. Sheesh! I had a good laugh over your overly-long WeFollow list. That''s just how complicated people are, isn''t it?\r\n\r\nJeb, you''re absolutely right—we should all care less about what others think. I''m not saying we *ought* to be concerned with how others view us. I''m just saying that''s a reality for me. I can try to fight it, with varying degrees of success, but I still want people to truly see me and know me for who I am. When I suspect they don''t, it''s really hard for me to just let it go. I''m really glad, though, that you don''t put me into any particular boxes. Some people just get it, you know? :)\r\n\r\nCheryl, you''ve outlined what''s useful and dangerous about labels, AND you''ve taken some of the pressure off of the situation. Thanks! The whole idea of blowing the stereotypes by first "using" them is wonderful: "what about those who get to know you through your label and are changed by coming into contact with an authentic “Christian,â€ “momâ€ and “blogger/writer?â€ That''s what I always hope for when people somehow end up at my blog. I just hope they don''t get turned off by some trigger term and leave before they take in some of the stories.\r\n\r\njenx67, yeah, I''m thinking Jesus is the one to stick with. And you bring up an interesting point, perhaps inadvertently: It''s not about the numbers. I can honestly say that, with the whole WeFollow thing, I haven''t been trying to figure out which tags will attract the most followers. I simply want to be true to who I am—I want "truth in advertising," so to speak. I do a lot of branding work for clients, and I always tell them that our task isn''t to determine who they *wish* they were, and then come up with a plan to make people believe it''s true. We''re trying to uncover who they *really* are, and how to make the most of that true character, in a cohesive, meaningful way. It sure isn''t usually easy, though.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021906 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(7728, 560, 'Angela Harms', 'angela.harms@gmail.com', 'http://RadicalLoveProject.com', '76.181.130.255', '2010-01-27 12:40:21', '2010-01-27 16:40:21', 'I get like that, and it drives me crazy, too. Sometimes everybody around me pisses me off; they can''t do anything right. (I scare myself when it''s my loved-ones that I''m annoyed with. I don''t want them to experience that!)\r\n\r\nI''ve begun to discover that when I''m not compassionate toward someone else, usually that means that I haven''t been compassionate toward myself. When I really let myself feel what''s happening within me, compassion comes much easier. \r\n\r\nSomeone slowing me down in traffic and I''m mad, telling myself how they''re wrong, it''s all their fault... then I take a breath (or five) and notice that I''m really scared. I''m going to be late with an appointment with that person who looks down on me anyway, judging me as disorganized, disheveled, inadequate. Oh! That hurts! \r\n\r\nLately when I get annoyed, sometimes I can remember to ask myself what compassion for me would look like.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US) AppleWebKit/532.0 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/3.0.195.38 Safari/532.0', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(1276, 269, 'Betty Duffy', 'bettyduffy2@yahoo.com', 'http://bettyduffy.blogspot.com', '67.177.100.218', '2009-02-16 23:38:11', '2009-02-17 03:38:11', 'The thing I find interesting about blogging, is that it''s sort of like sending a personal letter out to whomever wants to read it.  Personal blogs can seem very intimate even if they''re selective in what they present.  As a consequence, I can read your blog, feel like I know you, yet if I choose not to comment or make my presence here known, you have no idea I exist. It''s so odd.  You do a good job of engaging your readers in conversation here on your blog, so while I might lurk on other blogs, when I''m invited to weigh in on things, I usually do.  \r\n\r\nAnyway, I think your point was about the social networking sites, but my point I guess is that, I might feel compelled to follow you on twitter because I''ve read your blog, and I think, "Oh that''s Kristin, my divorced, liberal, Christian, mommy friend. I know her. I know the view from her front porch, and how she''s going to talk to her kids about sex."  But unless I''ve commented on your blog or something, you probably have no idea who I am.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; .NET CLR 1.1.4322)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1278, 269, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-17 00:27:00', '2009-02-17 04:27:00', 'Sara, saying that I made you "laugh and think at the same time" is perhaps the greatest compliment I could hope to be given! I''m glad you resonated with my thoughts and found something of value in them, even though they seem very half-baked to me, much of the time. :)\r\n\r\nBetty Duffy, YES! That''s exactly right. There are all of these people out there who know so many personal details about me (or you, for readers of your blog), who are no more than a stat in Google Analytics.  It IS a very strange thing. And then here''s the other side of the strangeness: I can totally imagine getting in my car and driving two hours to visit you, like we''re "real" friends, even though we''ve never met or even talked on the phone! We both write personal blogs, though, so we have open windows into one another''s hearts and minds. It''s all very surreal, isn''t it?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2397, 337, 'Blackwasp19', 'joshuacanada@gmail.comw', 'http://ww.blackwasp19.wordpress.com', '99.181.226.123', '2009-05-01 16:38:08', '2009-05-01 20:38:08', 'Perhaps the definition of stereotype is a key issue. Kristin, like you, words for me have great meaning. I define stereotype is attributing a characteristic to someone of a given group primarily because they are of that group (i.e. I''m Black I must like Chicken, your a Woman you must know how to or Salim is Arab he must be a Muslim). Some can be based in truthful generalities many Black people do like chicken and many women do know how to cook. But they can be rooted in falsities and prejudice as well, MOST Arab-Americans are Christians (65 percent or so). The essence of stereotype is automatically attributing ANY real or perceived group characteristic to individuals who may be in that group.\r\n\r\nI DO believe that people need to stand up against stereotypes - I fear that stance of mine is getting lost in the conversation. If someone suggest that a black person is "Acting White" because of their education or style of speech, we HAVE to confront that - that is a complicated almost reverse manifestation of a stereotype.  My issue is when we assume things are stereotypes rather than them just being generalizations . For example, the Pew Research data (I love Pew); that is a generalization. The reality that is TRUE, and it doesn''t bother me that those correlations are what Pew reported - the truth of the report DOES bother me though because I ideologically disagree with those who believe torturing should be allow in any manner.  What would bother me is if someone assumed I, you or all Christians - which isn''t even the population of the research - believed that. \r\n\r\nI also want to point out that I think we need to stop mentioning them in our conversations, that DOESN''T mean we don''t confront them - those are two different things for me. It also doesn''t mean that we don''t structurally confront stereotypes. I hear stereotypes all the time and I try to confront them with my friends, I think media and other public forms are necessary in combating stereotypes people have about the LGBTQ community. Ignoring stereotypes isn''t what I am propagating. But when we try to prevent generalizations from being stereotypes I think we are mis-speaking and in actuality perpetuating stereotypes. My life isn''t to not be a stereotype it is to be who I am which may not fit in the generalization..  \r\n\r\nWith the Calvin issue, Bush speaking didn''t have to reinforce any stereotype. Generally most Evangelical Christians in the U.S. liked Bush (on the relative scale of most Americans liking Bush as much as a skunk). It played into a generality, but not a stereotype - no one ways saying all Evangelical Christians like Bush. That act in and of itself shouldn''t act as a fodder for enhancing stereotypes. But I think when people (Christian or Non-Christian) jump on that and treat it like a stereotype that gives it life. Me as an Evangelical Christian saying, "I don''t want Bush to speak" seems to give more opportunities for people to see the diversity within Evangelical Christianity than me worrying that Calvin is perpetuating a stereotype. \r\n\r\nPerhaps the crux is differentiating between generalization and stereotype. Culturally I don''t believe we don''t define these well.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2228, 308, 'Jamie', 'jamie@intersectedblog.com', 'http://www.intersectedblog.com', '99.139.71.51', '2009-04-04 03:10:27', '2009-04-04 07:10:27', 'Beautiful!\r\n\r\nI have a similar story, although my friend and I didn''t wait a year to meet. I met a friend through Twitter and now she''s probably one of the best friends I''ve ever had. It''s amazing! \r\n\r\nI love when the lines blur like that.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.16 (KHTML, like Gecko) NetNewsWire/3.1.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2373, 337, 'Jason', 'jb@jason-berg.com', '', '66.209.208.1', '2009-04-28 18:32:57', '2009-04-28 22:32:57', 'Blackwasp19, i love you brother, but i''ve long felt that we all need to do more calling out, not less. Your make a good point, Christians do a lot, but i have a really strong feeling that people who self declare as non-christian end up contributing back to society at about the same rate. (i know quite a few) The test i think should not be, are Christians doing good, its the net effect. If we''re feeding the homeless with the left hand, and building walls to keep people out with the right what is gained? There are plenty of Christians out there telling the world how great everything is but far too few dissenting voices that stand up to the power structure and publicly say "open your ears and hear!"', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_4_11; en) AppleWebKit/525.18 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.1.1 Safari/525.18', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(2374, 339, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-04-28 23:05:02', '2009-04-29 03:05:02', 'I had a good chuckle when I read your title, if only, eh? I have read that book too, there''s one for kids too - isnt that great :-}?  I would hasten to add then, how much of ones love language is necessary to fill that ''ol tank? How satisfied can one be with the amount their partner is able to give - course there''s the ''give and you shall recieve'' aspect.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.9) Gecko/2009040821 Firefox/3.0.9 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2375, 337, 'Blackwasp19', 'joshuacanada@gmail.com', '', '199.8.89.251', '2009-04-29 10:29:09', '2009-04-29 14:29:09', 'Good to hear from you Jason,\r\n\r\nI agree - I love you too. \r\n\r\nI don''t want to suggest that non-Christians aren''t a force, but I don''t think Christians often get the credit they should - both in the church and outside. From being involved, I see Christians mainly, not that others aren''t there - I have served with them, but I see a lot of Christians. \r\n\r\nThe picture of American Christianity seems to have been focused around the Falwells, Joel Osteens,  Hybels, T.D. Jakes etc. but we miss the pleothra of people like, David Gushee, John Perkins, Ron Sider, Tony Evans, Eugene Cho, etc. I think instead of going against the former we need to promote the latter, that seems like more useful energy - and implicit in that promotion we are fighting ideologies we disagree with. I fear it is too easy to be against than to be for. And I think many people are against many things, but for very few.\r\n\r\nIn the long run Christians are to promote just systems and loving interactions. The macro and micro are inextricable.  \r\n\r\nKristin - I want people to hear those stories of mine too . I want to allow them to see who I am, and allow the narrative of my life to break the stereotype. \r\n\r\nI do think when someone brings up a stereotype that we need to confront it. I simply don''t know if we should be mentioning stereotypes in our conversations. it just doesn''t seem beneficial. I believe our stereotypes would die - even if only partially, if we would only stop referencing them so often and just lived our lives as who we are.  \r\n\r\nI really believe that even Christian living, in the way that I believe it should be, is a turn off to some. I worry that we often think that Christians shouldn''t turn off folks. While I don''t believe that anyone should intentionally turn another off, I also believe that it will inevitably happen, which is a very sad thing and something that doesn''t sit right for me. \r\n\r\nGood Convo :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.5) Gecko/2008120122 Firefox/3.0.5', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2376, 339, 'Sam', 'sundayschoolrebel@yahoo.com', 'http://www.sundayschoolrebel.typepad.com', '75.66.4.241', '2009-04-29 11:09:01', '2009-04-29 15:09:01', 'What a great post. I totally have this book on my bookshelf, and have read through part of it - thank goodness you mentioned you don''t like the writing style, that''s most likely the reason I put it down. Still, I''ve heard the love languages - and I know I express my love with Acts of Service. I am all about making my honey''s favorite dishes when I want to show him that I love him!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US) AppleWebKit/525.19 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/1.0.154.59 Safari/525.19', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2377, 337, 'Jason', 'brechinj@gmail.com', 'http://cleverfoodblog.blogspot.com/', '141.142.232.38', '2009-04-29 11:15:38', '2009-04-29 15:15:38', 'Kristin - Interesting comment on your fear of people "catch[ing] a whiff of religion and... running off".  When I first came across your blog, I had that reaction.  I like discussing religion and seeing what people have to say, but I didn''t need a "God-blog" in my life.  Some time later, I read more posts and came to realize that you have a lot of interesting things to say, and you''re so open to talking about your beliefs and practices.  Now, I''m not going to be converting or anything, but you offer an insight into a Christian way of thinking that I don''t feel was accessible to me before.  Thanks!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.9) Gecko/2009040821 Firefox/3.0.9 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(2378, 339, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-04-29 14:00:41', '2009-04-29 18:00:41', 'Trina, I''m glad you caught the humor! The more I thought about it, the funnier it became. I started thinking things like "Acts of Service could be a time-consuming love language, but at least things would be getting done around the house!" You ask a good question, too, about "how much" is needed to fill up a tank. I don''t know. Are all of our tanks different sizes? And how much should our main tanks be filled by people other than our spouse? A topic we could discuss for days, I''m sure. :)\r\n\r\nSam, so are you inspired to pick the book back up? When I mention this idea to people who haven''t read the book, they tend to immediately start talking about what language they *show* love in, rather than what language they (or their partner) *receive* love in. That''s the key. And that''s why I try not to just have one blanket expression of love as a parent of three kids—they don''t all respond to the same things or need the same things. Anyway, let me know if you finish the book! I find the whole concept endlessly interesting.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.8) Gecko/2009032608 Firefox/3.0.8', '', 0, 0, 'N');
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(1280, 262, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-17 00:54:23', '2009-02-17 04:54:23', 'jenx67, you need to remind me, at some point, about all the things we have in common. Or are there so many that it starts to get strange? :) Yes, I need to get more into the mode of thinking "they better know me by now," so I can move away from my silly worries. Thanks for affirming and supporting what I''m doing. (And can you believe I wrote that title THEN found that perfect photo, with so many layers of meaning?)\r\n\r\nDaisy, you and I clearly think alike when it comes to food and conversation, as well as a desire to be open and to respect differences. Thanks for being a part of this community.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1724, 284, 'Loren', 'lmones@yahoo.com', 'http://coffee-nook.blogspot.com/', '222.127.146.34', '2009-03-04 03:38:24', '2009-03-04 07:38:24', 'Happy Birthday! I''d be turning 39 this year, too. We''re on the same boat. I exactly feel the same way that you do.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows NT 5.1; SV1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1741, 286, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-03-04 21:21:27', '2009-03-05 01:21:27', 'Sometimes I''ll vent on Twitter and then wonder if i overdid it. It''s a little easier on Plurk, where the conversations post together, to keep things balanced and in perspective.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2368, 339, 'Writer Dad', 'seanmichaelplatt@gmail.com', 'http://writerdad.com', '71.108.131.118', '2009-04-28 13:00:16', '2009-04-28 17:00:16', 'I live nine blocks from the beach and I''m too busy, don''t feel bad. \r\n\r\nI believe it''s all about stealing the moments when you have them. Despite living together and working together, my wife and I actually have few scant moments together where we''re not talking shop or childcare. Yet those moments that we do have, we make sure, are imbued with the five languages. Even though we didn''t know that''s what they were. : &gt; )', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.16 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0 Safari/528.16', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1301, 262, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-18 01:02:00', '2009-02-18 05:02:00', 'Scott, I like how you put it: "I love writing about my faith, how I have blown it in the past, how I blow it now, and how each time Jesus is there to pick me up." You''re obviously doing a lot to dispel myths about Christians, just by being humble and open rather than self-righteous and judgmental. Keep doing what you''re doing, and thanks for being a part of the community here.\r\n\r\nJeb, you nailed the problem: "when these absolute beliefs translate into intolerance." I am so grateful to be able to interact with lots of people who are different from me. At my girls'' elementary school right now, there''s a huge bulletin board some of the kids made that says "We are all the same, we are all different." That seems like the very healthiest way to see one another.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1302, 268, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-18 01:15:07', '2009-02-18 05:15:07', 'I''ve added a photo of the decorated cookies. Here''s the family recipe!\r\n\r\nButter cookies:\r\n\r\nIn a mixing bowl, with electric beater, cream 1 cup of butter. Gradually add 1/2 cup sugar, beating until light and fluffy. Beat in 1 egg and 1/2 tsp. real almond extract. Gradually blend in 2 1/2 cups of flour. Chill dough for a few hours or longer.\r\n\r\nPreheat oven to 350 degrees. Roll out dough on a lightly floured surface to 1/8-inch to 1/4-inch thick. Cut with cookie cutters, place on baking sheets. Bake 8-12 minutes, depending on thickness. \r\n\r\nAfter cookies have cooled, frost with a simple glaze of powdered sugar, almond extract to taste, and enough water to achieve the right consistency (+ food coloring, of course!).', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4890, 426, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-07-26 00:08:55', '2009-07-26 04:08:55', 'Joanna, your comment about "sheer amount of estrogen" was pretty funny. I''m actually fairly outgoing and comfortable at parties and around groups of people I don''t know, but when the competitive element is thrown in, I get the urge to bow out. I''ll have to check out some of the smaller, more locally-oriented blogging conferences and get-togethers.\r\n\r\nTrina, I think deep down I don''t buy into that status stuff, but of course there''s a weaker part of me that falls for it, just like I momentarily fell for some of the wrong guys during my younger years. :) That''s probably why I feel the conflict so strongly in the first place. Regarding Blogher10, I think I just need to look into it more carefully over the next 6 months, and look into other conferences and seminars, too. Then I can make smart decisions for the right reasons, rather than just do something because I feel like it''s "the thing to do."\r\n\r\nAndi, I think I would come away from most conference experiences inspired and refreshed, too. I guess all of this has made me realize that I should take note of what''s lacking in this professional realm of my life, and find ways to fill those holes, whether it''s Blogher or something else. Thanks for stopping by Halfway to Normal! I''m glad you enjoy it.\r\n\r\nDaisy, I bet you have many professional activities and opportunities tied to your career as a teacher. Do you think that makes it easier to just enjoy blogging for what it is—a fun, creative outlet and opportunity to connect around subjects you love? I wonder if I would feel differently about all of this if I was actively involved in some other professional pursuit. Hmmm. Good to ponder (but neither here nor there, I guess). :)\r\n\r\njen, I''m not sure how I feel about stressing you out about all of this even more! Sorry! Sometimes I should probably keep some of my crazy, wandering thoughts to myself! (But then you go and compliment me for being so focused. Bless you for saying that!) Anyway, two quick things: 1) I''m very glad that your blog is exactly the sort of blog it is—push and explore your boundaries, but don''t change your focus; and 2) I really hope we find the right conference to hit together some time in the next year. Maybe we can even form that rag-tag group with Tracy. We just have to do our best to be who we are.\r\n\r\nLaura, I don''t know about "way cooler." Perhaps I''m just way more angst-prone? Or simply more easily distracted by the wrong things? Either way, a very happy birthday to your blog. I recently hit that one-year mark, too (at least when measured by my "serious" start date, not that first attempt at blogging about two years ago). We can keep each other company here on the food chain.\r\n\r\nEmma, wow! That''s huge. Thanks so much for saying that.\r\n\r\nTracy, you make me laugh at your blog and then you make me laugh at my blog! Thanks for not taking this whole blogging business more seriously than you do—you would certainly lose some of what makes your blog so great. If I do end up at Blogher next year, can I be a part of your "dorky, gawky, unpolished brigade?" Maybe I won''t really fit in there, either, but at least it won''t be as obvious.\r\n\r\nLisa, yes, I can tell you''ve gone through all the same mixed feelings I have. I get the sense that if all of us who felt that way could have identified one another and even had some of our own sessions, we would have had a great time. Hmm.\r\n\r\nLesley, your description—"the most surreal/fun/awful experience I’ve had in a long time"—is so funny. AND believable. Especially if you didn''t know what the whole Twitter thing was about. I can completely imagine how alien I would feel in that circumstance. As you hinted, your expectations and being prepared really play into how much you can enjoy an event like that. Maybe that was the main problem this year—I just knew I wasn''t prepared. (Hope to meet you some day, too!)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.11) Gecko/2009060214 Firefox/3.0.11', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1752, 286, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-05 12:20:58', '2009-03-05 16:20:58', 'Jennifer, I think one of the things I loved about you from the moment I met you was how openly accepting you are of people being exactly who they are. (And yes, I agree it''s oddly liberating to reveal important parts of who we are with people we hardly know.)\r\n\r\ndaisy17, it''s great to see one of my favorite twitter buddies getting in on the conversation here! :) What you said about wanting your updates to be real is spot on: "real isn’t always happy or easy. Real is sometimes irritated, annoyed, or frustrated." Your story about your waxer cracked me up—somehow it''s definitely more a twitter-appropriate story than FB, though. You''re right, there is a difference because of the audience.\r\n\r\nPatrick, you are too kind. And I''m glad to know I''m not the only one who over-thinks these things regarding message, audience, nuance, etc. etc. Sheesh! This is especially funny: "Do I want to just post what I am doing, how I am feeling, etc. OR should I post something hoping to generate feedback and create meaningful discussion? Why shouldn’t those be the same? Am I that boring or self focused?" I can really relate.\r\n\r\nKathryn, welcome! You point out perfectly how important the balance is. Negative tweets/updates might unknowingly belittle what others are going through, but it works both ways—displaying your so-called shiny happy perfect life for everyone to see can result in a whole bunch of people feeling incompetent and bad about their own lives.\r\n\r\nJenx67, I thought you might like this post, since you were right there with Chuck in the FB status banter. :) The potential for a FB community to become one big sensational gossip factory is huge, especially when it comes to the tough things in life, like divorce or losing a job. No one needs more "friends" like that. (But coffee some day with you? Most definitely.)\r\n\r\nDaisy, I haven''t heard much about Plurk. Sounds interesting. (And by the way, I have never once thought you overdid it on Twitter. It seems to me like you''re being your wonderful self!)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1751, 286, 'Ashley', 'ashleygvelez@gmail.com', 'http://www.ashleygraceless.com', '68.153.33.3', '2009-03-05 12:01:07', '2009-03-05 16:01:07', 'Great post! (Echo much?)  I''ve also wondered if I''ve Tweeted something that sounds too morose, but I realize that''s my way of getting stuff out and if I don''t, it''ll fester.  I try to also post things that aren''t so angry/depressing because like you, I immediately remind myself of what I have and what I''m thankful for.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1313, 274, 'Ryan', 'oktoberfive@gmail.com', 'http://oktober5.com', '69.247.78.160', '2009-02-18 12:49:44', '2009-02-18 16:49:44', 'You''re much braver than I would be... then again, I was never an intense friendship person. My motto: the fewer friends the better and if I saw them infrequently, that was super great. Of course, then I got married and now spend every day with my wife, and it''s fantastic. But I think I''ll stop there and leave the courageous tasks to braver people :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_4; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.18 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.1.2 Safari/525.20.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1314, 274, 'TJ Hirst', 'tj@tjhirst.com', 'http://www.tjhirst.com/', '97.112.9.138', '2009-02-18 13:23:38', '2009-02-18 17:23:38', 'From your tweets you seem to be doing fairly well at finding people to hang out with. My husband and I are in need of a little mix-up in the friend department. We''ve not had couple friends that we go out with regularly in a long time. That''s harder to create in a small town, when you''re a transplant and everyone has kids to consume their time. We can always hope it will happen on one of our weekly dates, but I think I actually have to be intentional about it.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1315, 263, 'Anita Cater', 'anitacater@verizon.net', '', '70.21.48.136', '2009-02-18 14:02:21', '2009-02-18 18:02:21', 'Hi, You are so right on with your note on the need for unstructured play. I love your bottom of the page categories of previous posts.  Just before my first child was born, I was an educator for an exhibition project about invention and play: www.inventionatplay.org.\r\n\r\nThat experience really transformed my thinking about play and helped me to realize the value of fantasy play, imagination, and daydreaming.  Not just cute, sweet notions of play they are deeply developmental and important parts of childhood.\r\n\r\nThere is I think an organization dedicated to the value of play.  And man they are hard core.\r\n\r\nA book that we found in the exhibition research is "The Scientist in the Crib" which forever made me disdainful of baby einstein and the perceived need for child to have specific play materials in order to develop, or the overall notion of parents that their child needs to excel.  What happened to just being a kid?\r\n\r\nI''m grooving on this post.\r\nA', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5724, 462, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-09-03 01:17:32', '2009-09-03 05:17:32', 'Jennifer, I''m sure being able to see the good is an example of grace, because it''s not something that typically comes easily for me. What I especially love about this realization (my daughter needing me) is how it suddenly washed over me—I wasn''t even working hard to locate a silver lining!\r\n\r\nTrina, I guess the broken arm brought into sharp relief the fact that our kids always need us, even when it doesn''t seem like it. It''s easy to forget that, especially with a child who always seems to have her act together.\r\n\r\nHamish, thanks for reading!\r\n\r\nAngie, "sweet" does just seem like the right word, doesn''t it? That sweetness that lingers, so you can savor it even after the tangible reality is gone.\r\n\r\nRhonda, I have thought of you and your little one so many times since Q broke her arm! We (well, most of us) truly take so many things for granted. Your perspective is so much broader than most, though, and I suspect B''s view of the world will always be wise beyond her years.\r\n\r\nCandace, I think now I will look for more babying opportunities than I used to. As parents, many of us seem to spend so many years pushing for independence and rooting each small success. Then suddenly we reach the tipping point into adolescence, and it''s a bit upsetting! \r\n\r\nLynda, I just know there are so many things I''m not appreciating each day. What a waste! I think it''s time for me to slow down a little more.\r\n\r\nLaurachris2, yes, "no matter how they come" indeed. Sometimes that delivery device is the biggest mystery of all (and is destined to remain a mystery).\r\n\r\nRobin, just like everyone says, they grow up so fast! I''m glad you''re making the most of these days with your little ones.\r\n\r\nCobalt-Blue, I giggled, too, when Q made that comment. It''s not like any of us has ever been to a "fine spa!" If she wants to think a scalp massage by mama is what it''s all about, that''s fine with me. \r\n\r\n jenx67, thanks so much for saying that. As I mentioned earlier, it''s only by grace that I am able to see any of the blessings right in front of me.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.13) Gecko/2009073021 Firefox/3.0.13', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7544, 555, 'The Modern Gal', 'themoderngal@gmail.com', 'http://themoderngal.blogspot.com', '75.148.60.50', '2010-01-20 19:57:20', '2010-01-20 23:57:20', 'I especially appreciate your recognition that Haiti is in worse shape now because its people have been ignored for too long and that Pat Robertson has the voice that he does because enough hasn''t been done to counter him.\r\n\r\nI, too, often feel hopeless when huge tragedy strikes. I think it is important to remember that everything we do can help, but it is especially important to back up our words with action.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 5.1; Trident/4.0; GTB6; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; InfoPath.2; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; OfficeLiveConnector.1.4; OfficeLivePatch.1.3)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7302, 551, 'Meredith', 'meridethdabek@hotmail.com', 'http://www.ordinarymer.com/', '75.69.164.218', '2010-01-05 20:46:08', '2010-01-06 00:46:08', 'Thank you. \r\n\r\nThere''s a whole lot more I could probably say, since I''ve struggled with depression a great deal in my own life and I have had experience with anti-depressants as well, but really, all that really matters is that you spoke up. You''re helping take away some of the stigma attached to depression so that one day, people won''t be embarrassed to talk about it. \r\n\r\nSo, thank you.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.4; en-US; rv:1.9.1.6) Gecko/20091201 Firefox/3.5.6', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(7303, 551, 'roxanne', 'roxanne@aneccentricmagnolia.com', 'http://www.aneccentricmagnolia.com', '64.180.76.99', '2010-01-05 21:18:39', '2010-01-06 01:18:39', 'How brave, Kristin, to reach past the taboo and start talking about depression. I blog as <em>tinkerbell the bipolar faerie</em> ~ my way of poking fun at my illness. I blog openly about my bipolar experience. At the risk of seeming self-indulgent, I want others to know they''re not alone, and to become better informed about mental illness. The secrecy fuels the stigma. It''s a chain you have broken by sharing your story with us.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.5) Gecko/2008120122 Firefox/3.0.5 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5734, 462, 'Elaine Tolsma-Harlow', 'reoharlow@hotmail.com', '', '97.83.12.145', '2009-09-03 10:56:09', '2009-09-03 14:56:09', 'With O the same exact age as Q this one really hit.  Thanks Kristin for reminding me to stop and just hold her (although she may roll her eyes...)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/531.9 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.3 Safari/531.9', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1333, 274, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-02-19 01:06:35', '2009-02-19 05:06:35', 'we have been re-evaluating our social lie of late too, me thinks we may need to be a it more intentional...', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5723, 462, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-09-02 21:54:19', '2009-09-03 01:54:19', 'the gift of a broken arm. you always see your way through to the blessing, Kristin. I love that.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; GTB6; SU 3.23; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; InfoPath.2; Alexa Toolbar; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30618)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4752, 418, 'Jon Swanson', 'jnswanson@gmail.com', 'http://300wordsaday.com', '71.97.136.128', '2009-07-19 20:25:51', '2009-07-20 00:25:51', 'Thank you. I learned it in college (oral interpretation class). It is the only poem I know complete. Except I haven''t said it this year. I hadn''t stopped long enough. Til now. Thanks.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.1) Gecko/20090715 Firefox/3.5.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2714, 349, 'Jason', 'brechinj@gmail.com', 'http://www.cleverfoodblog.com', '141.142.232.38', '2009-05-11 14:02:58', '2009-05-11 18:02:58', 'The hard part about comment debates is that anyone can join in or drop out of the "conversation" at any time, leaving many loose ends.  I like sharing my POV through comments, but there are many times that I''ve written an entire comment, sometimes paragraphs, only to close the window because I felt like it was just not going to be productive.  As much as I would like to debate, it just doesn''t seem like the best place to accomplish anything.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(2715, 349, 'Rebecca', 'rlthorman@gmail.com', 'http://modite.com/blog', '69.128.50.90', '2009-05-11 14:15:14', '2009-05-11 18:15:14', 'Ah, great post! I love when people disagree with me, but of course I get frustrated when it goes from the original point of the post. In this case, I think you did a great job responding. The only other thing I try to do is thank the person for sharing their perspective and to tell them I learn from differing opinions. Because I do.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2716, 349, 'Rebecca', 'rlthorman@gmail.com', 'http://modite.com/blog', '69.128.50.90', '2009-05-11 14:17:12', '2009-05-11 18:17:12', 'Oops, I see you do thank the guy in the beginning and say he brings up good points. :) So great response!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1337, 274, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-19 02:31:57', '2009-02-19 06:31:57', 'Ryan, I don''t know if I''d call it "brave," but thanks! I think Jason and I are just natural extroverts. We both have a lot of social energy (and I''m by myself for hours every work day, so I''m all fueled up for evenings and weekends). Now I''m just thinking more about shifting *who* we spend our "social time" with, and trying to let go of old patterns of friendship and what I think it should look like.\r\n\r\nTJ, it''s true—we don''t have any trouble finding people to hang out with when we want to hang out. The problem is more internal, in my own expectations and longings around deep friendship. I''m trying to see what kind of positive shift might be taking place because we''re currently lacking "best friends." Does that make sense? I don''t know. I feel like I didn''t explain myself very clearly in this post...but I know I''m not alone. Adults go through friendship needs/wishes/changes, too, just as you described.\r\n\r\nJR, ah yes, the passive existence versus the proactive one. It takes effort, doesn''t it? I think everyone needs and enjoys some level of social interaction and fun, but I think those who are more extroverted among us actively crave it and need it It''s like realizing you need caffeine because you''re starting to get a headache. If I go too long without good conversation and fun, I start to feel the side effects. \r\n\r\nTrina, this "less intentional" idea that I came up with doesn''t really work all of the time. Or at least it doesn''t always come across as clearly as I''d like. And you''re right—evaluating your social life and determining what changes you need to make involves a certain intentionality. But maybe not planning out every weekend in advance allows for something unexpected to come up, like a last-minute dinner invitation, or an opportunity to run into friends you haven''t seen in a while and to decide spontaneously to grab a beer. I guess I''m thinking about "less intentional" as being less planned out, and more open-ended. It''s a tricky balance, and I''m hoping I can find the sweet spot.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1338, 263, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-19 02:38:56', '2009-02-19 06:38:56', 'Anita, I''m so glad you chimed in! I had no idea you had so much experience around this topic. I agree—the best toys for little ones are things that can be played with in many different ways, not the ones that have been designed to be overtly "educational." As you said, encouraging fantasy play and imagination aren''t just "cute, sweet notions of play, they are deeply developmental and important parts of childhood." Amen!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5836, 464, 'Jeb', 'jebdickerson@mac.com', 'http://www.howtomatter.com', '68.5.184.51', '2009-09-08 21:08:36', '2009-09-09 01:08:36', 'Hi KT,\r\nYou have quite effectively made my argument for me against organization as a whole. Whenever, it seems, men and women gather in support of something, that something slowly but surely becomes secondary to (fill in the blank with any of the following, or add your own for added fun: position jockeying, self-aggrandizement, gossip, judgment, pursuing an agenda that has very little to do with ''something'').\r\n\r\nI''ve got enough guilt and fear about my life without any help from Christians, Republicans or otherwise. I agree that faith pushes those to the margins, eliminates them altogether when held tight. But faith, like charity, starts at home. Our first priority, in my experience, must be faith in ourselves...only then can we truly have it in other people, ideas, ideals...', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_8; en-us) AppleWebKit/531.9 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.3 Safari/531.9', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(5837, 464, 'bookhouseboy', 'gregorytaylor@cableone.net', '', '24.117.147.122', '2009-09-08 22:07:05', '2009-09-09 02:07:05', 'Great thoughts, great questions. And so many others have already commented thoughtfully, too, so I''ll just leave it at that. Thanks, Kristin.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.2) Gecko/20090729 Firefox/3.5.2', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6562, 514, 'ed cyzewski', 'julieanded@gmail.com', 'http://www.inamirrordimly.com', '66.168.41.244', '2009-10-26 12:52:06', '2009-10-26 16:52:06', 'It''s interesting to read about that, as I just received a book to review on my blog called, "Good without God." It''s a book about humanism. I think you raise some good points here in response to the related subway ads. The most important part of the book so far in my reading of it is that Christians often overstate the consequences of not following God. There are some quotes from fellahs such as Rick Warren stating that there is no basis for morality without God, which we can argue for on some grounds, but at the same time humanists feel besmirched. \r\n\r\nWhen I read the writings of a humanist such as Kurt Vonnegut, I encounter a lot of reasons for us to be good and decent to one another. Christians don''t have the only path to morality. What we do have to offer is a relationship with the living God and a new life under his Kingdom, and I think we lose the more potent elements of our message when we overreach and leave ourselves open to critique from those who believe they can be good without God. Can they be good without God? Yes. \r\n\r\nThe issue resides in wholeness and the complete nature of our redemption. We can be good in part without God, but our completeness and our ability to continually act out of self-sacrificial love comes from God.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6563, 514, 'Jason', 'brechinj@gmail.com', 'http://www.cleverfoodblog.com', '141.142.232.38', '2009-10-26 13:02:09', '2009-10-26 17:02:09', 'Best response billboard I''ve read about (from <a href="http://www.nwcn.com/statenews/idaho/stories/NW_070109IDN-atheist-billboard-LJ.2619e28a.html" rel="nofollow">Moscow, ID</a>):\r\n\r\n"You are not alone -- God."', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6564, 514, 'Jason', 'brechinj@gmail.com', 'http://www.cleverfoodblog.com', '141.142.232.38', '2009-10-26 13:15:02', '2009-10-26 17:15:02', 'Ed - You say, "We can be good in part without God, but our completeness and our ability to continually act out of self-sacrificial love comes from God."\r\n\r\nSo, people who do not have (a) God in their lives are not complete?  They are not capable to acting out of self-sacrificial love?  I''m sure there are plenty of people who don''t believe in (a) God who are giving their all, even their lives, for others each and every day.  For non-religious people (or people who don''t share a love for the Christian God), the idea that <b>only people who believe in <i>the</i> God can truly be good</b> seems smug, at best.  What about polytheists?  What about all the good that has been done by atheists, agnostics, humanists, et al.?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6565, 472, 'Launching a Month of Thanksgiving &laquo; Newvine Growing &#8212; exploring evolution, revolution and living life intentionally', '', 'http://newvinegrowing.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/launching-a-month-of-thanksgiving/', '72.233.96.141', '2009-10-26 15:08:13', '2009-10-26 19:08:13', '[...] by some wonderful blogs projects I&#8217;ve seen recently &#8212; notably the Love List and 29 Days of Giving &#8212; I issue a call to arms: let&#8217;s spend the next month focusing on [...]', 0, '1', 'The Incutio XML-RPC PHP Library -- WordPress/MU', 'pingback', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6566, 514, 'Ron Simkins', 'simkins@Illinois.edu', '', '76.199.2.243', '2009-10-26 15:14:22', '2009-10-26 19:14:22', 'Four responses:\r\n\r\n1 -- Amen and Thanks, from your Pastor at NCF.  May steal some of your ideas!\r\n2 -- I am incredibly thankful that people choose to be good to others without God in their lives though I would not have.  It makes it a much better world.\r\n3 -- I believe humans (believers in God or not) are stamped with the image of God which includes the ability to choose to do good toward others.\r\n4 -- Still, I wish everyone could experience and express more of God''s goodness.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 6.0; Trident/4.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; MDDC; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6567, 472, '30 Quick Ways To Live In The Moment | Look Far', '', 'http://amandalinehan.com/2009/10/26/30-quick-ways-to-live-in-the-moment/', '69.89.31.231', '2009-10-26 15:55:20', '2009-10-26 19:55:20', '[...] Name something that you love. [...]', 0, '1', 'The Incutio XML-RPC PHP Library -- WordPress/2.8.5', 'pingback', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6568, 514, 'Meredith', 'meridethdabek@hotmail.com', 'http://www.ordinarymer.com/', '155.33.197.219', '2009-10-26 16:19:41', '2009-10-26 20:19:41', 'One of the things that immediately struck me as I read the post and the comments was just how ambiguous that ad really is. Sure, once you realize who’s sponsoring it, the meaning becomes clearer, but it still leaves a lot of room for debate. \r\n\r\nMargo touched on this a bit, in initially thinking the ad was asking “are you sure you’re okay without God?â€ and Ed interpreted the ad’s “goodâ€ as morality (good vs. bad). I read the “goodâ€ in the ad as “okay,â€ “fine,â€ even “happy.â€ I’m not sure if the Big Apple Coalition of Reason meant to be so ambiguous with its word choice, but it actually falls nicely into your idea of increasing awareness, dialogue and thought. The confusion inherent in the ad is a good jumping off point for some of the discussion points you raised. \r\n\r\n3 million New Yorkers are good people with/out God. Are you?\r\n\r\n3 million New Yorkers are happy with/out God. Are you?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.14) Gecko/2009082707 Firefox/3.0.14', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6561, 514, 'Jason', 'brechinj@gmail.com', 'http://www.cleverfoodblog.com', '141.142.232.38', '2009-10-26 12:44:40', '2009-10-26 16:44:40', 'It''s an international campaign.  Here''s reference to <a href="http://chicagoist.com/2009/10/20/atheist_billboard_downtown_stirring.php" rel="nofollow">a Chicago campaign</a> stating "Are You Good Without God? Millions Are."  It''s caused quite a stir, and many billboards and bus ads have been vandalized by people who seem to disagree with sharing the thought that it''s valid to be a good person without God in your life.\r\n\r\nSee photos from <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/charleskrause/3345472825/" rel="nofollow">a Toronto bus</a> or from <a href="http://www.khq.com/global/story.asp?s=11355159" rel="nofollow">Moscow, ID</a>.  British Christians have put out their own ads and <a href="http://www.christianpost.com/article/20090216/christian-party-offices-vandalized-after-launch-of-bus-ads/index.html" rel="nofollow">felt some consequences</a>.  Of course, some people would find that the pro-religion reaction to the billboards to be somewhat <a href="http://cectic.com/comics/159.png" rel="nofollow">hypocritical</a>.  \r\n\r\nI don''t consider myself an atheist, but the overwhelming culture in the US is one of Christianity.  This isn''t the time or place to argue the appropriateness of that, but I would suggest that the only reason this is getting so much attention from news outlets is that atheism is still seen as an invalid or crazy belief system.  Note the difference in tone from the atheist ads and religious sayings and messages that we see every day.  The atheists are just suggesting that something else is out there, a questioning of the status quo, whereas the religious messages tend toward the obvious "truth" of their statements.  And from that we see vandalism and news reports about how atheists are really "shaking things up".', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(2004, 303, 'Cobalt-Blue', 'michelle.feelingroovy@gmail.com', '', '69.214.14.121', '2009-03-21 07:45:42', '2009-03-21 11:45:42', 'You did it! Congratulations! Through reading your blogs, you and your family always struck me as dog people. And, just think, you''ll never have to worry about another rabbit or squirrel hanging out in your yard for too long! Cheers to the love and many laughs and adventures a dog brings to a home.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7440, 552, 'Shannon', 's.callan03@gmail.com', '', '71.186.129.5', '2010-01-13 17:25:42', '2010-01-13 21:25:42', 'Hi Kristin,\r\n\r\nI just wanted to say that, coming from a very charismatic tradition, I''ve grown mistrustful of those bolt from the blue words from The Lord kind of thing. I''ve seen them manipulated to serve the ends of humans instead of the purposes from God, and I''ve seen folks devastated because they didn''t have those experiences. But one thing I think is true: God will be heard. I don''t think he does it very often, but he has the power to make even the most recalcitrant heart (like mine) sit up and pay attention. And I think this allows us humans to rest, rather than chasing after spiritual experiences, which, though they can come from God, are not God. But I guess that, right there, is my epiphany. \r\n\r\nAlso, I would really, really like a membership to Flock! It looks like it''s going to be awesome! Thanks!\r\n\r\nShannon', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.16) Gecko/2009120208 Firefox/3.0.16 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1766, 288, 'Matt Cheuvront', 'mncheuvront@gmail.com', 'http://www.lifewithoutpants.com', '66.89.75.162', '2009-03-06 17:09:58', '2009-03-06 21:09:58', 'Wow. Definitely a much different tone from my somewhat-mindless ''Awesome Friday'' posts (not that there is anything wrong with mindless from time to time - that''s why I post them, to keep my mind on a more ''basic'' level from time to time.\r\n\r\nThat being said - this is an eye opening and inspiring post KT. Let me pre-empt by saying that I am not an extremely religious person, at least not by definition. I consider myself to have a solid relationship with God, but I don''t attend church regularly, read the Bible, or anything of that nature. I was brought up in an environment that sort of ''forced'' religion on me, and it was a big turn off - long story, but that''s the nutshell. I also went to a Christian University (Belmont here in Nashville, TN) so it was a big part of my college experience.\r\n\r\nFirst, some thoughts on the Old Testament - again, I have never sat down and read the Bible cover to cover. But the Old Testament never was appealing to me because I have seen many ''extremists'' for lack of a better term, take the Old Testament VERY literally which sort of freaks me out to think of God as an all-fearing wrathful destructive power. And, as you said, it''s not the symphony of the Bible, it''s the scales - or at least that''s what it appears as to me. \r\n\r\nThe question you bring up that is asked - ''If you are an all powerful God, why do you let horrible things happen in the world'' - Wow. I mean, this is a question I struggle within my own faith, and still don''t claim to understand and all. It''s a question that has made me (and I''m sure many many others) question their faith. Secondly, you bring up an amazing point, in that even those who don''t see Jesus as the son of God can realize and appreciate that he is an example of purity and overall ''perfection'' - overcoming the bad in the world and being the epitome of all that is good.\r\n\r\nAnyways, I''m rambling - but this is a great post. You''ve inspired me to take a look at myself, my own relationship with God, and my overall faith (in a good way). Thank you.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows NT 5.1; SV1; InfoPath.1; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Zune 3.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4881, 426, 'Tracy', 'tracy.oconnor@gmail.com', 'http://www.ihatemymessageboard.com', '70.145.133.65', '2009-07-25 11:18:07', '2009-07-25 15:18:07', 'Oh I so hear you! I wanted to go but had that dread and was honestly a bit relieved when circumstances dictated that I not go. I did find out later that a lot of bloggers that I considered more similar to me (won''t name names to protect their reps, heh) were going and I probably would have had a great time.\r\n\r\nDon''t let life coach Tim read this comment, but yeah, there are times I feel completely uncomfortable, gawky and unsophisticated in this whole blogging world. I''m goofy, doofy and all those other adjectives that end in y and sometimes it feels like we''re supposed to take this whole business a lot more seriously than I''m constitutionally able to do. \r\n\r\nThat said, I''m making tentative plans to go next year and lead the dorky, gawky, unpolished brigade. You know, the tribe that gets uncontrollable giggles at the notion of being in a tribe.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.1.1) Gecko/20090715 Firefox/3.5.1', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(4882, 426, 'Lisa', 'webrina@gmail.com', 'http://www.champaigntaste.com', '98.212.138.136', '2009-07-25 11:26:05', '2009-07-25 15:26:05', 'I know; it seems absurd, on one level, to be so close to Chicago and not be there. It was in Chicago a few years ago, too (2 yrs. ago?) and I didn''t go then, either. I had/have many of the same feelings about the whole thing that you do. I never intended to be in some kind of club on account of my blog. And yet I''m sure there are many wonderful women/people who I would enjoy meeting and seminars/talks I might get a lot out of. I don''t know. It''s great that they''re doing it, and at the same time, I don''t feel obliged to go.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.12) Gecko/2009070611 Firefox/3.0.12 GTB5', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4493, 411, 'Jason', 'brechinj@gmail.com', 'http://www.cleverfoodblog.com', '141.142.232.38', '2009-07-10 10:38:15', '2009-07-10 14:38:15', 'I, for one, love the manual drip coffee making process, but I also wish I had an automatic burr grinder and espresso machine.  Partly because of my parents'' divorce, I missed out on a lot of experiences like this because one or the other "couldn''t" pay for it.  I <i>know</i> that you will all love and appreciate the opportunity of going to the show, even if you are on rice and beans (don''t forget lentils!) for a while.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1) Gecko/20090624 Firefox/3.5 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(4494, 411, 'Mark', 'markeharvey@gmail.com', '', '136.181.195.31', '2009-07-10 10:40:23', '2009-07-10 14:40:23', 'Very true.  Lost our dog 5 months ago and now with kids begging for a new friend we have to make that tough decision of laying out mucho $$$ for another pet (still have that darn cat) or taking them to see places or visit people.  How do you decide on either when they both seem to transcend the cost?  Time to have a garage sale...', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_7; en-us) AppleWebKit/530.19.2 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.2 Safari/530.19', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4495, 411, 'Cobalt-Blue', 'michelle.feelingroovy@gmail.com', '', '68.248.194.25', '2009-07-10 10:42:37', '2009-07-10 14:42:37', 'From one culture lover to the other- I am glad you bought the tickets. Supporting your children''s interest in Shakespeare is definitely an investment in the future of the arts. With ''young people'' attending live performances, there is sure to be a concert base when they are adults. Furthermore, the educational value of Shakespeare is far superior compared to our present day entertainment &amp; pop culture. Enjoy the show and do share the family experience with your readers : )', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_7; en-us) AppleWebKit/530.18 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.1 Safari/530.18', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1772, 286, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-07 00:46:10', '2009-03-07 04:46:10', 'Ashely, I think it''s really important to realize how we need to find healthy outlets for our frustrations. That''s a big part of what being a community is all about, I think. I''m not a FB friend with you, but I can say that your Twitter updates and your blog seem to reflect a very real, balanced *you*.\r\n\r\nTrina, that''s a really interesting observation—tying our use of status updates to what used to be a diary writing practice. We used to be focused on self-awareness and articulation, but only for the purpose of understanding ourselves better, not as a way to orchestrate how others see us. Thanks for bringing that up!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1773, 288, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-07 01:13:08', '2009-03-07 05:13:08', 'Matt, first of all, I''m all for things that are mindless and fun. All in moderation, right? :) And you are clearly doing a whole lot of serious thinking, too. It''s so great to hear what''s going through your mind, and to hear something about your own history with God. I think you touch on a really important aspect of my own issue with the Old Testament: the way extremists have used it to oppress and exert power over people. I''m trying to see it for what it is, not for how it has been manipulated. I will update you, at some point, on where this study of Habakkuk takes me. Thanks for being a part of the discussion. I need fellow travelers!\r\n\r\nJennifer, you love the OT? Really? OK, I had this theory that men are much more likely to be drawn to the OT. Now I''m not sure. Anyway, it doesn''t matter, of course. What I love is *why* you love the OT. That''s powerful and beautiful. It completely builds on what I''ve been thinking, and it''s going to help me continue thinking about it differently now. Thank you.\r\n\r\nLesley, how fun to learn that we had similar college experiences! I actually showed up on my first day of religion class with a Living Bible. Which is a *paraphrase*, mind you! How embarrassing! I quickly replaced it with a Very Serious NIV Study Bible. :) I love your story about how you and your husband fell in love, and I''d love to hear more about your own Bible reading efforts. I''ll keep you posted, too.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1771, 288, 'Lesley', 'lesleymiller1@gmail.com', 'http://millersmeetsacramento.blogspot.com', '65.78.135.144', '2009-03-07 00:10:42', '2009-03-07 04:10:42', 'I love this post for many, many reasons...mainly just that I''m totally there with you. When I showed up at Westmont freshman year of college I thought that EVERYONE but me had years worth of Sunday school knowledge that I''d missed out on growing up. I was, in some ways, correct. My husband actually tutored me through OT (I passed with a C!) otherwise I wouldn''t gotten through it. I like to think that Jesus made OT hard so that I could fall in love with Jonathan, but that might be a little narcissistic. \r\n\r\nThis year, for the first time, I''m reading through the OT and NT together... I''ve honestly hated parts, skimmed the lineages and the nasty chapters on mold, but I''m also learning and love parts that I''ve never noticed before. Please keep us updated on your study. Once I get to Habakkuk I will be looking for some encouragement. :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2239, 318, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-04-06 10:05:34', '2009-04-06 14:05:34', 'you may be the only person on the face of the earth who doesn''t think it strange that when a massive ice storm forced us out of our house in december 2007, the first person to call was my ex husband - and the place we ended up - me, my husband and our three kids - was his place. I hate to call him my "ex" though, as he is, in fact, a dear friend. there has been forgiveness in action for 10 years - though maybe not one apology. when lived out, "sorry" I suppose can become extraneous or irrelevant. your writing is so insightful, so bold. i appreciate it so much.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; InfoPath.2)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2240, 318, 'Arathi', 'arathi.kylasam@gmail.com', '', '128.174.60.182', '2009-04-06 10:22:23', '2009-04-06 14:22:23', 'Great post, Kristin and so true.... by themselves the words are just that -- words.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.3) Gecko/2008092417 Firefox/3.0.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2241, 318, 'Natalie', 'nataliehart@sbcglobal.net', '', '71.155.205.102', '2009-04-06 11:31:07', '2009-04-06 15:31:07', 'Great post, Kristin. But I want to put in a plug for the words. They may be neither necessary nor sufficient, but it can be so good to hear that the other party is sorry that they wronged you -- to hear the acknowledgment that there was a wrong and a responsible party. I''m talking a simple "I''m sorry," not an "I''m sorry you were hurt," or "I''m sorry that happened," neither of which are satisfying in any way. But the better and harder part is living the forgiveness, you''re right about that.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; GTB5; .NET CLR 1.1.4322)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6146, 472, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '75.158.132.136', '2009-09-24 14:26:33', '2009-09-24 18:26:33', 'very cool idea, love the idea of thinking about ''why''. shall join on Friday, as it will make me happy to be part of a cool project - because I enjoy this community you have fostered #lovelist :-)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6290, 486, 'bridgeout', 'wep601@msn.com', 'http://bridgeout.wordpress.com/', '71.185.28.120', '2009-10-03 13:54:21', '2009-10-03 17:54:21', 'I am so glad I found out about this project through Jules. I am beginning my own #lovelist... look forward to exploring this! Thank you!\r\nhttp://bridgeout.wordpress.com/2009/10/03/joining-the-love-list/', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y');
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(6062, 472, 'Mikela', 'mikelarussell@gmail.com', '', '70.147.154.205', '2009-09-18 12:09:56', '2009-09-18 16:09:56', 'First, thanks Lance for sharing this on Twitter!  Kristin, I posted on my facebook and mentioned how I love FB because of the way I can connect with people in my life in ways I might not otherwise. Makes for deeper relationships.  I''ve had a few responses (and reposting).  One idea that came up is to meet at our local sweet shop for a quick get-together, ice cream, and sharing of our lists.  I''ll let you know how it goes!\r\n\r\nThanks for the wonderful idea!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2242, 318, 'Ashley', 'ashleygvelez@gmail.com', 'http://www.ashleygraceless.com', '68.153.33.3', '2009-04-06 12:26:30', '2009-04-06 16:26:30', 'It was so refreshing to hear that somebody else has a hard time saying "I''m sorry."  I am hopelessly stubborn and it really takes me a long time to say it.  What''s worse is I know it shouldn''t, and that piles on self-resentment that I slowly have to chip away at before I can finally come out and admit I was wrong.  \r\n\r\nI also really like your idea of forgiveness as a process instead of just words.  What a great post.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.8) Gecko/2009032608 Firefox/3.0.8', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2693, 347, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-05-10 23:50:48', '2009-05-11 03:50:48', 'Daisy, I love contributing to warm tummy feelings! I have to admit, I was hoping this post wouldn''t be too sappy for my readers. (How/where do you rescue bunnies?)\r\n\r\nTracy, Happy Mothers Day to a mom who clearly loves her kids special! (And aren''t braids the best? I will be very sad when she stops requesting that I braid her hair.)\r\n\r\nJody, I''m glad you brought up the "wanted" and "needed" aspect of being loved. It''s not like we''re being martyrs caring for our dog. We need her and want her here, too, because she gives so much to us. It''s reciprocal, a concept even a dog seems able to grasp. \r\n\r\nJanet, I had never before thought of an animal reflecting our family commitments and values. I love the idea! That she can somehow reflect those important things to others is remarkable, but I believe it is true. Thanks for your insight.\r\n\r\nDave, it does seem like the larger truth here is some combination of the three maxims you brought up. And I really appreciate how you put this: “Wow, there are people that want to be a part of my life . . . just because I am who and how I am.â€ \r\n\r\nModern Gal, wow, it sounds like your dog really went through a lot! I think you''re right about the effects of love being more evident in dogs than in people. Dogs wear all their emotions where their sleeve would be, if they had a shirt. People tend to embrace a lot of coping mechanisms that involve burying fears and hurts rather than letting them go and believing in the possibility of something better.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042315 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6776, 533, 'Ron Simkins', 'simkins@Illinois.edu', '', '70.225.178.47', '2009-11-22 18:48:15', '2009-11-22 22:48:15', 'Read this a few days late and many of the comments are already in the direction I am going, but maybe this is a bit different.\r\n\r\nKristin, I think your insight is one of the cardinal insights of interpretation, not just of the Bible, but of all communication.  If it is to "grow with us," it has to be with an ever enlarging contextual field.   As you point out by using your daughter''s example, what would you want specifically, soon runs out of usefulness as the context broadens.  Then, we have to say, "Not would you care about this specific behavior, but what about the attitude behind it -- how would you want your sister to respond to what you do specifically care about, perhaps drinking the last soft drink without asking if you would like to split it, etc.?"  I think many of us never move up the contextual ladder in our relationships with friends, mates, and family.  And, it is a shame, if I am still giving my wife chocolates for Valentine Day after several years just because I would like chocolates for Valentines Day.  I have grown a little if I ask, "Would she rather be taken out for supper on Valentine''s Day?"  But, I have grown even more if I can apply the Golden Rule and realize that she doesn''t really care much about Valentine''s Day at all, and instead ask, :What really is a special treat for her?"  etc.  The more we grow the more the Golden Rule becomes not about me, but about who the other person really is.  Jesus understood this quite well in the Gospel accounts of how he applied it in respoonding to other people by doing for them what he would like done for him in the biggest context of all -- what we all wish is that other people OBSEVED US CAREFULLY ENOUGH and KNEW US WELL ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT THAT REALLY MEANS.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 6.0; Trident/4.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30729; OfficeLiveConnector.1.4; OfficeLivePatch.1.3)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6777, 533, 'Ron Simkins', 'simkins@Illinois.edu', '', '70.225.178.47', '2009-11-22 18:51:25', '2009-11-22 22:51:25', 'Kristin,  I love the way you make me think about everyday life and how I am, or am not, living it.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 6.0; Trident/4.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30729; OfficeLiveConnector.1.4; OfficeLivePatch.1.3)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6959, 539, 'ejly', 'eva.lyford@gmail.com', 'http://www.ejly.net', '168.215.91.130', '2009-12-08 13:30:18', '2009-12-08 17:30:18', 'I love your comment: "It often crosses my mind how much I would have LOVED playing with my girls when I was 9 or 10." what a good way of measuring your parenting efforts. : )\r\n\r\nWe laughed recently as a family reading a list of 3 items  someone wanted to bring to a deserted island - a power adapter was one. On a deserted island, where is power to be had? Better to have a sensible survival pack like your daughter''s.\r\n\r\nAs for what to bring, follow Douglas Adams'' advice - don''t forget your towel:\r\n\r\n"A towel, it says, is about the most massively useful thing an interstellar hitchhiker can have. Partly it has great practical value. You can wrap it around you for warmth as you bound across the cold moons of Jaglan Beta; you can lie on it on the brilliant marble-sanded beaches of Santraginus V, inhaling the heady sea vapors; you can sleep under it beneath the stars which shine so redly on the desert world of Kakrafoon; use it to sail a miniraft down the slow heavy River Moth; wet it for use in hand-to-hand-combat; wrap it round your head to ward off noxious fumes or avoid the gaze of the Ravenous Bugblatter Beast of Traal (such a mind-boggingly stupid animal, it assumes that if you can''t see it, it can''t see you); you can wave your towel in emergencies as a distress signal, and of course dry yourself off with it if it still seems to be clean enough.â€\r\n  	\r\n— Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker''s Guide to the Galaxy\r\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Towel_Day', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.5) Gecko/20091102 Firefox/3.5.5 GTB6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6779, 536, 'Paul Vander Klay', 'paulvk@leadingchurch.com', 'http://leadingchurch.com', '67.164.218.110', '2009-11-23 13:26:37', '2009-11-23 17:26:37', 'The tambourine? Makes me think of the groovy hippie chicks on the Josie and the Pussy Cats 70s cartoon! (For those of you too young to appreciate that cultural reference http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjEt8uUPbig) :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US) AppleWebKit/532.0 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/3.0.195.33 Safari/532.0', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(1784, 288, 'TJ Hirst', 'tj@tjhirst.com', 'http://www.tjhirst.com/', '97.112.32.126', '2009-03-07 13:18:27', '2009-03-07 17:18:27', 'I''m not sure if I told you this before or not, but I teach an early morning religion class to high school students,  every day. This school year we''re studying the New Testament; last year it was the Old Testament. It was the first time I read the Old Testament cover to cover. Like I told my students, I''m learning right along with you, only a day or two ahead. That humility opened my eyes to what you talk about as the Old Testament as a Foundation. Truly it is. When I studied that foundation first, it made the New Testament so much richer. I understood and loved the Old Testament as the covenant God makes with the house of Israel, which includes not just the Jews or house of Judah but many others. He promised them some amazing blessings and gave them the Law of Moses to help them work toward them and turn them toward the Messiah. The New Testament becomes more understandable as the New Covenant when Christ comes and fulfills the law of Moses with his atonement. I think it is difficult to just pick up a book, like Habakkuk and study it independent of the whole. But it think the take home message in that book is that if we diligently seek answers form God--take our questions to him--he will make them known to us.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2243, 318, 'elizabeth linder', 'elizabethlinder@yahoo.com', '', '63.229.248.13', '2009-04-06 15:49:04', '2009-04-06 19:49:04', 'Lovely- forgiveness, just like love requires action for it''s authenticity.  Both are continuous, and you much choose them.  What a wonderful post!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows NT 5.1; SV1; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; InfoPath.1; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7741, 560, 'The Modern Gal', 'themoderngal@gmail.com', 'http://themoderngal.blogspot.com', '76.122.248.10', '2010-01-28 13:03:44', '2010-01-28 17:03:44', 'I read this blogpost a while ago ... http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2009/01/27/book-of-you/ ... and bookmarked it on my computer for when I''m feeling this way. It''s easy to get caught up in our own mind, but I try to remind myself of what it would be like if I were in the other person''s shoes or times when I''ve done or said the same things that are irritating me. It''s hard, for sure, but it helps my sanity.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_8; en-us) AppleWebKit/531.9 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.3 Safari/531.9', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7436, 552, 'moderngirlskitchen', 'moderngirlskitchen@gmail.com', 'http://moderngirlskitchen.squarespace.com', '205.223.124.103', '2010-01-13 12:39:39', '2010-01-13 16:39:39', 'it''s all "okay". even when it''s not. that''s the epiphany I have...sometimes in cycles...I reach a place of clarity where I realize that all those things dragging me down are really only dragging me down because I have decided that''s what they''re doing/trying to do...This realization comes to me in small ways - sometimes as a wake up (feeling sorry for myself before church this past Sunday then suddenly spilling hot coffee on my wrist - not enough to be hurt, but just enough as if to say, hey! wake up! get out of yourself!; little ''notes'' - a beautiful feather on the ground where I least expect it, a bright red cardinal on a grey dark day, stumbling on a few words or lines that remind me we are all connected to each other and to the universe...)\r\nThanks for sharing through your blog. Your courage and honesty are valuable to so many.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.7) Gecko/20091221 Firefox/3.5.7', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
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(6466, 506, 'Violet', 'kao2965@comcast.net', 'http://violetinthemiddle.blogspot.com', '98.222.51.190', '2009-10-18 20:56:13', '2009-10-19 00:56:13', 'Thanks for reminding me about the Two Minute Rule. I''m going to make an effort to live by it this week - we''ll see how much neater my house stays!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; FunWebProducts; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; PeoplePal 3.0; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.30; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(6775, 534, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-11-22 17:47:10', '2009-11-22 21:47:10', 'Dave, thanks so much for writing this post. One of the things I appreciate about the Love List Project is its flexibility—it works in different ways for different people. As you pointed out, for analytical problem-solvers like you (and I guess I should include myself in that category, even though I''m not an engineer), our lists help us let go and simply revel in what *is*; for those who know they aren''t happy with how their life is but they have a hard time focusing enough to make concrete changes, the Love List can become a catalyst for something new. The lists somehow affirm exactly who we are while helping balance our extremes. Pretty amazing, eh? I''m so glad you''ve experienced that, too, and I hope Sugar and others start making their lists!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.15) Gecko/2009101600 Firefox/3.0.15', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2014, 303, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-03-22 12:32:56', '2009-03-22 16:32:56', '''petting her like a drug''.... bang on! There was a local news story recently covering the effectiveness of petting dogs to destressing and likened it to ''prozac''. Enjoy! Cant wait to meet your new family member!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(1395, 276, 'Jamie', 'jamie@intersectedblog.com', 'http://www.intersectedblog.com', '99.139.71.51', '2009-02-20 14:06:19', '2009-02-20 18:06:19', 'Kristin -\r\n\r\nWere you criticizing Trunk? It was my impression that you were giving her praise for being honest and not hiding in the shadows about her own struggles (or her desire to gulp down some wine in the morning! Woo!).', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(1403, 276, 'Kellee Weinhold', 'dreamingtowardhome@gmail.com', 'http://thesmilingduck.wordpress.com/', '97.125.27.171', '2009-02-20 18:56:19', '2009-02-20 22:56:19', 'Kristin,\r\nI guess I am considering flipping the argument a bit on its head: What if the reason some people want "bad" things kept quiet (Don''t ask don''t tell) is not that they don''t want to deny they exist, but they don''t want to be "forced" to tell their own truths. In other words, don''t let me see that you have a drinking problem or that you gamble because then I will be forced to actually make public my hidden judgments about you and right and wrong, and I prefer to appear nice and accepting. Until it''s time to vote, that is.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.5) Gecko/2008120121 Firefox/3.0.5', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1793, 288, 'BettyDuffy', 'bettyduffy2@yahoo.com', 'http://bettyduffy.blogspot.com', '67.177.100.218', '2009-03-07 22:30:04', '2009-03-08 02:30:04', 'Your posts always add something important to my day.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows NT 5.1; SV1; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5421, 445, 'Hamish', 'hamish.bolandrudder@gmail.com', 'http://adventuresofham.blogspot.com', '77.100.221.146', '2009-08-19 14:50:02', '2009-08-19 18:50:02', 'Wow Kristin, good going on getting this one started. Fantastic post, and generally some great, constructive, follow-up comments.\r\n\r\nI''ll withhold my two cents worth - there is already a wealth of opinions on here.\r\n\r\nGreat reading, and plenty to think about. Thank you.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.13) Gecko/2009073022 Firefox/3.0.13 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7268, 550, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '75.159.55.207', '2010-01-04 20:31:11', '2010-01-05 00:31:11', 'Oh ya Kristen, doesnt Jeb''s tweet tie into the ideology of the lovelist project? The whole being in the now, figuring out what you love about it, or hate as the case may be. Just being, and enjoying. Isn''t living in the moment, the now desirable? Sometimes ''now'' isnt always pretty, but that''s OK too.\r\nBest, Trina', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.1.6) Gecko/20091201 Firefox/3.5.6 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6067, 472, 'Mark', 'Markeharvey@gmail.com', '', '99.36.233.136', '2009-09-18 21:42:36', '2009-09-19 01:42:36', 'Sounds interesting.  I wish a "project" that included a "list" didn''t presuppose failure on my part at this point in my life.  I''ll be a happy spectator...', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (iPhone; U; CPU iPhone OS 3_0_1 like Mac OS X; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.18 (KHTML, like Gecko) Mobile/7A400', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7263, 550, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '98.222.57.133', '2010-01-04 15:14:04', '2010-01-04 19:14:04', 'Tracy, that''s a great way to look at it. Sometimes reflection and pondering is helpful, because you''re in a good place for it, other times it''s just stressful. There is a time for everything. Thanks for your comment, and for becoming my blogging friend in 2009!\r\n\r\nJoy, it''s interesting that you used the word "refreshing." It made me realize that most things that are refreshing feel that way either because they are in contrast to everything else (a cold drink on a hot day), or because they are not overly common (grilling steaks for Christmas dinner). I guess what that means is that I shouldn''t make a habit of not reflecting, but it can feel great to go that route sometimes. Happy New Year to you!\r\n\r\nJeb, I''m glad you approve, and glad that you inspired me. :) Thanks for following your gut and sharing your thoughts.\r\n\r\nNicola, I love your theories: "Maybe turning 40 means I am finally allowing myself to just go with the flow, to enjoy what is and what comes! Maybe I’m turning into a slacker! Maybe I’m just finally realizing how great my life is and how little resolutions add to it!" Whatever it is, I think it''s a positive change for the likes of big planners like us. Here''s to being more fondue-focused in 2010!\r\n\r\nRoxanne, that''s very true, we have *right now,* and so often we let ourselves get diverted away from that gift.\r\n\r\nAgnes, ha! It''s not like I''m completely anal, but I do think an orderly house is the first step toward a clear mind. Too bad it''s so hard to accomplish!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.16) Gecko/2009120206 Firefox/3.0.16', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5742, 460, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-09-03 21:37:19', '2009-09-04 01:37:19', 'Max, that''s a really good point. As a girl myself, and as mom to girls (all three voracious readers), I often forget that boys are different beasts (so to speak). Thanks for bringing them into the discussion, as well as for mentioning "reluctant" readers. It seems like you are doing really important work with both groups. \r\n\r\nTrina, in my opinion, the world needs all the "happy medium" promoters it can get! I''m glad you like the food analogy, too. :) As far as the importance of parents supplementing what happens at school, I completely agree. While I don''t mind shouldering that responsibility, I do feel strongly that learning with peers is critical, and I can''t help but worry about the kids whose parents aren''t able to be involved, for whatever reason.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.13) Gecko/2009073021 Firefox/3.0.13', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2684, 347, 'The Modern Gal', 'themoderngal@gmail.com', 'http://themoderngal.blogspot.com', '67.187.116.24', '2009-05-10 16:16:36', '2009-05-10 20:16:36', 'My own pup went through this kind of transformation, having had a horrible past life before being found on the side of the road by her rescuer with broken bag legs. She was so timid and easily spooked at first, but now she''s the most confident, happy (and sometimes stubborn) dog on the block.\r\n\r\nI think it''s easier to see in dogs, but certainly a concept that works for humans too!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(3521, 373, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '75.159.46.147', '2009-06-09 18:19:16', '2009-06-09 22:19:16', 'When I saw your tweet yesterday about the supper discussion, I wondered if it would be turned into a post....glad to see it was. Those kidlets are relatively wise already, but you know that, I guess they are garnering the example from their parents :-)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(3522, 373, 'Wendy', 'wendymwetzel@gmail.com', 'http://bornattherighttime.blogspot.com', '207.55.114.87', '2009-06-09 18:36:32', '2009-06-09 22:36:32', 'Sounds like they already have a great foundation for wisdom. I agree that it does take some time to build it up, though. I had a conversation recently about the "presumed sophistication" of adolescents, i.e., we may assume that because they have a lot of knowledge and information, they have the judgment to go with it. But we must remember that as adults it is our responsibility to guard them and guide them until they are truly mature---truly wise. And there should be no hurry.\r\n\r\nWendy', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N');
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(5420, 447, 'Lorna', 'lornae2@gmail.com', '', '128.174.138.78', '2009-08-19 14:33:44', '2009-08-19 18:33:44', 'Jennifer-your last paragraph, "But it’s also a feminist issue for me. I want my kids to learn how to avoid objectification. I want my daughters to know they are valuable because of all facets of them not just their appearance. And I want my son to know that hot chicks aren’t just hot chicks. (He’s 5 so I have some time). I want them all to be proud of who they are and what they can do and I want them to treat their bodies in a way that shows the respect it, even if others don’t." reminds me of a story Charlie Peacock (singer/writer) told of his son who was looking at a "girlie" magazine. He took that opportunity to have a discussion with him about objectification &amp; respect of others. I remember being very impressed (and obviously still remember the story many years later) that he dealt with the situation not by saying it is wrong to look at those types of pictures, but rather talking about the effect it was having on him, and his view of women.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.1.2) Gecko/20090729 Firefox/3.5.2', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7523, 556, 'Wendy', 'building.bridges804@gmail.com', 'http://bridgeout.wordpress.com/', '96.245.91.85', '2010-01-19 11:20:36', '2010-01-19 15:20:36', 'I am so grateful God does not make cookie cutter hearts, or take a cookie cutter approach to us! And today I thought of #thelovelist as I posted gratitude that my partner does not take a cookie cutter approach to loving me.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.7) Gecko/20091221 Firefox/3.5.7 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5426, 447, 'Katie Z.', 'katie.z.dawson@gmail.com', 'http://salvagedfaith.blogspot.com', '173.20.177.177', '2009-08-19 16:41:59', '2009-08-19 20:41:59', 'I want my kids to know that sex and sexuality is a complex and beautiful thing.  I want them to know that there are many facets and layers of a relationship and that physical intimacy is but one of them.  I want them to feel comfortable talking about their health and their bodies with someone they know they can trust (and I realize - since I never had those conversations with my mom, that as a parent that might not be me). I want them to believe they are beautifully and wonderfully made and to never feel ashamed if they don''t look like other people. \r\n\r\nAs far as marriage and relationships go, I want to encourage them to spend their time with people who they feel like they can honestly be themselves with.  I want to tell them that marriage is a journey that begins long before a wedding and continues long after you have said "i do."  I want to tell them that love is a choice we make, rather than a feeling we have. I want to encourage them to date, but when they have found someone that they want to build a relationship with, I want to support them, 100%, and encourage them to live into create a mutually self-giving covenantal relationship.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows NT 5.1; SV1) ; .NET CLR 1.0.3705; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; Media Center PC 4.0; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.30; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.648; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.21', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2680, 347, 'Dave Thurston', 'dave@orangeshirtguy.com', 'http://www.orangeshirtguy.com', '24.223.179.16', '2009-05-10 13:02:38', '2009-05-10 17:02:38', 'There is something more to this. . . something simple and brilliant.  Something that if articulated in just a few words would most definitely be a "rule to live by".  Some kind of cross between the Golden Rule and You Reap What You Sow and Better to Give than Receive.\r\n\r\nI love when I see a dog (or any living thing) turn the corner and realize "Wow, there are people that want to be a part of my life . . . just because I am who and how I am."\r\n\r\nGood writing.  Thanks much.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.16 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0 Safari/528.16', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(2027, 306, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-03-23 09:15:57', '2009-03-23 13:15:57', 'Food for thought to be sure. We definately need to take responsibility for our own decisions as it relates to debt etc. All the marketing we faced to say it was OK to have it all now and pay later, all the institutions making it easy for us to live a life on credit, were all preying on the public from a position of greed. It made it way too easy for many to fall into the have it all trap, but you''re right - time to face it. Incidently, I think ''we'' will all be better off for learning this lesson now, many will have time to recover. As long as we remember it for the long haul.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2028, 306, 'jessica', 'bernzee@mac.com', 'http://bernthis.typepad.com', '75.3.242.177', '2009-03-23 10:50:26', '2009-03-23 14:50:26', 'I was that spender too but I have to say for the last 9 years, I have not been. I feel absolute in the knowledge that I did not live beyond my means in that time. \r\n\r\ncould I say the same for my ex who loves labels and people to think he is rich? Hell no. \r\n\r\nI am enraged,  yes, enraged and sometimes I cannot even read the paper as I feel so damn powerless over the whole thing', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.1) Gecko/2008070206 Firefox/3.0.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2249, 318, 'Marie', 'marie.mckinney@gmail.com', 'http://www.mckinneyoatescereal.wordpress.com', '70.43.204.186', '2009-04-07 13:31:00', '2009-04-07 17:31:00', 'I feel like a simple "Amen" would suffice for this post.  It''s great.\r\n\r\nWith the "hard to say sorry thing", I find that I have a hard time trusting people that say sorry too quickly because I''m wondering "Do you realize that those words mean that actions are going to have to change to make that "I''m sorry" complete?  Do you realize how hard that''s going to be?"  I like it when people struggle because that sends the message, to me, that they''re taking it seriously.\r\n\r\nYour family''s story is just beautiful.  Thanks for sharing!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; GTB5; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; InfoPath.2; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.30; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.648)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(4341, 404, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-07-05 19:27:47', '2009-07-05 23:27:47', 'Jennifer, I can only echo this: "It was perfect and lovely and genuine and authentic," followed by this: "When can we do it again?" \r\n\r\nDaisy, your story is wonderful, too! Isn''t it interesting how friendships ebb and flow with life? And then, at a certain moment for no apparent reason, a lost friendship suddenly resurfaces?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042315 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2030, 306, 'TJ Hirst', 'tj@tjhirst.com', 'http://www.tjhirst.com/', '97.112.28.184', '2009-03-23 12:31:39', '2009-03-23 16:31:39', 'Great point: "But there’s a fine line between righteous anger and self-righteous anger." How often do we talk about they and get more and more angry at them? And how often do we ask like the Peter did at the Last Supper, "Is it I?"', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2248, 318, 'GettingThere', 'pmewright@yahoo.com', '', '208.11.5.2', '2009-04-07 13:24:07', '2009-04-07 17:24:07', 'Perhaps the sincere words, "I''m sorry" open the door to the action and the healing, however minor or major.  If someone is going to say the words but not mean it, I don''t want them to say it.  But if they are sorry, it helps me to start the process of getting beyond it even though I will get there eventually either way.  For myself, I can be sorry, but can''t overcome the other emotions right away to express it.  I do try to tell my kids I''m sorry or I''m wrong when I need to.  I think it''s healing and a bridge.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; GTB5; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; InfoPath.1; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.30; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.648)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6297, 486, 'Tabitha@ichoosebliss', 'ichoosebliss@gmail.com', 'http://ichoosebliss.net', '67.10.184.175', '2009-10-04 16:23:19', '2009-10-04 20:23:19', 'Hi, I did join in, but I guess I forgot to let you know. (:\r\n\r\nhttp://www.ichoosebliss.net/2009/09/love-list-project.html', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7819, 562, 'интереÑные новоÑти', 'bloginks@gmail.com', 'http://blogin.ks.ua/', '89.149.244.89', '2010-02-02 15:56:19', '2010-02-02 19:56:19', 'Отлично напиÑано. Ð главное хорошо разжевано.', 0, 'spam', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 5.5; Windows 95; BCD2000)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6080, 472, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-09-19 14:22:53', '2009-09-19 18:22:53', 'Nicola, maybe we really *are* biologically related, after all! It''s so amazing how similar we are after all these years. Anyway, it sounds like you''ve already found a perfect example of how a love list might nudge you to make some changes in your life. If having the time to run errands by foot or bike is so enjoyable for you, I think you''re just going to have to figure out how to make some time for it each week. :)\r\n\r\nMark, I''m curious, why are you anti-list? It''s not like a to-do list breathing down your neck—it''s a pondering, rambling list. It''s fine, of course, if you observe from afar, but I do hope you''ll start jotting ideas down somewhere as they occur to you (because I''m pretty sure they will). :)\r\n\r\nJules, it''s definitely about "taking control of life," and I''m so glad you''re in it with me. It''s a lot like exercising or praying or eating healthy—these things take some discipline and are much easier when we have someone alongside us. \r\n\r\nBtw, Jules already wrote a great post about this project: http://mojojules.wordpress.com/2009/09/19/why-join-the-love-list/\r\n\r\nPaula, I love how this seems to be just what you need at this moment in your life. I like your point about how something in someone else''s list might spark something in our own mind/heart—another benefit of not doing this alone. I also think there''s great benefit, once we''re more grounded in what we love, to being aware of the things in our life that make us feel just the opposite. Thanks for jumping in!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.14) Gecko/2009082706 Firefox/3.0.14', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2026, 303, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-03-23 09:00:55', '2009-03-23 13:00:55', 'I am tickled that I could actually find the article for you... covers dog ownership and health from many angles including children:\r\n\r\n http://www.canada.com/Health/owners+visit+doctor+less/1395315/story.html\r\n\r\nAs far as allergies go, some people do have success with some of the ''shed-less'' breeds, just a thought for some out there.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1803, 288, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-08 11:06:28', '2009-03-08 15:06:28', 'TJ, I love your approach to teaching these kids religion: "I’m learning right along with you, only a day or two ahead." I think you''re right—it''s so important to approach reading the Bible with humility, and to be very comfortable in that not-knowing state. I think so many problems with the Bible stem from people who think they have to "figure it out" (or who are sure they HAVE figured it out). Thanks for sharing what you''ve learned along the way.\r\n\r\nDaisy, it''s really sad, isn''t it? The wonderful stories we learned and loved and were fascinated by as children—just for being amazing stories—end up losing so much of their magic. Just because we get all "mature" and think too much, and we want to be "right."\r\n\r\nJeb, something tells me your youth would make quite an exciting OT story. :) But yes, you''re exactly right: "It suggests the coming of someone better within." I love that.\r\n\r\nBetty, I''m beaming. Thank you.\r\n\r\njenx67, I LOVE finding out that you love Numbers. Numbers! So unexpected. I''ll have to check it out. Just this phrase “The Valley of Trouble and the Door of Hopeâ€ is extremely enticing. (And yes, please do re-post some of those old posts, or give us links or something. I would love to read them.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1432, 268, 'The Modern Gal', 'themoderngal@gmail.com', 'http://themoderngal.blogspot.com', '67.187.116.24', '2009-02-21 11:24:04', '2009-02-21 15:24:04', 'The funny thing is, I''ve found my most enjoyable Valentine''s Day experiences to be the ones that I did it up crazy with friends so as not to feel lonely. The ones done with a significant other, well, it really was just another date or night out but with flowers.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1433, 276, 'The Modern Gal', 'themoderngal@gmail.com', 'http://themoderngal.blogspot.com', '67.187.116.24', '2009-02-21 11:31:20', '2009-02-21 15:31:20', 'You are ABSOLUTELY right. It''s all about keeping up with appearances. I''ve been so drawn to the bloggers like Penelope or Heather Armstrong who are so honest about themselves in spite of social mores because it''s a good reminder that we''re all human. \r\n\r\nAnd you''re also right that it''s not our place to judge. And it''s amazing what kind of friendships you can forge and things you can learn when you''re open and non-judgmental.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2033, 306, 'Nicola', 'nicolasysyn@yahoo.com', '', '66.213.196.2', '2009-03-23 16:09:45', '2009-03-23 20:09:45', 'I heard that commentary on NPR and it''s really made me think a lot about my own lifestyle and choices we''ve made. While we certainly don''t live too "high on the hog," we also have allowed ourselves to amass a shocking (to me) amount of debt. Granted, we knew we were making some sacrifices in our financial position so my husband could change careers, but the point is, we DIDN"T make any sacrifices in our actual lifestyle at the same time. Hence, the debt. I guess we''ll pay now. But, I wonder why we didn''t adjust at the time.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; InfoPath.2; .NET CLR 1.1.4322)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2034, 306, 'Nic D', 'nicdillon@gmail.com', '', '130.126.160.235', '2009-03-23 16:44:09', '2009-03-23 20:44:09', 'It sounds like Jessica''s ex-husband represents a creature we all know -- the individual who is trying to appear wealthy (because that makes everyone like you, right!?). \r\n\r\nThough it''s been upsetting, I haven''t been altogether surprised by the collapse of so much in the last year or so. I think you hit on an interesting point, Kristin, when you discuss the possibility that we might be the ones who are at fault. While the systems that are falling apart were created by someone else, the systems were created because people demanded them in one way or another. If someone wanted to prove they were cool by driving a shiny car, there was (and still is) someone out there who would figure out a way to get them into that car. If they wanted a big house -- No problem! A couch for that new living room? YES! They''d make that happen too!\r\n\r\nThese industries, while they still cause problems for people, are regulated. The industry Madoff worked in is not. If the regulated portion of the financial industry could consistently give you a 20% return, they would have. Since they couldn''t, we should have, and many did, suspected Madoff was doing something fishy. \r\n\r\nIn the end, we know that Madoff was lying to his clients. And while he is to blame, I think it''s important that we understand that what he did was simple - he created a product that people wanted. Something that made people feel good. Like so many things, fancy cars, nice houses and a new couch, a 20% annual return made people feel good. He knew people wanted this, and though he lied through and through, he gave them what they wanted...to be rich and beat the odds (do better than you would with traditional investments). We now know that those who went with Madoff made a bad gamble.\r\n\r\nIt''s such an ugly picture, but it seems the solution, if we were to try to generalize, is to stop wanting. It''s a basic economic principle. If the demand for "want" goes down, the products that are created to satisfy "want" will not sell and ultimately not be produced. \r\n\r\nSo, there you go, everyone. Stop wanting! :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2035, 306, 'Blackwasp19', 'joshuacanada@gmail.com', 'http://www.blackwasp.wordpress.com', '99.20.195.170', '2009-03-23 16:50:33', '2009-03-23 20:50:33', 'Most of the time we view the Old Testament prophets, both minor and major, to be concerning some "other" as if the texts are talking about those "bad people" but surely not everyone. This view limits us from understanding the crux of the prophets. The words spoken were for everyone, each person played apart in the greed, sin and injustice of Hebraic society. They were not words to the elites or those explicitly participating in grotesque manifestations of greed, they were to all of those who lived selfish lives regardless of the early magnitude of that selfishness. \r\n\r\nIn the present, it seems we also view greed from an "others" perspective, "It was Madoff, the realtors, or AIG who got us into this mess. It was wall-street". We forget that their humanness is our humanness. In our self-righteousness we neglect that our desire to buy a new car, a bigger house, or even somethings as simple as CD''s contributed to the mess we are in. The Old Testament prophets concentrated on the ills of not caring for one another, not living in community, not caring for those whom may need to - financially, socially, emotionally. These are the same shortcomings we as a society  and as individuals are guilty of. The economic situation that we are in now has been a present reality for the working-poor and many who come from lower socio-economic statuses. This is nothing new, the only reason we feel it now is because we have realized that it effects us.\r\n\r\nOne other element. Habakkuk mean "embrace". That is what this specific book is about, the embracing the reality that society was going to be invaded (by the Babylonians) and embracing that God was still God regardless and that Yaweh is perfect, loving, holy, and just. In many ways the book of Habakkuk offers great hope to its readers. God speaks to Habbakuk not only about the ramifications of greed and pride, but also the peace that one can have if they are a righteous person of God. \r\n.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
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(1438, 276, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-02-21 15:58:45', '2009-02-21 19:58:45', 'This touched so many spots in my psyche. I was victim of nasty rumors at a job; accused of an affair with the boss. The irony? He and his wife are still good friends of mine. The accusers? No longer part of my life. \r\nTeen sex is a very real concern. I''m a little more liberal than most, and I made sure my daughter had a good relationship with her doctor without me as a go-between. I like to think we had (and still have) an open relationship, but in case she was uncomfortable at all, I wanted her to be able to get the truth about birth control from a reputable source. \r\nDoes that make me a bad mom? I hope not.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1442, 276, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '76.199.12.141', '2009-02-21 18:43:11', '2009-02-21 22:43:11', 'Matt, I''m glad you found my blog and liked what you read. As I mentioned, I completely agree that the level of hypocrisy among those who call themselves "Christian" is a huge problem. I also agree with your point that Christians tend to separate themselves too much from non-believers—this is a social pattern that my husband and I actively work to avoid, by regularly interacting with all kinds of people. I''m not sure these problems are exclusive to Christians, though. Other religions seem to struggle with these same issues, but in different ways. I would love to hear what others think about Christians "doing whatever it takes to convert followers." While this seems true of some Christian denominations and sects, it''s also very uncharacteristic of others (not to mention that it seems to be very prevalent in religions other than Christianity, as well). Whew! Sorry for the lengthy response. Thanks for getting in on the discussion. I''ll definitely be keeping an eye on your blog, too!\r\n\r\nKellee, thanks for the follow up. I bet there''s a lot of what you describe going on, too. When I got a divorce, it seemed like a lot of people looked down on me for it, as if we hadn''t tried hard enough to work through our problems (four years of counseling wasn''t enough effort, apparently). But it suddenly occurred to me that perhaps my divorce threw many of their marriages and choices into question, and *that''s* what they were uncomfortable with. I can''t be sure, of course, but it crossed my mind, and I think that''s the sort of thing you''re getting at.\r\n\r\nAkhila, welcome to Halfway to Normal! I''m really grateful for your perspective. I admit, I''m often too quick to pin a lot of negative things to "American culture," when the truth is, I don''t have much first-hand experience with cultures in other parts of the world, particularly outside of Europe. I really need these reminders from people like you. Thanks.\r\n\r\nModern Gal, I love what you wrote: "it’s amazing what kind of friendships you can forge and things you can learn when you’re open and non-judgmental." It''s one thing to think of what we should or shouldn''t do, simply because it''s right or wrong (in this case, we shouldn''t judge because it''s wrong); it''s another to be open to all we have to gain when we make that choice. Thanks for pointing that out.\r\n\r\nDaisy, it sounds like you''re doing the best possible thing, as a mother—being informative, open and approachable, but also giving your daughter other options, in terms of people she can go to for information and help. By the way, I''ve been mulling over a follow up to my "Politics, religion &amp; sex" post, with more thoughts on how we should be talking to our kids about sex. Stay tuned! Your experienced input is valued.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(3143, 357, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-05-25 00:06:03', '2009-05-25 04:06:03', 'Jennifer, you make me blush with the "wowza" comment. :) (And full disclosure for everyone else, this is the Jen who celebrated her 14 anniversary last week.) I imagine the story about your husband''s grandparents is a reality for all too many long-lasting marriages, particularly of those generations before us. Sometimes you see how "sticking it out" can pay off in the end, but so often the unhappiness just grows and ripples out, making many people miserable. I''m so glad you and Kurt are able to impact the people in your lives through your happiness and love—including your sister, who really needs your support right now. \r\n\r\njenx67, I''m SO sorry—it sounds like you''ve really had some hurtful experiences with people. For me, all the comparisons and feelings of failure come out of my own crazy thoughts, not anything anyone else is trying to rub in my face. You''re absolutely right—only someone who''s gone through a divorce can understand how these feelings can get so twisted in our heads as we turn them over again and again. We certainly don''t need anyone to confront us with our failures. I really hope you''ll tackle that blended family post—it sounds like it would be a good process for you and a good things for many of us to read.\r\n\r\nJennifer (again), thank YOU, for being so open to trying to understand something you haven''t experienced, for being so supportive of me and your sister, for being OK with me comparing myself to you in this post in the first place! Now that I think of it, that''s just a word that has always been at the heart of who you are: Open. \r\n\r\nDaisy, quantity and quality both are indeed worth celebrating. Congratulations to you and your husband!\r\n\r\nJeb, being proud of something can be such a good and deserved feeling, and then it can so easily cross a line into something "prideful," that can become overgrown and block the light from other young plants that are trying to grow. You SHOULD be proud of your 16 years with your wife—there''s no hint of that ugly pride in your feelings about your marriage, and I wouldn''t want anyone to think they shouldn''t celebrate and be proud of such an accomplishment. Also, it''s always good to hear the perspectives of others who have been affected by divorce but haven''t personally gone through one. Thanks, as always, for sharing your thoughts, friend.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042315 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1446, 262, 'Heartsong', 'mntngal@comcast.net', 'http://heartsongshymnal.blogspot.com', '69.136.62.106', '2009-02-21 20:19:59', '2009-02-22 00:19:59', 'Kristin, you have touched on a subject here that is dear to my heart. I especially like your statement, "This is about conversation, not conversion."  Yes!  As a non-Christian (I am Pagan), I find so many of those who walk a Pagan path are quick to judge Christians by whatever attributes they personally associate with the word Christian. Christians often do the same with Pagans. But the truth is, no matter how much you know or think you know about another faith, religion, spiritual path, insert-your-word-here, each individual walks that path in their own way, with their own connection to the Divine. I like to think of all of us spiritual cookie jars; our jars may say "cookies" on the outside, but there''s a world of different kinds of cookies. (I wrote a whole ranting blog post about that if anyone''s interested.)  Unless we take the lid off the jar and look inside, how do we know what''s really in there? Conversation without debate, without the need for conversion or defense, is a way of taking the lid off, looking inside, and learning what the person in front of you believes, what they struggle with, question, and doubt, as well as those things of which they are truly assured and confident. When we do that...come to each other in love and with open minds...we find common ground.  We replace "tolerance" with "acceptance"...not embracing beliefs or actions we cannot embrace in good conscience, but accepting the inherent right and responsibility of each person for their own walk. I know people from many faiths and backgrounds who are shining lights in my world, and I am grateful for each of them. Keep shining you light!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4779, 413, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-07-21 01:56:27', '2009-07-21 05:56:27', '(Sorry friends, for the delay in my response. I''m dropping the ball, here!)\r\n\r\nMeredith, I always appreciate your perspective on your parents'' divorce. This rings very true: "...even though life after divorce worked out for our family, it wasn’t fun getting to that place." It''s just a refreshingly honest, balanced and realistic way to view a less-than-ideal life circumstance. Thanks.\r\n\r\nSteve, that''s wonderful that you haven''t felt like God has somehow let you down through all of this! And you''re right—it''s always good to reserve the right to feel a bit peeved with God down the road. He seems to take it pretty well. :)\r\n\r\nTrina, you are definitely good at seeing potential connections and finding organic, comfortable ways to nurture them into being. I like the "matchmaker" concept. So many possibilities!\r\n\r\nDave, I love how you put this: "It is a Journey: For the Travelers, Godspeed and learn well. For the Watchers, Listen and Love." As you can obviously tell, I''ve had some frustrating experiences with people who broadly share opinions without first getting any real information (let alone experience). Thanks for your sensitivity—always.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.11) Gecko/2009060214 Firefox/3.0.11', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(6484, 508, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '75.158.132.136', '2009-10-19 16:09:03', '2009-10-19 20:09:03', 'My heart sings for you and yours Kristin. You all have created, through choice, a  great post divorce reality. A shining example of what can be.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(1454, 276, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-02-21 22:44:03', '2009-02-22 02:44:03', 'Jamie - Do you read Trunk? If so, then you would completely understand my comment. Trunk, who I happen to really enjoy reading for many reasons - periodically uses shock-jock tactics. My comment on this blog was not a moral evaulation of her, but rather, a keen observation of public relations tactics she uses to drive traffic to her blog. Sorry if I did not communicate accurately what I was trying to say. I''ve left comments about this on Trunk''s blog - out right asking her if she was just trying to shock and provoke people. \r\n\r\nThere is no way Trunk drove drunk to work. NO WAY. If she did, calling her to task would be as much a public safety issue as moral issue. But, she colors outside the lines. She''s a brilliant blogger. She knows what will rattle people. She treads where few will go. This is why she makes $100,000 of her blog and I make nothing off mine. Ha! My point was - how can I follow bloggers like Kristin and Zoe who present their authentic selves to the world and provide genuine dialogue and also follow Trunk - who seems to offer up what will sell. But, who can blame her? She has two kids to raise and all of who work are selling something - even if it is just time. \r\n\r\nI hope all this make sense. My point was intended to be about Trunk''s consistent provocation - not about her sipping wine in the morning.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; InfoPath.2)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2039, 306, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-24 01:18:04', '2009-03-24 05:18:04', 'Trina, I think you''re right—we will be better off in the long run for learning how to curb our wants now. As parents always say, sometimes you have to learn something the hard way if you''re really going to take it to heart.\r\n\r\nJessica, the powerlessness is the worst part of all of this, for me. Investing in a punching bag might quell some of the rage many of us feel, but it''s not going to fix the ultimate problem, or make life any easier for the people who are struggling most, day to day.\r\n\r\nTJ, one of the reasons my husband and I get along so well is because we both love to get worked up about things like politics, injustice and anything we hear on the news and perceive as general stupidity. We realized a few months ago, though, that although it can be fun and even energizing to get worked up and express outrage, it''s not productive. What if we spent as much time and energy praying about these issues and actively working for change and justice, as we spent complaining? \r\n\r\nNicola, I''m with you—"high on the hog" isn''t exactly how I''d describe our lifestyle. But I also relate to what you''re saying about how we''ve seemed to lost the ability to make budget adjustments and cut back on things when and where such cuts are needed (like if there''s a change in job or income, or a big expenditure like a move or a wedding and honeymoon.) We just keep moving through life, going out to eat as often as we always have, planning our next vacation and going overboard at Christmas and birthdays. I think we''ve gotten the idea that our quality of life is supposed to gradually rise throughout our lives, so it just doesn''t occur to us to make adjustments that send us in the "wrong" direction.\r\n\r\nNic, this is a great point: "While the systems that are falling apart were created by someone else, the systems were created because people demanded them in one way or another." It seems to me that being able to accept our role in a mess, even if it''s a minor one, and actively taking some responsibility is a huge part of true maturity. It''s also a critical aspect of being whole. And I love your solution: lowering the demand for "want." \r\n\r\nBlackwasp19, I was hoping someone with some theological insight would come along. Thanks! You hit on what''s at the core of Habakkuk 2: pride is at the root of all evil, and it''s everywhere, taking many forms. Finger pointing is a waste of time. I''m also really glad that you bring up the "ills of not caring for one another," and that you point out the ongoing struggles of the working poor—struggles that were realities long before the nation-wide economic downturn.  What if all the greed could be exchanged for compassion, mercy and justice?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021906 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N');
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(1456, 276, 'Larkinsmom', 'AmyArmstrong8@aol.com', 'http://www.larkinsplace.com', '98.212.159.23', '2009-02-21 23:25:41', '2009-02-22 03:25:41', 'I LOVE this post!  2 points - I blogged in the beginning of my journey as a way to redirect those who would gossip and inflate my grief.  Not hiding my pain.  Not hiding my daughter and the bad but sharing all of it - bleeding all over them as I like to say.  Wanna see my grief - here it is.\r\n\r\n2nd - when Mr Ex cheated I ran into so many people who shrugged their shoulders and said "oh well he''s always been nice to me and that was a long time ago" ---- AS IF that some how some way negated the pain this persons behavior had inflicted upon my life.  They didn''t see it, they didn''t feel it so it must not be real huh??  \r\n\r\nLove you!!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5450, 447, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '76.249.24.217', '2009-08-20 15:31:35', '2009-08-20 19:31:35', 'Jennifer, yes, if our kids love themselves and love God, they''ll have a great foundation for making good decisions. Although I think this is implied in your comment, I also wanted to add the importance of somehow knowing how much God loves them/us. That''s been the hardest one for me to grasp. I love how you put this, too: "I want them to understand it’s not just ''because the Bible says so,'' but because God sets up standards to protect us." How refreshing!\r\n\r\nLorna, Charlie Peacock is a great man. You (through his story) have touched on something so important for Christians and all parents: not just saying something is wrong or bad, but explaining the effect and the consequences. \r\n\r\nTrina, I''m impressed by how communicative and candid you are with your kids! I really hope I can continue to be that way with mine, as they get older and the conversations get perhaps more awkward and applicable. That''s my goal (and examples like yours are inspiring)!\r\n\r\nKatie, this really struck me: "I want them to know that there are many facets and layers of a relationship and that physical intimacy is but one of them." It''s something I fully understand now, in my own life, but I almost take that knowledge for granted. It''s not necessarily something I would think to teach my kids, yet it''s SO important. (I think/hope Jason and I are modeling it through our relationship, too.) And as far as this goes—"...encourag[ing] them to spend their time with people who they feel like they can honestly be themselves with"—YES! I spent much of my teens and early 20s trying to spend time with people I thought I wanted to be more like. For me, this all goes back to knowing and accepting exactly who God created each of us to be.\r\n\r\nNicola, isn''t it great when they''re young and curious, and they have no idea that society says they should be embarrassed by certain things? I''d love to hang onto that stage forever. S pretty much knew *everything* about sexuality at 7, because she''s a little curious scientist. I think you really nailed the whole issue here (and continuing on in that paragraph): "As parents, I think we need to be realistic about teenage experimentation yet set some clear boundaries for our kids about our expectations and values regarding sex (and drinking and drugs). But, first, we need to articulate what our values actually are to ourselves." So smart, and you ask such good questions that we should all be asking ourselves.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.12) Gecko/2009070609 Firefox/3.0.12', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5073, 424, 'Dealing with life changes and the Fear that things change. | EveryTherapist', '', 'http://www.everytherapist.com/blog/dealing-with-life-changes-and-the-fear-that-things-change/', '72.34.37.111', '2009-08-05 15:56:51', '2009-08-05 19:56:51', '[...] Learning not to fear the winds of change [...]', 0, '1', 'The Incutio XML-RPC PHP Library -- WordPress/2.7.1', 'pingback', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5455, 447, 'Debbie Yost', 'deb.opks@gmail.com', 'http://www.my3weddings.com', '76.92.233.189', '2009-08-20 19:03:20', '2009-08-20 23:03:20', 'I know what I believe and what I hope for my children, but I''m also realistic.  I hope to give my children as much information as I can to help them make the right decisions for themselves so they will be happy.  I hope they will take time to get to know someone before jumping in bed with them or marriage.  For me, sex is more than just the act, it is an intimate act between two people who love each other.  I hope I can teach my children this as well.  How I will handle situations that may arise I cannot really answer.  I know what I think I will do, but no one really knows what they will do until faced with that situation.  I''ve learned this lesson all to well when I was younger.  However, I do know this, there is absolutely nothing my children can do that will make me turn my back on them.  I want them to know they can always come to me.  I may not be happy with the situation.  I may be angry, but I will always love them.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; GTB6; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; InfoPath.1; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30618)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6875, 538, 'Meredith', 'meridethdabek@hotmail.com', 'http://www.ordinarymer.com', '155.33.225.84', '2009-12-01 14:43:44', '2009-12-01 18:43:44', 'While I like your ideas about "waiting can be exciting and so rewarding," I think we can get too caught up in the waiting and miss what''s here right now. I think the beauty of Advent comes from enjoying Advent, not just waiting for the 4 weeks to be over so we can get to Christmas. It''s almost like a reminder to slow down and not rush.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.15) Gecko/2009101601 Firefox/3.0.15', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(3926, 380, 'Emma', 'emily@cafegilliam.net', 'http://cafegilliam.net/', '69.153.196.48', '2009-06-22 17:05:57', '2009-06-22 21:05:57', 'I''m having a lot of trouble with this area right now. Son is four, and about to start PreK. I believe it''s my responsibility to know what''s going on in his (and his baby brother''s) life. If I''m putting him in someone''s care, be it one afternoon or the majority of his daylight hours, I need to know what''s happening. I realize that sound overprotective to some, but in reality, Husband and I are responsible for him more than anyone else on the planet. I''m babbling, and not directing this a bit towards you, but I think many parents are too relaxed in letting "just anybody" raise their kids. Not okay with me. Obviously I lack trust. There are wonderful, trustworthy teachers and babysitters out there -- but misjudging that anonymous people are looking out for my kids is an invitation to malevolence. Today was Son''s first day ever at school!  (A week-long run before the actual Fall semester in August.) I''m feeling pretty strung-up. Because it''s an 8:00 - 1:00 day, I didn''t think there would be a lunch hour. I was mistaken, and went to get him lunch. When I returned, the administrator was reluctant to let me in the building! I am a mama. I need to access to my kid -- it that far-fetched? Part of this comes from childhood traumas I experienced, that wouldn''t have had opportunity if my parents had been more cautious.\r\n\r\nAnyway, Ack! I do agree that you should, with age-appropriate discretion, walk children through the difficult things in life. As parents, we can guide them through these processes. Neglecting to do so is potentially setting them up to being wham-sided later on their own. Thanks for the vent!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.11) Gecko/2009060215 Firefox/3.0.11', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(1839, 290, 'Pace', 'pace@paceandkyeli.com', 'http://paceandkyeli.com', '74.202.71.203', '2009-03-10 11:12:24', '2009-03-10 15:12:24', 'This post makes me really happy.  Now I want to get to know lots of these people!\r\n\r\n*starts clicking* (:', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (X11; U; Linux i686; en-US; rv:1.8.1.14) Gecko/20080404 Firefox/2.0.0.14', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6675, 525, 'Colleen Newvine', 'cnewvine@gmail.com', 'http://newvinegrowing.wordpress.com', '76.15.207.80', '2009-11-08 01:13:33', '2009-11-08 05:13:33', 'Meredith, thank you for sharing your post.\r\n\r\nI think if I''d had a gratitude journal or love list when my mom died, it might have been a life raft to cling to while I bobbed in the ocean of grief. Most especially focusing on the things I loved about my mom that I would carry forward in my heart.\r\n\r\nI love this line, as well: I can pay tribute to my grandma’s life by living my own life to the fullest—a life that doesn’t take anything for granted and celebrates the wonderfully good things I’m blessed to have.\r\n\r\nI think living our lives to the fullest is a beautiful way to honor the dead. \r\n\r\nMeanwhile, the Love List is one way to find a silver lining in the sadness.\r\n\r\nA friend of mine wrote about another on her blog this fall: http://theflamingoroom.blogspot.com/2009/09/staying-open.html\r\nMy darling friend (who was grieving the sudden death of her mother) ... is hunkering down with a heavy heart. What she said next though, humbled me: "I''m trying to listen for what it is I might learn from this loss."', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6539, 512, 'Nadia - Happy Lotus', 'BallasN@aol.com', 'http://www.HappyLotus.com', '173.61.31.234', '2009-10-23 17:25:32', '2009-10-23 21:25:32', 'Hi Lance and Kristin,\r\n\r\nBeautiful post, Lance. For me, one thing in nature which makes me feel connected is the ocean. Standing on the beach, looking at the ocean makes everything in life look small and capable of being dealt with ease. The ocean just gives me such peace and I can spend hours just looking at it or walking up and down the beach. It makes me feel whole and makes me feel at one with God. I just love it.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 5.1; Trident/4.0; SU 3.22; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6102, 474, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-09-21 14:33:30', '2009-09-21 18:33:30', 'i wrote something so similar to this in perspective, kristin. i just didn''t have the heart to publish it. it''s a post called are you there, God? it''s me, annie. (as in annie le.) i''m left feeling sad and heavy - what will happen to the girls? nothing can replace a mother''s love, and all any of us can do in a time like this is pray for supernatural intervention from God. I know He will intervene. Like you, I don''t know how - or why - I just know. And, I cling to that. You always provide such provocative posts, KT. I really like it.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; GTB6; SU 3.23; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; InfoPath.2; Alexa Toolbar; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30618)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4821, 424, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '75.159.45.162', '2009-07-22 21:56:24', '2009-07-23 01:56:24', 'You know I dont see the how and why of things through the same lense as you, but interesting to me how many similarities there are in our thinking. This post reminded my of Alexander Graham Bells thoughts paraphrased as - When one door opens, another opens. You are ready for and deserving of  the good that is bound to come your way.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.12) Gecko/2009070611 Firefox/3.0.12 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1820, 290, 'Shell', 'disappearing_mist@hotmail.com', 'http://shelfie.blogspot.com', '216.67.42.245', '2009-03-09 16:04:13', '2009-03-09 20:04:13', 'Awesome post! I love learning about different people!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1819, 290, 'Matt Cheuvront', 'mncheuvront@gmail.com', 'http://www.lifewithoutpants.com', '66.89.75.162', '2009-03-09 14:53:03', '2009-03-09 18:53:03', 'I knew that admitting I sing Michelle Branch loudly to myself would come back to bite me, slightly embarrassed, not gonna'' lie. No, not really, I''m comfortable with my quirkiness. This is a great post and it highlights the things that make us...human. You clearly have a great audience here with a lot of awesome folks (who should all be awesome over at my blog as well ehem, shameless plug). \r\n\r\nI enjoy stopping by here and reading what you have to say - it''s always well thought out and a breath of fresh air during the day. Keep being yourself, and keep being real, because that''s what makes this so great.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows NT 5.1; SV1; InfoPath.1; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Zune 3.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1822, 290, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-03-09 18:51:03', '2009-03-09 22:51:03', 'Beautiful compilation! The way you grouped the varoius revelations is truly insightful.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1823, 290, 'Jeb Dickerson', 'jebdickerson@mac.com', 'http://www.howtomatter.com', '71.237.106.69', '2009-03-09 18:56:47', '2009-03-09 22:56:47', 'Exceptional KT. I think perhaps you''ve missed your calling. "Lead Negotiator for Middle East Peace" might be about right. I''ll see if I can get Hilary...I mean, Madam Secretary...on the line.\r\n\r\nSimilarities. Differences. No matter...it all goes into the pot and together we share in the sustenance. Yours is a community I''m happy to be a part of.\r\n\r\nThanks KT...', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(3499, 371, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-06-07 20:10:01', '2009-06-08 00:10:01', 'A roller coaster of emotions, indeed. Life hands us a lot some weeks.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30618)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(4817, 424, 'Robin', 'sheldor@olivetschools.org', '', '24.56.209.49', '2009-07-22 17:39:53', '2009-07-22 21:39:53', 'I look forward to reading your new posts each week.  No matter what you are writing about, you find the hope, or the bright side.  Thank you for giving that perspective to the world at a time when so many people are struggling to find that hope.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1829, 290, 'Cobalt-Blue', 'michelle.feelingroovy@gmail.com', '', '69.221.238.152', '2009-03-10 00:11:31', '2009-03-10 04:11:31', 'Do you cook like you write? You took so many ''ingredients'' (details) forming them into one cohesive, tasteful unit. Wow! It was a fun read learning about you through your readers and visa-versa. My compliments to you : )', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.18.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.1.2 Safari/525.20.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1830, 290, 'Barbara Swafford', 'barbara@bloggingwithoutablog.com', 'http://bloggingwithoutablog.com', '208.100.163.198', '2009-03-10 03:57:07', '2009-03-10 07:57:07', 'Like you, I also love learning more about the people behind the blogs.  They are more than just faces in an avatar or commenters on a blog.  They are real people just like we are.  I love being able to call people I''ve never met, a friend.  Don''t you just love cyberspace?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1508, 278, 'What does non-hypocrisy look like?', '', 'http://affiliatecgi.com/what-does-non-hypocrisy-look-like/', '64.128.191.122', '2009-02-23 04:17:34', '2009-02-23 08:17:34', '[...] What does non-hypocrisy look like? [...]', 0, '1', 'The Incutio XML-RPC PHP Library -- WordPress/2.7.1', 'pingback', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1514, 276, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '76.199.12.141', '2009-02-23 11:52:54', '2009-02-23 15:52:54', 'Jenx67, thanks for following up. I can see what you''re saying. (And I can see why I''ll probably never make a living off of my blog! :)\r\n\r\nLarkinsmom, sharing your own story with the rest of us, as it relates to this issue of not hiding our struggles and pain, really helps bring the whole point home. That''s what a community should be about: Sharing and embracing one another''s pain rather than ignoring and attempting to downplay or negate it. Thanks for doing that, and for being so honest, here and on your own really wonderful blog!\r\n\r\nejly, yes, I heard that commentary when it was first aired. It''s a really painful story and important lesson. I''m not sure, though, how it''s an example to consider "instead" of the examples I shared. It seems to fit right in. Child abuse is happening, whether we see evidence of it or not, and as a society we have a responsibility to try to uncover even the abuse that''s happening "behind closed doors." Were you referencing the need to "judge" the boy''s abusive parents? If so, not judging someone is a separate issue from advocating for human rights, safety, and justice. Jesus was very much about all of those things. I think I''m misunderstanding you, though. Can you explain more what you mean by "I think judgment is called for?"\r\n\r\nIn general, I realize the "Do not judge" Bible verse was maybe kind of a surprise ending. Here''s what I meant, and how it relates to what I was writing about. Jesus is telling people not to judge, because we all have problems of our own, and we can''t rank or value sin and say "your sins are a 9, but mine are only a 2, so I''m going to focus my energy on what you''re doing wrong, not what I should be working on." We''re "bad" at being judges because we never have all the information or the right perspective. A Christian might judge someone for openly being homosexual, while not judging someone who sits on the church council and is having an affair in secret—simply because it''s kept hidden! Meanwhile, that very person might be consistently verbally abusive to his wife and kids, but doesn''t think it''s a "big deal." (Again, refraining from this kind of judgment does NOT excuse us from advocating for and protecting people in need. These are separate issues, and I don''t think Jesus'' use of the word "judge" here can be applied to justice issues.)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1515, 278, 'Jason', 'brechinj@gmail.com', '', '141.142.232.38', '2009-02-23 11:58:39', '2009-02-23 15:58:39', 'The scene you depict in your post, a caring congregation supporting this loving family at their child''s dedication, is wonderful.  I just wonder, sadly, how many people in the audience would leave those doors and view other people following "that" lifestyle as evil.  It''s great that the congregation can come together in support, but if it only works inside the church sanctuary, isn''t that just more hypocrisy?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1842, 290, 'Anne', 'annewillis2@gmail.com', '', '70.230.159.0', '2009-03-10 14:34:43', '2009-03-10 18:34:43', 'Ha! Loved this post - made me smile today to read about everyone...\r\nAnd I gotta say last night I grabbed a cast-iron skillet after baking bread in the oven - totally burned my hands... again. How appropriate.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1841, 290, 'TJ Hirst', 'tj@tjhirst.com', 'http://www.tjhirst.com/', '97.112.32.126', '2009-03-10 13:14:46', '2009-03-10 17:14:46', 'What a fun twist on all those "get to know you things." Thanks for building your community and inviting us all in to share.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1518, 278, 'Lorna', 'lornae2@gmail.com', '', '128.174.138.78', '2009-02-23 13:21:34', '2009-02-23 17:21:34', 'I too was moved yesterday. It was a blessing to be able to participate in that dedication after the rough couple years we went through to get to this place. I was also a bit nervous, knowing this was going to happen, that there would be renewed fallout, but so far have not heard of any. I know I''ve grown in understanding, love, mercy, &amp; justice by being a part of this community. I hope to continue in that growth, because there is always more to learn of God''s grace, kindness, love, and mercy.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1519, 278, 'martinj', 'xmartinj@gmail.com', '', '69.129.41.26', '2009-02-23 15:05:04', '2009-02-23 19:05:04', 'Hypocrisy is an interesting topic. \r\n\r\nI love the irony that culturally in America, hypocrisy is most associated with Christianity, and yet it was Christ who is credited with coining the phrase in a rare moment of spoken frustration. Calling religiously judgmental people hypocrites comes out of our culture, and it has rightfully been turned back on us.\r\n\r\n\r\nI think of the many ways I''m a hypocrite.\r\n\r\nCertainly, as a Christian, I''m a hypocrite in the religious/moral sense even though I try not to be. I''m also a hypocrite in wanting to be "green": I fly to Florida to get out of the cold, I drive well past the ideal cruising speed of my car, and I use disposable diapers. I''d like to say I''m against consumerism, and yet I can see plenty of it in my own house. I''d love to see more people in need be helped, and yet I can easily waste money on a Starbucks. I''d love to say my wife knows I cherish her, but too often I''m too busy with things on my list.\r\n\r\nI wish I wasn''t self-centered, and yet that appears to be my main mode of operation.\r\n\r\nI think we''re all hypocrites. I don''t think I''ve met anyone, religious or secular, who doesn''t have some sort of internal moral conflict. We all are judgmental of the people who cannot live up to the morality that comes easily to us, and outraged by people who can''t offer grace to failures that hit close to home.\r\n\r\n\r\nWe probably just need to work on extending grace to the people we least want to give it to. (gay people and judgmental Christians included)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.1; en-US) AppleWebKit/525.19 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/1.0.154.48 Safari/525.19', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1845, 292, 'TJ Hirst', 'tj@tjhirst.com', 'http://www.tjhirst.com/', '97.112.32.126', '2009-03-10 16:06:31', '2009-03-10 20:06:31', 'when you think it''s ok to vacuum the salt and sand form your vehicle, only to have another storm hit. \r\n\r\nCry for us. It''s coming down hard.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1524, 278, 'stef', 'sriehle@gmail.com', 'http://me-unplugged.com', '24.29.9.146', '2009-02-23 17:27:41', '2009-02-23 21:27:41', 'okay, and now i have to know, what church denomination do you go to? (feel free to email me if you don''t wish to post here.)\r\n\r\ni would love to have a place to belong where i don''t feel like i''m constantly being reinforced with the fact that my friends and family members that i know and love are going to be condemned to hell because of their personal quest for happiness (which may include relationships with members of the same sex).  \r\n\r\ni''m just curious.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1849, 292, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-03-10 19:15:58', '2009-03-10 23:15:58', 'I related to your thoughts about leg hair, and anything pertaining to  spending more time outside, then I know it''s that time of year when: \r\n- we get slammed with a spring blizzard and it is -24C \r\n- we prepped my son for week long spring camp...and had to add long johns and chemical boot warmers.\r\n- I was about to put the snow shovels and car brush away, refer to point one\r\n- I realize that many are sprouting seeds, but if I do they will be toast before I can really put them out\r\n- I am sick of comfort food, but the weather still dictates soup over watermelon\r\nOk, off to turn up the heat now...', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1851, 292, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-03-10 20:13:13', '2009-03-11 00:13:13', 'I''m struggling through the change of seasons right now. <a href="http://compostermom.blogspot.com/2009/03/march-madness-in-teachers-life.html" rel="nofollow">link text</a> (Teachers view it a little differently!)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1855, 292, 'Lesley', 'lesleymiller1@gmail.com', 'http://millersmeetsacramento.blogspot.com', '65.78.135.144', '2009-03-11 00:20:16', '2009-03-11 04:20:16', 'It''s that time of year when the almond blossoms are bright white and pink, when our neighborhood starts smelling of trip tip on the barbecue, when I can start riding my bike to work again, when the tulips are popping up, and when I start pulling out my seed packets.... (sorry, being that I''m a CA girl we are probably a little further into our spring than you are. Not tanning weather yet, but....well...almost.)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1861, 290, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-11 09:46:52', '2009-03-11 13:46:52', 'Pace, I know! It makes me happy, too, because we''re starting to emerge as a collection of interesting individuals who are forming a community of sorts.\r\n\r\nTJ, I''m glad I''m getting to know everyone "with a twist," too, and that I can introduce everyone in the process. It feels like I''m hosting a big party. Now that I think of it, this all fits with who I am in my "real life." When I''m hosting a party, I''m in my element. My friends say one of my great talents is introducing and connecting people, and getting the conversations going. I guess those skills work on line, too!\r\n\r\nAnne, I''m NOT happy that you tend to burn yourself, but I am glad to have a visual of you in my mind—happy, busy in the kitchen, your thoughts wandering here and there. A little detail like that really does make me feel like I know you.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4835, 413, 'Sara', 'sara@sarahealy.com', 'http://www.sarahealy.com', '98.230.25.185', '2009-07-23 10:26:36', '2009-07-23 14:26:36', 'Kristen, \r\n\r\nI do a lot of blog reading and I haven''t across a blog post about divorce as good as this one. It''s honest and yet compassionate. I was married for almost 30 years when my husband and I broke up. I was lucky in that my breakup was peaceful for the most part. \r\n\r\nLife transitions happen; we grow and we change. Sometimes we do this with our partners and sometimes we have to leave so we can continue our path in life. I think the worst thing people can do is stay together and be unhappy.\r\n\r\nAlso, it''s important for people to realize divorce or any breakup of a serious relationship is like dealing with a death. It''s important to accept that there will be a grief process. Thanks for this excellent post:~)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.11) Gecko/2009060215 Firefox/3.0.11', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1859, 292, 'Elaine Tolsma-Harlow', 'reoharlow@hotmail.com', '', '24.231.153.71', '2009-03-11 08:05:32', '2009-03-11 12:05:32', 'It''s that time of year when you replace the cross country skis in the trunk of your car with the fold up chairs to watch your kid''s outdoor soccer games.  But since you don''t want to tempt fate, you leave the cross country skis in the truck with the chairs &amp; then have no room for groceries.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2266, 320, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '76.247.167.247', '2009-04-10 12:10:42', '2009-04-10 16:10:42', 'JR, yes, she''s a beaut. Too bad she chewed a hole in our quilt this morning. Grrrr. (I still think you should try to get one, though. Check out Petfinder.com, and put "pug" not "puggle" in the search terms. All pug mixes will come up.)\r\n\r\nJeb, that dog''s truly one of a kind. Wow. Can''t wait to hear the story about mealtimes.\r\n\r\nJennifer, I LOVE that rule. We all need more rules like that in our lives, and fewer rules like "change your sheets twice a month."', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.8) Gecko/2009032608 Firefox/3.0.8', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2065, 308, 'karendaisy17', 'karennachbar@yahoo.com', '', '208.0.235.1', '2009-03-26 10:21:18', '2009-03-26 14:21:18', 'Kristin, you were the best blind date ever. (I''ve decided I''m definitely going to make any real/boy blind dates tweet for a week before meeting in person, it''s the way to go.)  Twitter makes my world feel simultaneously a little smaller and better connected, and our meeting on Tuesday only reinforced my suspicion that these bonds can be completely real.  We picked up where we left off because we''ve *really* been sharing our lives, albeit in 140 character doses, for a year.  And there are a million other things I wanted to talk to you about before the night ended.  So there must be a next time.\r\n\r\nBut I probably should stop calling you @kt_writes in person :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.8.1.20) Gecko/20081217 Firefox/2.0.0.20', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(5105, 436, 'Genevieve Charet', 'genny_charet@ameritech.net', 'http://thealchemistblog.wordpress.com', '69.211.122.127', '2009-08-07 12:26:09', '2009-08-07 16:26:09', 'What if the audience in my head always thinks I''m funny?  Should I still tell other people?  Or just let it be something special between me and...me?\r\n\r\n', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_4_11; en) AppleWebKit/530.19.2 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.2 Safari/530.19', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
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(1557, 276, 'ejly', 'eva.lyford@gmail.com', 'http://www.ejly.net', '207.250.76.6', '2009-02-24 14:44:19', '2009-02-24 18:44:19', 'I doubt the doctor is a perfect being, and probably has issues of her own to attend to. Yet she took the time to judge - to look at the missed well-care appointments - and to take action. So in spite of our personal failings, which each person should be working on, sometimes there is a calling to judge others and act upon what you know. So maybe it is our job to judge one another; and be conscious that in doing so, we expose ourselves for judgment too.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US) AppleWebKit/525.19 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/1.0.154.48 Safari/525.19', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2582, 345, 'Breanna', 'breanna.l.sengele@gmail.com', 'http://www.everydayflotsamandjetsam.blogspot.com', '24.219.146.90', '2009-05-07 13:57:18', '2009-05-07 17:57:18', 'I am so happy to have found your blog, and specifically, this post.  Isn''t forgiveness a challenging concept?  We were actually just talking about this last week in the small group that I attend.  One of my friends was talking about a situation in which he has been praying for years and years that God give him the strength and ability to forgive one particular person in his life for something that he/she did.  After many years, he still isn''t sure if he has truly forgiven the person.  We then started to question how you know when you have TRULY forgiven someone.  What is the benchmark??  How do you measure forgiveness??', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(1880, 296, 'Jason', 'brechinj@gmail.com', '', '141.142.232.38', '2009-03-12 13:35:31', '2009-03-12 17:35:31', 'While the number of "nones" rose, Christians do still account for 3/4 of the respondents.  What is the new way of "doing church and relating to God"?  After all, aren''t the people who just "do church" part of the problem of the trend of religion as "fashion statement"?  I think that many religious people need to disengage their association of atheist (or other "none" categorization) with people who have poor moral or ethical judgment.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
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(3033, 355, 'Lesley', 'lesleymiller1@gmail.com', 'http://barefooton45th.com', '65.78.135.144', '2009-05-21 22:25:15', '2009-05-22 02:25:15', 'Congrats! Your new space sounds wonderful, and I totally get needing a space to call your own. This concept of sharing office space is also becoming popular here in Sacramento. \r\n\r\nI hope your new office (no quotes) inspires you to be even more creative!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(6714, 531, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '75.159.51.148', '2009-11-13 15:57:12', '2009-11-13 19:57:12', 'Thanks for highlighting one of my tweets, it was actually in response to what you wrote about watchin your children, cuz it really did make me smile to read about your happiness.\r\nI know I would tend to make the best of where ever I lived, but am so at peace with our locale in terms of it''s access to the outdoors and nature - real life givers for me. I once lived in an apartment in Amsterdam, with hardly a greeen space to be found, but, I found solice in the waterways and planter boxes I would pass. While I recognize their can be ''draining'' places to live, I guess we would have to choose to look/seek a silver lining.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.1.5) Gecko/20091102 Firefox/3.5.5 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6607, 516, 'Sara', 'sara@sarahealy.com', 'http://www.sarahealy.com', '71.203.106.224', '2009-10-29 16:23:09', '2009-10-29 20:23:09', 'Kristin -- Love and marriage are such difficult topics, yet I think you really hit the nail on the head when you spoke of compatibility. That being said, an arranged marriage as "A" pointed out may be compatible if the couple agree on the reasons for the arranged marriage.\r\n\r\nI think what both you and Tess said is important too. You need to know who you are and what''s important to you in order to figure out compatibility. I was married for 29 years to a great man, but we weren''t compatible. On the other hand, when we got married, I didn''t a clue who I was or what I wanted. I was so young. \r\n\r\nI never thought I''d say this, but I think pre-marriage courses could be good thing, especially for young couples. I''m not talking about the ones that only focus on religion, but rather those that help a couple explore their values. I believe knowing your values and your partner''s values help make a more successful relationship.\r\n\r\nGreat thought provoking post, Kristin:~)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.1.3) Gecko/20090824 Firefox/3.5.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1874, 292, 'Joi T.', 'joitennant@verizon.net', 'http://TrackBack', '72.69.243.26', '2009-03-12 09:34:15', '2009-03-12 13:34:15', 'Great, Kristin!  Loved it all.  \r\nI think I have to add that we KNOW it''s spring when the calendar says June 1.\r\nThat''s from a jaded mid-Michigan grandma. : &gt;\r\nBut Calla, our dog, would say spring is when you can stretch out in the sun and not get too hot because your belly is so heavenly cool against the cold earth.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X; en) AppleWebKit/312.9 (KHTML, like Gecko) Safari/312.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1876, 288, 'Joi T.', 'joitennant@verizon.net', 'http://TrackBack', '72.69.243.26', '2009-03-12 10:04:56', '2009-03-12 14:04:56', 'I''ve been thinking about this ever since you posted it.  Discovering the beauty and outright surprising treasure of the message of the  love of God that weaves its way all the way through the Old Testament is the gift of thoughtful study of this part of the Bible.  When we get hung up on trying to figure out the many passages that could be interpreted as angry-God stuff, we need to remind ourselves that the people who began to have a relationship with our one true God (when they listened) were people steeped in the pagan understandings of all the generations before them.  How could God teach them a new way and a new picture of God?  It was a very long, painful process for both God and human beings.  But some of the Hebrew people began to get it, and became the mouthpiece for God.  And in those moments when they were truly tuned in they wrote the golden words that ring true down through time, helping us to comprehend the vastness and unchanging purity and pathos of our loving, ever-pursuing God, who identified himself as "I AM."', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X; en) AppleWebKit/312.9 (KHTML, like Gecko) Safari/312.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1878, 292, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-03-12 11:34:31', '2009-03-12 15:34:31', '“It’s that time of year, when….\r\n\r\nWhen for 10 years I dreaded the coming of summer. School would be letting out soon, and the longing I had to be with my children and not in some office would stalk me like the laughter of children coming from some other mother''s backyard. A nightmare really. I realize it''s different for other working moms. \r\n\r\nNow, it''s that time of year, when I kiss winter goodbye. I fix my last bowl of homemade oatmeal, which I tweeted about this a.m. I take a big deep breath and I head into summer, hoping it lasts forever. I am home with my children now, and I try to seize the day. I try not to let this thought stalk me: "How long can this last?" Both their childhoods and my sabbatical from the 8 to 5 grind, which is really 6 to 6 or worse. \r\n\r\nYour knack for engaging dialogue with your readers is better than anyone''s I''ve ever seen. You and my bloggy Le - you have so much style.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; InfoPath.2)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1577, 280, 'TJ Hirst', 'tj@tjhirst.com', 'http://www.tjhirst.com/', '97.112.15.32', '2009-02-25 11:17:07', '2009-02-25 15:17:07', 'First of all, I''m happy your daughter is healing. Secondly, I''ve felt that change of perspective happen in a moment. And your world is never the same. Or so you think. Capturing that moment to process along the way builds tragedies into opportunities. Opportunities for love, opportunities for reaching out. Opportunities foe learning. So, maybe we are never the same, nor are the worlds that touch yours, either.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1578, 280, 'LisaNewton', 'lisajnewton@gmail.com', 'http://www.travelinlocal.com', '76.166.207.239', '2009-02-25 11:40:27', '2009-02-25 15:40:27', 'It''s great to know your daughter is doing fine.  With 4 children, I''ve had my share of scary moments, and it never gets any easier.  \r\n\r\nIn regards your online versus offline community, during a very difficult time for me, one of my best support systems came from an online friend, someone I didn''t meet in person until several years later.  Online can be as real as offline, if not more so, depending on who it is........................:)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; GTB5; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1579, 280, 'Rebecca', 'rlthorman@gmail.com', 'http://modite.com/blog', '69.128.50.90', '2009-02-25 11:44:36', '2009-02-25 15:44:36', 'Great story and I''m so glad your daughter is okay! I can''t imagine the panic, and I''m glad that the online community helped you. I agree in the power of people connecting.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1582, 278, 'Jay Schryer', 'jayschryer@gmail.com', 'http://porsidan.com', '74.232.128.246', '2009-02-25 15:08:24', '2009-02-25 19:08:24', 'Hi Kristin,\r\n\r\nThe parts of Christianity that I like so much (and which seem to get lost so often) are the parts which talk about love. God is love. Love thy neighbor. A lot of Christians (and folks from other religions, too) seem to forget that it''s all about love. Or, at least it *should* be all about love. The scene that you describe has a lot of love in it, and I am sure that God was there, because Love was there. The baby was truly blessed to have been born in such a loving and caring family and community.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1586, 280, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '99.164.175.193', '2009-02-25 18:25:02', '2009-02-25 22:25:02', 'TJ, I love how you put it: building tragedies into opportunities for love and learning. The key is making sure I don''t keep that love and learning to myself, or even hoard it for my immediate family.\r\n\r\nLisa, somehow it''s just now dawning on me that the fears associated with parenting aren''t going to get any easier. Sigh. At least we have our community to support us, and even to say "I''ve been there." (I''m so glad an online friend was able to come through for you during a hard time.)\r\n\r\nRebecca, thanks for your good wishes. I''ve always thought the test of true friendship happens when "the rubber meets the road." I guess part of what was surprising to me was how grateful I was for my online friends. I would have thought they would recede in importance during a difficult time, but quite the opposite happened!\r\n\r\nJody, that must have been a terrifying thing to go through. Do you remember much of it? Since becoming a parent, there have been SO many times that I''ve found myself thinking "So *that''s* what my parents felt like when I... [fill in the blank]." \r\n\r\nejly, thanks! I''m very grateful it ended up being so minor. That probably has something to do with why I feel a bit silly writing a dramatic post like this. I know that so many parents endure much scarier moments and longer-term realities.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1587, 280, 'Arathi', 'arathi.kylasam@gmail.com', '', '128.174.60.182', '2009-02-25 18:25:13', '2009-02-25 22:25:13', 'I am so glad Quillin is okay! I can only imagine how scary that must have been. \r\n\r\nI hear you on online friendships. My online community of stepmoms is HUGELY important to me. I''ve met some of them but have not met the majority, but they help me through every difficult moment of stepparenthood. Hugs and hope you get to feeling better too. \r\n\r\nA', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.3) Gecko/2008092417 Firefox/3.0.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1887, 296, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-12 22:05:03', '2009-03-13 02:05:03', 'Jason, I completely hear you. It''s not like those who identify themselves as Christian are in the minority, in any stretch of the imagination. And yes, just as there are unfair stereotypes and assumptions made about Christians, they are also made about atheists. That changes when we know people who are open about where they stand and in some way counter to what we "assume." I know many atheists who are extremely moral/ethical, but unfortunately, many Christians stick very close to their own. Finally, I see how my word choice—"doing church"—gives the opposite impression of what I intended. What I believe is that while churches/Christian fellowships are inevitably flawed, they are still necessary if believers desire to grow and learn to serve and care for each other. For an example of a better way to "do church," in my opinion, read my post "What does non-hypocrisy look like?" (which I know you read and commented on). I''d love to devote an entire post to this topic, so check back! And thanks for your thoughtful response.  \r\n\r\nAmy, I''m so glad you shared a bit more about where you''re coming from. I love this: "I strongly hear the messages of newness, connectedness, the compassion of Christ." And you''re going to embrace the mantra with me? So wonderful. Please keep me posted. \r\n\r\njenx67, I''m so glad. (Just curious—which verse really resonated with you?)\r\n\r\nJennifer, I was afraid someone would say that! From the way my dad complains, the Lions have been at the bottom of the heap for a while. How fitting!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4473, 409, 'Dave Thurston', 'dave@orangeshirtguy.com', 'http://www.orangeshirtguy.com', '24.223.179.4', '2009-07-09 23:09:58', '2009-07-10 03:09:58', 'Tweet Length Comment A: ". . . less like a guided tour with a quiz at the end and more like a hands-on children’s museum" &lt;-- Man, that is like getting something to rhyme with orange.  I''m going to be mentally considering church the next time we go to the Children''s museum.\r\n\r\nTweet Length Comment B:  I didn''t read this one for a few days because of the picture - "ugh, I don''t want any food pointers as I''m making spaghetti again."  Apparently, I was "off".\r\n\r\nTweet Length Comment C: Although you already know it, your commenters are the perfect frame for your artwork.  I can''t think of any other blog where I read all of the comments like I do on yours.  Well done KT and Commenters.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_7; en-us) AppleWebKit/530.18 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.1 Safari/530.18', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(5817, 464, 'Alisa', 'alisa.folkes@comcast.net', '', '70.90.197.189', '2009-09-08 09:42:43', '2009-09-08 13:42:43', 'Kristin, the topic of fear is permeating the discussion cirlces I''m connected to (Max Lucado''s new book is titled Fearless), so your blog couldn''t have come at a better time! Thank you for being sensitive to the Holy Spirit. There''s much truth in what you shared. Keep it up.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.30; InfoPath.1; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2969, 353, 'Blackwasp19', 'joshuacanada@gmail.com', 'http://www.blackwasp19.wordpress.com', '99.20.197.119', '2009-05-20 07:06:28', '2009-05-20 11:06:28', 'Kristin,\r\n\r\nI definitely miss you guys. And hope all is going well at church. I echo many of the comments Emma made (props Emma).', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1884, 292, 'Jay', 'jayfrawley@gmail.com', 'http://jayfrawley.com', '75.181.60.49', '2009-03-12 17:34:54', '2009-03-12 21:34:54', '...where the coffee becomes iced, and the sweatshirts become neglected and sad.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1620, 282, 'Ashley', 'ashleygvelez@gmail.com', 'http://www.ashleygraceless.com', '68.153.33.3', '2009-02-27 11:35:21', '2009-02-27 15:35:21', 'Stepping up to your plate - I''m in awe of everyone who is able to freelance for a living.  I want it so badly but I have no idea how to go about starting.  My writing is fair but I''ve never actually submitted anything since college.  My fear of not succeeding vastly overcomes any desire to try this out, and my nagging "I-told-you-so" in the back of my head keeps me at my day job feeling bored and confused.  \r\n\r\nAnd an addition - thanks to Chuck and his attempt at creating an online community, I feel a little closer to everyone he''s showcased for his under-appreciated blogs project.  It''s weird to me feeling closer to people I''ve never met than to people I talk to on a daily basis, but I have nothing in common with most people I work with.  It''s just work - I don''t have any kind of satisfaction from it except a biweekly paycheck.  My online friends, well, we have a common bond.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1622, 282, 'TJ Hirst', 'tj@tjhirst.com', 'http://www.tjhirst.com/', '97.112.15.32', '2009-02-27 12:20:54', '2009-02-27 16:20:54', 'Come back to me. Isn''t that what we say when the teacher asks a question and we want a minute to think. I''ve chosen carefully how much information to give out online so as to not invite intimacy with everyone. So, it is a little tough, but not impossible to develop those bonds. I think the number one thing is keeping in contact and developing consistent reading of each other''s blogs and Tweets. \r\n\r\nBut, still, here''s some other get to know me things - I''l do five.\r\n1. I''m a Midwesterner at heart. I was raised in St. Louis and dreamed of the day I could live in a high rise in Chicago. Instead, I settled in the middle of Minnesota. Happy here, too.\r\n2. I''m a nurturer. When I become a mom I asked, what is it I do all day and why do I do it. There had to be something more than temporal needs. I discovered nurturing. It''s what I do best. I nurture lots of people and not just my kids. Nurturing applies to any relationship.\r\n3. I''m tuned in spiritually, at least I try to be. Personal faith and commitment to religious devotion and service are important to me as member of the LDS church.\r\n4. I express myself. I''m not shy about saying what I think, although I''m learning with age about when and where and how to do it respectfully. I need to write to understand myself and the word around me. \r\n5. Creativity drives me. I like to find it in others and cultivate in myself. \r\nSo, that''s me. I''ll take your challenge and make this into a blog post for next week. Great idea.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1623, 282, 'Jeb Dickerson', 'jebdickerson@mac.com', 'http://www.howtomatter.com', '71.237.106.69', '2009-02-27 12:35:17', '2009-02-27 16:35:17', 'I''m a dreamer. An idealist. Despite many disappointments, I remain convinced that it (where it = the life I pictured for myself when I was but a boy) exists, and that one day I''ll find it. \r\n\r\nMy idealism, ironically, is often hampered by cynicism and doubt and I''m certain this is why the ideal and the real have yet to mesh perfectly in a consistent way.\r\n\r\nI question almost everything I do. Not always in a way that suggests a mistake, merely as an opportunity to reflect, and recognize what I''m doing well and, more importantly, what I might do better. \r\n\r\nI''m working hard, lately, to forget everything I just said and be content. Right here. Right now. In this very spot, this very moment, as I am. Seems to be enough for my boys and my lovely wife...perchance it''s time to let well enough alone.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1624, 282, 'Sarah', 'supershorty@gmail.com', 'http://accountingchick.blogspot.com', '128.187.0.178', '2009-02-27 12:45:59', '2009-02-27 16:45:59', 'Hi. I''m a lurker. But I know how much I like to hear from my readers, so I thought I''d say something random about myself:\r\nI''m a Senior in collage, and I just decided on a major. Yay!\r\nI really enjoy your posts.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.16 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0 Safari/528.16', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1625, 282, 'Anne', 'annewillis2@gmail.com', '', '70.230.190.217', '2009-02-27 13:09:07', '2009-02-27 17:09:07', 'I''m more of a lurker, too, but here''s some from my 25---\r\n\r\nI always burn my hands. Always. It''s like I forget every time I cook that stuff is hot and I shouldn''t put my fingers in boiling water - or grab a pan right out of the oven. Seriously it''s really stupid. My hubby calls me asbestos hands.\r\n\r\nI love reading and don''t get to read enough books these days. The first book I remember that really grabbed me was "The Boxcar Children." I think I read it in 2nd grade and it totally made a reader out of me. Have been ever since. I just checked it out from the library to read again and totally know why I loved it.\r\n\r\nI don''t like it when the salesperson comments on my selection when I buy a CD, book or rent a movie. I don''t know why...\r\n\r\nI don''t ever want to work a "real job" again. It''s hard to be your own boss, have constant deadlines, work nights/weekends etc. but having tasted the freedom of freelancing I never want to work in an office again. When my son is older I want to be home when he gets home from school.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1915, 278, 'Ron Simkins', 'simkins@Illinois.edu', '', '70.225.166.72', '2009-03-14 13:24:46', '2009-03-14 17:24:46', 'Hi Kristin,    \r\nAs one of the pastors of the church whose Sunday morning you describe in this blog, I want to say publically how much I love it when someone goes home and really thinks and prays (even writes!) about what occurred  when we gather.  As is true with everyone in our congregation, at one moment Kristin and I will see things exactly alike, and the next minute we may think we are coming from different planets, but the love and honor for one another as followers of Jesus who are doing our best to be honest and genuine just keeps growing.  Jesus provides us a great model for learning faithfulness to God.  What a journey!  Glad I have the privilege of being on it with you Kristin.   -- Ron Simkins', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30618)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1629, 282, 'Becca', 'becca@belz.net', '', '75.84.96.6', '2009-02-27 14:27:51', '2009-02-27 18:27:51', 'Hm, I lurk in lots of places and rarely post because I''m introverted and feel like I don''t really have anything important to say. But you already know that about me, since we''ve known each other for more than 13 years. :) I love reading your blog because you think and write about so many of the same things I do, but you''re able to put it into words that I never could. I love and admire you (but not in a creepy way, internet!).', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1630, 282, 'Shell', 'disappearing_mist@hotmail.com', 'http://shelfie.blogspot.com', '216.67.43.243', '2009-02-27 14:33:22', '2009-02-27 18:33:22', 'Awesome idea! Hmm...I live in Alaska. I went against social norms and got married at 20 and we are thriving. I never wear makeup. And, I take photos of everything.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1633, 282, 'Pace', 'pace@paceandkyeli.com', 'http://paceandkyeli.com', '70.112.22.183', '2009-02-27 16:21:53', '2009-02-27 20:21:53', 'Hi there! (:\r\n\r\nI''m Pace.  I''m very random, so I''ll tell you some random things about me.\r\n\r\n1. I used to be really good at Dance Dance Revolution (DDR).  I won a few statewide competitions. I still play for fun, but I don''t compete anymore.\r\n\r\n2. My favorite game is called Zendo.  It''s kind of like Mastermind, but way way more interesting because it''s open-ended.\r\n\r\n3. I used to go to sports games with my dad just because I loved the nachos and pretzels.\r\n\r\n4. I''m color blind, but it only bothers me in those silly match-3 games. I stack yellows on top of light greens and wonder why they don''t disappear.\r\n\r\n5. College (Carnegie Mellon) was the first place I met anyone weirder than me or smarter than me.\r\n\r\n6. I used to hate ducks for no reason until a few years ago.  Then I stopped.\r\n\r\n7. There''s a word I really hate. I realized after I started typing this that I''m not going to want to type it.  It starts with a T and means "fabrics".  I HATE that word. Please don''t say it.\r\n\r\n8. I can pronounce the alphabet backwards.\r\n\r\nNice to meet you! (:', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1634, 262, 'Laura Tamayo', 'delightedscribblers@gmail.com', 'http://delightedscribbler.blogspot.com', '66.140.47.35', '2009-02-27 16:50:34', '2009-02-27 20:50:34', 'OK, I admit, when I saw the first mention of religion on your blog I hesitated. The thought did in fact cross my mind that this space might have a recruiting mission that I was not going to be comfortable with; I''m glad I read on. You don''t come across like that to me at all. I respect your tolerance and the open way you talk about your views.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X; en-US; rv:1.8.1.14) Gecko/20080404 Firefox/2.0.0.14', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2944, 353, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '75.159.46.147', '2009-05-19 12:36:11', '2009-05-19 16:36:11', 'Greetings Kristen, I saw your comment on twiiter about your titles relationship to your posts contents... if there is anything I have observed during the process of ''e-knowing'' you it is that you do find the right connections between your title and your posts contents. I think this title ends up fitting just right in terms of how you describe your relelctions over your past four years, and the relationship you have develped there. Through letting go of perfectionism, yet still striving to be/do ones best - it appears to be just the sort of place where you/anyone can comfortably set tears free. I am saying this from a perspective that it can be necessary to let tears free, but difficult to do so if one does not feel they are in a place of acceptance.\r\nIt is apparent you are paying attention to describing your cumminity with care and an open perspective. With the delicate way you choose your words and convey your thoughts I believe you will serve your community well. I prefer not to highlight any one charcteristic as they all seem so appropriate, but would like to add that your final parapragh has such merit and seems to summuraizes who you all are so well.\r\nBest, Trina', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2475, 343, 'Cheryl Ensom Dack', 'roseyposeyclothes@yahoo.com', 'http://www.roseyposeyconfections.blogspot.com', '71.138.18.38', '2009-05-04 12:41:28', '2009-05-04 16:41:28', 'Love this post, Kristin. I feel the same way about walking, and lately have been enjoying running for similar reasons. I''ve never heard of a CROP walk, though! I need to look into that locally!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (iPod; U; CPU iPhone OS 2_2_1 like Mac OS X; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.18.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.1.1 Mobile/5H11a Safari/525.20', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(5352, 445, 'Katie Z.', 'katie.z.dawson@gmail.com', 'http://salvagedfaith.blogspot.com', '69.66.71.163', '2009-08-17 14:06:02', '2009-08-17 18:06:02', 'Ryan, you mentioned striving for perfection - for seeking the best that we can be and mentioned "tireless trial and error" to get there. \r\n\r\nIronically, that trial and error, that endless seeking for perfection is exactly what leads so many people to engage in casual and reckless sexual experiences.  But it also is what leads people to deeply commit themselves to someone - emotionally, sexually, etc - and then realize that the relationship is not "meant to be."  This happens in both pre-marital and marital relationships.  \r\n\r\nYou are right that not everyone understands the deep connection between sex and intimacy.  There are a lot of people out there who just want the instant gratification and none of the work, and many people are hurt through that.  But I think in some ways, you also lump all kinds of premarital sexual activity together. \r\n\r\nThere are lots of reasons committed people choose not to get married.  They may simply be rebelling against social convention, but have in their hearts the same deep and lasting level of commitment a married couple does. They may have been deeply hurt through the breakup of a marriage and/or experiencing what it is like when people hurt one another in a marriage - and refuse to enter the same institution themselves out of fear, need for healing. They may be too busy/too poor... both of which are tied to societal ideas of what it means to have a marriage ceremony, and has nothing to do with their levels of commitment for one another.  \r\n\r\nAll relationships are hard work.  \r\n\r\nAnd to speak the truth, marriage really sucks sometimes.  Some days you look over at your spouse and wonder how on earth they were let out of the insane asylum.  Sometimes you wonder how on earth you were let out of the insane asylum. No marriage is perfect. No marriage is free of problems. And it doesn''t matter if you get married when you are 18, 25, 50 or 85. What does matter is how committed you are to riding those storms, how much ability you have to say yes, I choose keep loving you even though you never scoop the cat poop, even though you really hurt me with what you said after dinner last night, even though I can''t stand your opinion on that political issue.  A big reason I would advocate getting married later is that I''m not convinced that before the age of 25 we have that level of emotional maturity.  Some of us do, but not all. \r\n\r\nSex is only one small part of marriage - and to talk about it as the only part leads too many to enter marriage to soon, and too many to give up when the spark turns to a smoldering ember.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; .NET CLR 1.0.3705; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5353, 143, 'Katie Z.', 'katie.z.dawson@gmail.com', 'http://salvagedfaith.blogspot.com', '69.66.71.163', '2009-08-17 14:14:07', '2009-08-17 18:14:07', 'because I was reading the post from today, I clicked on this one - and they are intimately related!!!  \r\n\r\nI firmly believe that sexuality is about honoring and respecting our bodies and ourselves and the gift of pleasure that God has given us. But far too often, we limit discussions about sexuality to intercourse and marriage - when sexuality encompasses what clothes we decide to wear, how we feel about our physical bodies, intimacy with another human being, etc. \r\n\r\nSex=marriage doesn''t work.  It doesn''t work because it dishonors all of the parts of sexuality that we experience before/during/after/without intercourse. It doesn''t work because it creates a cycle of shame that leads men and women to hate their bodies and their selves (and this happens disproportionately with women).  It doesn''t work because sex within marriage is not always holy and healthy and equating them has led to the perpetuation of marital rape and spousal abuse. \r\n\r\nSexuality and marriage are intrinsically connected, but they are not mutually exclusive. \r\n\r\nMy partner and I waited three years before "doing the deed." That''s not to say that we didn''t do everything BUT before then. We lived together for a year and a half before we were eventually married - seven and a half years after our relationship officially began. In all of this time, both beforeand after marriage, my partner and I took seriously our discussions about our bodies and our relationship. We honored and respected each other. We grew together emotionally and spiritualy and physically. We gave in to some temptation. We prayed together. We made mistakes and we learned from them. In all of that, the only shame/guilt I have felt has come from outside. Imposed upon me by people who didn''t take the time to listen to or hear or share with me what I was experiencing.  I think Betty is right - when we feel shame for something it does make us think about whether what we are doing is right or wrong.  But when blanket shame is imposed upon us, without the understanding of what is really happening in any given relationship, I think we are talking about a different animal.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; .NET CLR 1.0.3705; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2134, 313, 'Rebecca', 'rlthorman@gmail.com', 'http://modite.com/blog', '24.177.121.155', '2009-03-30 14:44:48', '2009-03-30 18:44:48', 'Can you non-plan my next birthday? ;) Sounds fabulous. Tradition and simplicity are overlooked. I am a Yahtzee champion, by the way. And Skip-Bo. Ryan still hasn''t beat me.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.8) Gecko/2009032609 Firefox/3.0.8', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1640, 282, 'Elaine Tolsma-Harlow', 'reoharlow@hotmail.com', '', '24.231.153.71', '2009-02-27 19:37:29', '2009-02-27 23:37:29', 'OK, I think the Twilight theme should be played on this one.  The wonderful unrelated bone marrow donor, who donated her marrow to save my life &amp; I were born in the same hospital in Florida, 7 years apart.  I only lived in Florida for a short time &amp; have spent the rest of my life in the Great Lake States.  And no, we are not related in any way shape or form, just one of those weird things...', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1642, 282, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-02-27 20:10:41', '2009-02-28 00:10:41', 'I observe, that many in online communities do their utmost to communicate with great care. Words are chosen carefully to convey the intent since we lack the benefit of the facial/bodily language that would accompany it. Certainly there are those that unleash their ''qwerty'' tongue, but they dont last long. I am aware that not all truths are necessarily laid bare, but if it''s with malicious intent - that is their problem. These observations are a huge part of why I believe online communities work so. I enjoy what you have to say, therefore I stick around, and comment occasionaly. I appreciate the chance to be a bit more known by you. So....\r\nI. I leave behind more typos than I care to admit to, but, hey, I taint perfect.\r\n2. I love being home for my family.\r\n3. I wish I crafted more.\r\n4. I wish I would ''just do it''\r\n5. I love to ''stop and smell the roses''', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1643, 282, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-02-27 20:13:19', '2009-02-28 00:13:19', 'I''m a fairly new reader, a commenter rather than lurker. I''m a midwesterner, mom, wife, teacher, and blogger. Stop by and see mine some time!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1644, 282, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-02-27 20:15:30', '2009-02-28 00:15:30', 'BTW, meant to add, ( so much for careful planning haha) that I love what I learn from the many out there. Today I learned of Gravatar, thanks for that KT, so next time I comment I may well have some other part of me their too...', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1647, 282, 'Mark', 'harvey@me.com', '', '99.147.163.176', '2009-02-27 22:29:56', '2009-02-28 02:29:56', 'This is a nice idea, although the cynic in me thinks I am being experimented on for a book proposal...but I don''t want to be accused of being a lurker or worse.\r\n\r\nI find your topics typically timely and interesting--I have always enjoyed your writing style.  I do not always agree with what you write (although most of your readers seem to ALWAYS agree which gets a little too campy for me).\r\n\r\nOk, about me, well, I hate talking about me, there''s one.  I love stringed instruments, drinking tea out of my grandmother''s Johnson Brother''s china I inherited when she passed away, gardens and working in the garden with my wife and kids to name a few.  The truth is I like too many things, jack-of-all-trades, master of none.\r\n\r\nI find nothing more peaceful than standing in the middle of a river with a bamboo fly rod right before twilight flicking my line out in hopes of seeing one more break in the water.  Or equally, quietly waiting in the woods to see a bird that I''ve been following for what seems likes hours.  Those last two remind me of a favorite Dickinson poem: "Hope is the thing with feathers."\r\n\r\nHope     \r\nHope is the thing with feathers \r\nThat perches in the soul, \r\nAnd sings the tune--without the words, \r\nAnd never stops at all,\r\n\r\nAnd sweetest in the gale is heard; \r\nAnd sore must be the storm \r\nThat could abash the little bird \r\nThat kept so many warm.\r\n\r\nI''ve heard it in the chillest land, \r\nAnd on the strangest sea; \r\nYet, never, in extremity, \r\nIt asked a crumb of me.\r\n\r\nOh, and now I am curious why your reader Pace afraid of the word "Textile"?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.16 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0 Safari/528.16', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1648, 282, 'Lorna', 'lornae2@gmail.com', '', '98.212.170.130', '2009-02-27 23:15:20', '2009-02-28 03:15:20', 'Well, since I do know you face to face, I''m not who you are looking to hear from here, but wanted to comment anyway! I won''t go on and on about how much I enjoy your writing, or how fun it is to see so many people discover you, or what a joy I experience to be in everyday life with you, (I do &amp; it is) but instead I''ll just say thanks.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X; en-US; rv:1.8.1.12) Gecko/20080201 Firefox/2.0.0.12', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1651, 282, 'Leslie', 'CoachLesB@aol.com', 'http://blog.lifeconcoctions.com', '173.74.243.209', '2009-02-28 00:47:25', '2009-02-28 04:47:25', 'Hi, Kristin!  What a great idea!  I love your blog, and I hope you never get all the way to normal!\r\n\r\nRandom things about me:\r\n1.  I hope to re-career from advertising to life coaching someday, in a few years.\r\n2.  I''m a blogger wannabe.\r\n3.  I''m teaching myself to draw with Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1652, 282, 'Jamie', 'jamie@intersectedblog.com', 'http://www.intersectedblog.com', '99.139.71.51', '2009-02-28 01:20:42', '2009-02-28 05:20:42', 'Well, I''m not a lurker, but I''ll comment here. =) \r\n\r\nI live in California. I am so into blogging right now that everything that happens in my life (minute or large) becomes a post in my head -- headline formed and all. \r\n\r\nI''m still trying to figure out if I will ever be able to be successful in my career AND have a successful relationship. \r\n\r\nMy favorite dessert is crepes with Nutella. \r\n\r\nI''m living back with my parents (something I told myself I would NEVER do, but here I am) and I actually love it (something that surprises me every day). \r\n\r\nAnnnnd, I think you need to add a little option under your comments so I can get all the replies to this post emailed to me. \r\n\r\nThanks for writing - I love your blog!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N');
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(1653, 282, 'Vicki', 'vlb@cfcl.com', 'http://cfcl.com/vlb', '64.142.15.200', '2009-02-28 01:59:04', '2009-02-28 05:59:04', 'I found you in Twitter and now read your blog. I''m so glad that Q wasn''t badly injured.\r\n\r\nI don''t have human kids but I love my kitties dearly and I know all too well that piercing feeling when something goes wrong.\r\n\r\nI live with my hubby and our 4 cats in the San Francisco area. I''m originally from Pennsylvania. I prefer the weather in California.\r\n\r\nI''m a writer, a programmer, and a techie. I think the WWW is one of the best things to come along in forever! Best thing since the personal computer.\r\n\r\nAnd... thanks for asking.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X Mach-O; en; rv:1.8.1.19) Gecko/20081212 Camino/1.6.6 (like Firefox/2.0.0.19)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4281, 402, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '24.12.200.216', '2009-07-03 11:45:07', '2009-07-03 15:45:07', 'Emma, that''s a great perspective to have. It helps us have more realistic expectations of the humans in our lives, and gives us a more tangible connection to God. Thanks for sharing that! (And no, I haven''t seen the video of my daughter''s play yet, but I have pre-purchased some of the dvds and am waiting anxiously for them to get made! S did do a one-girl performance of much of the play for us the other evening, which was really fun.)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042315 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2283, 326, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-04-14 18:01:24', '2009-04-14 22:01:24', 'When I have periods of not knowing what I want, I am actually grateful for them, as I realize that I have no pressures or demands required of me. I think that comes from past stresses of too many demands and pressures. Once I was able to release some of those pressures, ''not knowing what I wanted'' became exactly what I needed.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.8) Gecko/2009032609 Firefox/3.0.8 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(3471, 367, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '24.12.200.216', '2009-06-03 12:19:26', '2009-06-03 16:19:26', 'Jeb, I really wish everyone was in tune with where they see God best, and then willing to free themselves up to go there. I''m afraid it''s not true for most people, most of the time, though. And I think these constructs of religion around God—what Blackwasp19 called "being socialized to see Christian fellowship as a Sunday morning stint"—is unfortunately a big part of the problem. I''m glad you''ve been able to let go of that and find your place with God.\r\n\r\nJennifer, that my readers are diverse and thoughtful are probably the two things I love most about them/you! It''s amazing to have you all out there to write for. I love hearing your PK perspective, and about how you''ve journeyed to a place where you can really let your relationship with God grow.\r\n\r\njenx67, that''s a great C.S. Lewis quote to bring into the conversation. I think most churches have become really confused about why they exist and who they''re serving, or they''re focused on reaching out but doing it in aggressive, guilt-mongering ways. Maybe if we can get that straightened out, some of these other issues will work themselves out, too. That tends to happen. And no, I haven''t heard of Rachel Barkey. I will definitely check out her testimony as soon as I can section off an hour—it sounds like a very important thing to hear. Thanks.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042315 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1664, 282, 'stef', 'sriehle@gmail.com', 'http://me-unplugged.com', '24.29.9.146', '2009-02-28 14:58:05', '2009-02-28 18:58:05', 'i''ve commented a few times, so i''m not exactly de-lurking here, but i liked this post. also, i haven''t done the "25 things about me" meme yet (although i DID try to do "25 albums" meme...and didn''t quite make it). so if i post a couple things here, does that mean i don''t have to do the meme? :)\r\n\r\njust a few things:\r\n1) i lived in scotland from august to december last year to be with my boyfriend as a "trial run".  it didn''t work out.  as i quit my job to go, i didn''t have one when i got back, and still don''t (even though i''ve been looking). i kind of hate it; it''s the first time i''ve been unemployed since i was 13.\r\n2) i wouldn''t <i>mind</i> visiting Fiji, but the place that tops my list for "places to go before i do" is Iceland.\r\n3) i love the smell of patchouli on a man. maybe this is a throwback to my college hippie days, but for some reason, this earthy scent makes me want to climb walls.\r\n\r\nhm...i may build on this and end up creating my "25 things" list anyway. thanks for getting me started. ;)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1665, 282, 'stef', 'cyandroxy@yahoo.com', 'http://me-unplugged.com', '24.29.9.146', '2009-02-28 14:58:50', '2009-02-28 18:58:50', 'oops, sorry. i guess i used the wrong email address in my previous post...here''s hoping my gravatar loads this time.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1666, 282, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-02-28 15:28:30', '2009-02-28 19:28:30', 'Happy Saturday, everyone. I''m planning to do a follow up post to this one, which will include my responses to the glimpses you''ve shared into who you are. That''s why I haven''t been responding to you directly here, like I usually do. I wanted you all to know again, though, how VERY much I''m enjoying hearing from so many of you. I feel more connected to you, which makes me think this little online community "experiment" is working! :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1670, 282, 'Gregory', 'gregorytaylor@cableone.net', '', '24.116.19.131', '2009-02-28 22:36:44', '2009-03-01 02:36:44', 'I completely understand the urge to connect to online friends in some more tangible (or, old-school?) way, like by sending a postcard or chatting over a cup of coffee. My online friends feel just as real as my neighbors and co-workers -- sometimes moreso -- which creates a warm feeling of community in queasy contradistinction to the fact that I don''t really know any of you. At least not in the traditional sense. \r\n\r\nIn college, my friend Eric and I discovered that we had very different goals and motives for our social interactions. He liked keeping friends and acquaintances in isolated bubbles, well-defined spheres such as "science-lab acquaintances, "old friends from high school," and "college dorm friends." On the other hand, I really enjoyed mixing my different crowds, blending and juxtaposing colorful characters from all aspects of my life. We discovered this after he marveled that I knew the names of people who worked in the shops near our college, and I wondered aloud why I''d never met his Mom when she lived less than ten miles away.\r\n\r\nWe decided I like a "fluid" social life, and he likes a "segmented" one, and it became a long-standing joke between us that explained a lot of things over the years. I tell this story because my online friends feel like the newest extension of my desire for a fluid life. If I like someone, I want all the other people I like to know about them and like them, too. Online interaction creates these circles of common affection and makes them easier to find and form. And yet I''m still occasionally plagued by the notion that these friendships are somehow less-than -- shadowy and tenuous at best, completely Matrix-y and artificial at worst.\r\n\r\nA while back on twitter, @swallner and @kt_writes were sharing thoughts about motherhood or managing a household or something, and I was struck by the Six Degrees quality of the connection: @swallner is the sister of @amyjones65 who I met when I joined a book club years ago with @warnoj, one of my best friends. I''m @bookhouseboy, and I went to grad school with @heathra, who is good friends with @bill_of_lading, brother of @kt_writes. These people live in four different states. I''ve never met the people on either end of this chain face to face, but through twitter, I feel I know them well. Both of them are connected to me through chains branching in completely different directions.\r\n\r\nThat @swallner and @kt_writes can share joys and frustrations and find common ground, thousands of miles apart and without even knowing how they got connected, is a powerful new part of the human story, one that excites me a lot. Millions of these Six Degrees connections must happen every day, helping people feel more loved and appreciated, less isolated and misunderstood. And that''s the most human kind of interaction I can imagine, even if it happens through high-tech media and machines.\r\n\r\nWait... I was just supposed to say a few facts about me, right?? Sorry. \r\n\r\n1. I''m a former English teacher turned school librarian.\r\n2. I love taking long road trips alone, as long as friends await at the other end.\r\n3. A little part of me is always longing to return to Disneyland.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1675, 282, 'Nisha', 'nchittal@gmail.com', 'http://nishachittal.wordpress.com', '64.198.245.6', '2009-03-01 14:26:24', '2009-03-01 18:26:24', 'I never intentionally tried to be a lurker, but I guess I ended up one because I subscribe to so many blogs it''s impossible to comment on them all. I agree with you that I''m always wondering who''s lurking on my blog. Anyways, I do really like your blog, and it''s great to see another blogger from Champaign-Urbana :) A couple things about me: I am extremely restless and want to travel somewhere all the time (I think it''s the born and raised in Illinois thing that constantly makes me want to get out of here and go somewhere new). I hate money, I think it destroys everything and takes all the fun out of life. So much so that I refuse to even think about money, which just gets me into even more trouble.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US) AppleWebKit/525.19 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/1.0.154.48 Safari/525.19', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2291, 328, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-04-15 19:30:10', '2009-04-15 23:30:10', 'I''m not sure the world is truly on its way to heck in a handbasket at the hands of Generation Y. My daughter and her friends (technically Millennials, not Y) are very curious and generous people, and find many other like-minded folk in the world. Our current economy may be scary, and our stay-put-ness has certainly changed since WWII, but communities are alive and well.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2927, 353, 'Chris', 'cdpond@gmail.com', '', '141.142.52.181', '2009-05-18 14:27:33', '2009-05-18 18:27:33', 'I think that''s the best description of our church I''ve ever read, Kristin. I look forward to seeing the new website!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042315 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7136, 547, 'The Modern Gal', 'themoderngal@gmail.com', 'http://themoderngal.blogspot.com', '192.249.11.66', '2009-12-23 23:23:41', '2009-12-24 03:23:41', 'You''re hitting on a very good point -- we need the darkness to help us realize just how wonderful the light is. We just have to be careful to keep the darkness from consuming us. You''re right to give it a nod, and then send it on its merry way. Merry Christmas!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; GTB6; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; InfoPath.2; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; OfficeLiveConnector.1.4; OfficeLivePatch.1.3)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5312, 443, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-08-16 16:52:42', '2009-08-16 20:52:42', 'Angela, thanks for the encouragement you always give to just be who I am and share what I''m thinking. Q is doing amazingly well. She has a very positive spirit that I hope rubs off on me every day.\r\n\r\nElaine, I have a feeling you''ve learned more about "being thankful for what is" than most people our age. I''m a slower learner, but I''m starting to get just how powerful small, regular doses of gratitude can be.\r\n\r\nCheryl, you''re so right—pain distills things, in a simple, elemental way. Thank you for your kind words and big hugs. :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.12) Gecko/2009070609 Firefox/3.0.12', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1678, 282, 'mothershaffer', 'mother.shaffer@gmail.com', 'http://mothershaffer.wordpress.com/', '98.110.225.9', '2009-03-01 18:07:26', '2009-03-01 22:07:26', 'Hi KT, I think I found you originally via Twitter and liked your blog, so I added you to my blog roll. I''m new to blogging, couple months now and new to Twitter and all that. I''m a bit of a lurker, hoping to learn how to do things right and getting a handle on what I like about other people''s blogs so I can make my meaningful and entertaining as well. Keep up the good work and hope to get to know you better some day.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1680, 282, 'The Modern Gal', 'themoderngal@gmail.com', 'http://themoderngal.blogspot.com', '67.187.116.24', '2009-03-02 00:45:07', '2009-03-02 04:45:07', 'I''ve been blown away by the quality of the friendships I''ve forged with people whom I met online and eventually met in person. Because they know so many intimate details of my life and I know so many of theirs, it feels like we''re long-lost friends when we first meet in person. It''s such a wonderful yet surreal experience.\r\n\r\nLet''s see, some random facts about me: I write for a living. I''m an only child. I believe that we must strive to make ourselves happy if we want to make others happy.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5697, 460, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '75.156.133.57', '2009-09-01 19:58:22', '2009-09-01 23:58:22', 'I too subscirbe to the ''happy medium as opposed to the all or nothing approach. I have always seen my role to be the supplement to what was offered at school, plus I made a point of making sure those supplements were choc full of nutrients. (Do like your food analogy) I never refused the sauce, but offered tons of fillers so the sauce wasnt quite so interesting.\r\n\r\nI wish to add that my observations say reluctant readers are often so, as they have not been given the best keys to read easily. If they are lacking the confidence to read easily, have fallen thrugh the cracks, and/or have not been given the tools to read, then the content wont appeal - period. IMHO.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.1.2) Gecko/20090729 Firefox/3.5.2 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5369, 445, 'Jason', 'brechinj@gmail.com', 'http://www.cleverfoodblog.com', '98.228.58.156', '2009-08-17 19:59:12', '2009-08-17 23:59:12', 'dee - Regardless of whether or not it overlaps or reiterates, I really like your take in your second point, and I think you sum it up very nicely in the end.  I hope more people can adopt a "full-bodied theology" as you propose.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US) AppleWebKit/530.5 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/2.0.172.39 Safari/530.5', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(5371, 445, 'Tyler', 'tybraun@gmail.com', 'http://manofdepravity.com', '71.59.139.130', '2009-08-17 21:00:30', '2009-08-18 01:00:30', '"If we focused more on those things, would everything else—healthy, fulfilling sex and relationships included—fall more organically into place, as God intended?" \r\n\r\nI hope the answer is absolutely. I do think churches need to speak about this subject in a way that makes sense to kids, but I totally agree that maybe we should focus on the key principles of Christianity...that might do a whole lot more good.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.1.2) Gecko/20090729 Firefox/3.5.2', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5372, 445, 'Songbird', 'revsongbird@gmail.com', 'http://revsongbird.typepad.com/', '74.65.175.86', '2009-08-17 21:40:40', '2009-08-18 01:40:40', 'Writing as a Southern Baptist girl who followed the letter and spirit of the "wait until marriage" law, I can tell you it''s no guarantee of anything. I could not in good conscience advise the three children of that marriage to wait until the wedding night with their prospective life partners. I''m not sorry I married their father, because I am happy to have those particular children in my life. But I knew from the first night, in a way that spelled doom, I had married a selfish person who did not understand the idea of caring fully for another person. I learned that my fear of being "too" sexual had drawn me into a marriage with someone who did not desire me particularly. And the selfishness and the lack of particular desire in dialogue with my own rigid sense of what was right and proper and my judgment on both him and myself made for a very, very unhappy marriage and his eventual departure for what he imagined would be a happier life. \r\nOddly enough, once I grieved fully the loss of the life I knew to be "right," I learned to be happy. And eventually I fell in love and had the courage to get married again, to a person I knew could care for others and who found me particularly, well, desirable. What a relief! \r\nWe don''t live in a time when the culture demands and nearly guarantees that marriages will be stable and people will have time to work through their difficulties. The same loosening of laws that protects women from being treated as property also allows the less committed among us to take a walk. And whether we like it or not, that is the world in which our children live. Here''s what I want for mine (who are 23, 18 and 14 now). I want them to view themselves as whole people, loved body and soul by God. I want them to love themselves, body and soul, and to recognize how inextricable those two parts are. I want them to love another person, body and soul, and to regard that person''s wholeness to be as precious as their own. In talking to them, I''ve called it a Love Ethic where sex is concerned. Love yourself, love your partner, and remember that how you live is an expression of how you love God. It''s for them to work out when that happens, and I trust them to be true to their teaching.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.13) Gecko/2009073022 Firefox/3.0.13 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1953, 298, 'Jeb Dickerson', 'jebdickerson@mac.com', 'http://www.howtomatter.com', '71.237.106.69', '2009-03-17 13:45:39', '2009-03-17 17:45:39', 'I totally relate to this story KT...but my issue with it is a bit different. When I was a kid, nobody encouraged/urged me to do anything. I think the only expectation placed on me was college, and that was obviously much later on.\r\n\r\nBut here is my question, and what I wonder/worry about for my boys. Aside from the social and confidence aspects (which are absolutely critical, I agree), what of untapped potential? As a parent I feel a great responsibility to take notice of the slightest interests in my kids so that I can help encourage them to explore it. I don''t know, maybe we naturally find our strengths and follow that path...but what if that''s not true? What if by not noticing and encouraging something now, they lose it forever?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1691, 282, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-03-02 12:36:19', '2009-03-02 16:36:19', 'I love the 25 Things About Me posts - even though I can''t bring myself to do it. I don''t know why. Seems some-centered. I even wrote a post, 25 Things About You, which linked to 25 different people in my blog community. But, it left so many people out, it just seemed better not to put it out there. \r\n\r\nGreat post, as always. I do love Betty''s comment.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; InfoPath.2)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1692, 284, 'TJ Hirst', 'tj@tjhirst.com', 'http://www.tjhirst.com/', '97.112.15.32', '2009-03-02 14:12:11', '2009-03-02 18:12:11', 'Happy Birthday from one who is over 35, and nearing 40! My husband hit 40 in the last six weeks and it rocked my world. But the best is yet to be!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1693, 284, 'Nisha', 'nchittal@gmail.com', 'http://nishachittal.wordpress.com', '64.198.245.6', '2009-03-02 14:38:12', '2009-03-02 18:38:12', 'Happy birthday, and props for being so comfortable and secure with your age. Now I feel kind of bad for being one of the aforementioned twenty-somethings who keep overrunning C-U :) But I love reading your blog because it is really easy for us 20-somethings in Champaign-Urbana, especially in the campus part of town, to get so absorbed in our own little campus bubble and forget the larger community outside of just our campus and the people there and their stories. I love the totally different perspective your provide.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US) AppleWebKit/525.19 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/1.0.154.48 Safari/525.19', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1694, 284, 'Mike Goad', 'm@pddoc.com', 'http://exit78.com/', '75.121.17.75', '2009-03-02 17:14:04', '2009-03-02 21:14:04', 'Happy birthday!\r\n\r\nYou''re not all that old.  I was senior in high school 39 years ago.  There can still be a lot of GREAT years to come.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1695, 284, 'Natalie Hart', 'nataliehart@sbcglobal.net', '', '69.221.236.66', '2009-03-02 18:15:11', '2009-03-02 22:15:11', 'Kristin, that''s a beautiful thing, liking your age. I''m glad for you that you''ve reached it. I''ve found that looking back over old photos and remembering how self-conscious/obsessive I felt about something ridiculously minor makes me a lot more gentle towards myself now (over 40!). And don''t feel silly about adult birthdays -- every year you are alive is a reason to celebrate.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X; en) AppleWebKit/312.9 (KHTML, like Gecko) Safari/312.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1698, 284, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-03-02 20:31:30', '2009-03-03 00:31:30', 'And you share a birthday with Dr. Seuss! How cool is that? Here''s hoping for many more wonderful anniversaries like this one. Now, pass the cake.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6250, 484, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-09-30 23:39:18', '2009-10-01 03:39:18', 'Jamie, I know I would feel exactly the same way if I was on an adventure like yours. Just be thankful that you''re able to make this move and feel this way at such a young age (rather than a decade later, after a divorce)! I will look forward to reading your post—if you think about it, let us know when it''s up.\r\n\r\nTrina, thanks for always being such a genuine encouragement. It''s because of people like you that I feel safe sharing my silly thoughts, setbacks and small accomplishments.\r\n\r\nTamryn, why is it that we tend to need those extreme shocks before we''re able to make important changes in our lives? I am thankful, though, that I''ve experienced them and come out better on the other side. It''s funny that we were both dining alone before last night''s class and feeling the same way about it—that it was perfectly fine and even freeing, but at the same time we would have really enjoyed one another''s company. :)\r\n\r\nBtw, here''s another post I wrote almost a year ago on a similar theme: the difference between "alone" and "lonely." http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/?p=156', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.14) Gecko/2009082706 Firefox/3.0.14', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2424, 341, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-05-02 22:35:04', '2009-05-03 02:35:04', 'Writer Dad, "exaggerated versions of common thought" seems like a very good way to think about stereotypes. Yes, they''ll always be around, and they can even come in handy. :) The best thing about stereotypes, I think, is the conversation and debate they instigate. That''s why I feel like we have to keep looking them in the eye and talking through them together.\r\n\r\nTrina, you share some real wisdom here. I like your litmus test: If what we''re doing increases understanding, then go for it. And considering our "audience" is always important. It also makes it very difficult to ever talk about something in a broad sense. Sometimes it seems like all of life is best taken on a case-by-case basis, doesn''t it?\r\n\r\nCheryl, I couldn''t agree more with this: "...the most dangerous, insidious stereotypes are those that go un-talked-about." I guess it feels like the generations before ours tried the whole "what we don''t talk about doesn''t exist" approach, and it seems like it was lacking in many ways. This also rings very true: "INSTITUTIONALIZED stereotypes and the resulting prejudice and even violence are the most insidious because they’ve been stitched into the very fiber of our culture, our religions, our laws and our hearts for so long that we can no longer pick the thread out without unraveling the entire tapestry. No one has to talk about them to make them powerful." And your question about what our blind spots are today? That''s SO important for us to consider. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts, stories and experiences.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.9) Gecko/2009040820 Firefox/3.0.9', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2425, 337, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-05-02 23:21:45', '2009-05-03 03:21:45', 'Betty Duffy, what Jason was saying, about "far too few dissenting voices that stand up to the power structure," most definitely applies to you and your stance. I guess that''s what I was trying to ultimately say in my post, although I probably hadn''t fully formed the thought: These voices of dissent are absolutely critical, whether we agree with them or not. Coming face to face with my own inconsistencies helped make this point clear to me. Also, I completely get this: "Inviting Obama to speak at ND is a way of putting pretty face on a deeply resonating conflict of interest." Thanks for speaking up here and sharing your perspective. \r\n\r\nBlackwasp19, that''s a very important distinction to make—between stereotypes and generalizations—and I''m very glad you brought it up. I think I better understand what you''re saying, now, and I hope I didn''t misrepresent you in my followup post! Thanks for taking the time to explore this topic with me and others—we miss having you around "in real life."', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.9) Gecko/2009040820 Firefox/3.0.9', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1967, 298, 'Jeb Dickerson', 'jebdickerson@mac.com', 'http://www.howtomatter.com', '71.237.106.69', '2009-03-18 10:08:39', '2009-03-18 14:08:39', 'In case anyone is keeping score, I believe that would be TWO comments of mine that have led to full-blown KT posts. Yep, I am THAT good (of course, you DID start it with great posts to begin with).  Cheers!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1968, 298, 'Larkinsmom', 'AmyArmstrong8@aol.com', 'http://www.larkinsplace.com', '98.212.159.23', '2009-03-18 12:36:50', '2009-03-18 16:36:50', 'You will still need your blanket, hot drink, chair, and hat/gloves for Champaign soccer.  Chase played for 2 years and I am still not thawed out.  I am a baseball mom.  Chase played peanut league/little league and started travel baseball when he was 9.  I enjoyed every aspect of it EXCEPT for the out of control parents who are living through their child''s sporting experiences.  I am happy to take Chase across the country as long as HE is happy.  Coaches can make or break a kids experience and that is what Chase''s dad and I watch closely.  Mr. Ex and I actually became more friendly because we are together so much with sporting events.  I got his dad to coach the school basketball team so it is a win/win sometimes.\r\n\r\nLarkin''s health issues are significant and so is the time spent on her.  Baseball was an outlet where he could shine and he and I could bond one-to-one.  It gave him the ability to not live in her shadow if you will.  \r\n\r\nLarkin is quite different obviously and sports will be the way for your children and mine to connect.  Larkin will learn from playing organized sports with typical kids who will teach her skills, interaction, love, and learning to accept what isn''t "normal" and from this post, you my friend are more than half way there :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(1712, 284, 'Ashley', 'ashleygvelez@gmail.com', 'http://www.ashleygraceless.com', '68.153.33.3', '2009-03-03 11:11:07', '2009-03-03 15:11:07', 'Happy (belated) Birthday!  Maybe it''s a silly notion, but I think laughter (or maybe a good sense of humor?) makes you younger.  You seem to have no problems there.  \r\n\r\nI agree with ejly - As long as you''ve got the attitude, you can work the body.  :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1714, 284, 'Linda Davenport', 'mntngal@comcast.net', 'http://heartsongshymnal.blogspot.com', '198.51.179.254', '2009-03-03 14:42:18', '2009-03-03 18:42:18', 'Happy Birthday (albeit a little late)!\r\n\r\nCongratulations on your great attitude about age and life!  I''m 52 and I honestly believe every year is worthy of celebration.  If nothing else, it means that for 52 years I''ve managed to avoid falling victim to my own stupidity or someone else''s malice!  Seriously...the notion that we should avoid revealing and celebrating our age has always confounded me. It''s not like living another year is a dirty little secret. It''s a good thing!  Celebrate your comfort, your beauty, and your growing wisdom...and keep shining your light. There are people coming along behind you who will appreciate it. \r\n\r\nBlessings,\r\n\r\nLinda', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows NT 5.1; SV1; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.648; .NET CLR 3.5.21022; InfoPath.1)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1715, 284, 'LisaNewton', 'lisajnewton@gmail.com', 'http://www.travelinlocal.com', '76.166.207.239', '2009-03-03 14:46:23', '2009-03-03 18:46:23', 'Last year, when I turned 50, I asked my father how it felt to have a child who was 50, and he just laughed.\r\n\r\nThis year, my daughter will be turning 25, which should make me feel pretty old.  But, it doesn''t.  I just makes me proud that I''m healthy, happy, and young.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; GTB5; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1716, 284, 'Betty Duffy', 'bettyduffy2@yahoo.com', 'http://bettyduffy.blogspot.com', '67.177.100.218', '2009-03-03 16:37:17', '2009-03-03 20:37:17', 'This post resonates with me so much. I was trying to think of something about myself to offer in the comments of your last post, and I think this is it: In my mind, I am still nineteen years old. I go around thinking I''m still young--when someone says something like, "Let''s get the youth involved" in our Parish, I still think they''re talking about me. I don''t know if it''s because time has passed so quickly, or if my mind just has a "failure to progress" syndrome. But every now and then, the reality hits me: I''m old enough to be my nineteen-year-old self''s mother.  It seems impossible. I still feel like I''m on the cusp of my life--just embarking.  Probably because there is so much still to do, and I finally feel smart and capable enough to do it (a perk of getting older: one is less likely to suffer from "imposter syndrome").\r\n\r\n\r\nHappy Birthday!!\r\n\r\n(and thank you so much for the link)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; .NET CLR 1.1.4322)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1980, 300, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-18 23:24:23', '2009-03-19 03:24:23', 'Candace, no—YOU rule! Thanks for doing everything you''ve done to make your vision for this book become a reality. It''s going to touch so many people.\r\n\r\nJessica, sadly, your experiences are proof that there''s widespread societal confusion, negative stereotypes and prejudice when it comes to divorce. I''m so sorry you have to deal with that aftermath every day, but I hope you''ve found (or will soon find) your escape hatch into a better, post-divorce life.\r\n\r\nMatt, thanks for sharing your perspective. I often wonder and worry what my kids will say about all of this by the time they''re in their twenties. I think the fact that my husband and I have solid relationships with our exes (the other parents of our children), that everyone is happily remarried, and that we all live in the same town have given our kids good examples of forgiveness and hope after sadness. (At least I hope and pray that will be how they see it.)\r\n\r\nLaura, it''s great to "meet" you! I''m glad you somehow found my blog. Your work sounds perfectly aligned with the tone of this book and the life the women featured in it are trying to live out. I''m looking forward to finding out more about what you do.\r\n\r\nRobin, thanks for sharing yet another different, wonderful life story that hinges on divorce. We''re glad your parents found each other, too. :) And I think you''re right—the important perspective to have on this issue is one that balances hope and realism.\r\n\r\nJulie, I truly am SO excited to be a part of this community with you. I never imagined that the relationships would be as rewarding (if not more) as having my words published in a book. And I love your analogy: "Think of this as your invitation to an online party celebrating all that is resilient in the human spirit." Perfect.\r\n\r\nNatalie, thanks so much. I must say, it means a lot to be connected again to a few people like you who knew me well in my "other life" (ie: first marriage), in another city and state. Sometimes all of these parts of my story seem so disparate that it''s hard to see how I''m one person through them all, living one complicated but cohesive life. In a small but meaningful way, you commenting on my blog makes a difference.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021906 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(4983, 430, 'Meagan Francis', 'meaganfrancis@yahoo.com', 'http://www.thehappiestmom.com', '71.239.48.143', '2009-07-31 16:02:40', '2009-07-31 20:02:40', 'I feel similarly "nailed" when I read the blog (haven''t read the book yet) and think it''s hilarious and dismaying at the same time to be so thoroughly predictable. I do agree with Blackwasp19, though, that it''s not really stuff "white" people like, but stuff a certain kind of white person is likely to be into for a variety of reasons. (but stuffcertaintypesofwhitepeoplearedrawnto.com does not roll off the tongue). \r\n\r\nHmm, now that I think about it, maybe ''wanting to be unique" is just more Stuff White People Like? :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.1.1) Gecko/20090715 Firefox/3.5.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4681, 415, 'Pace', 'pace@freakrevolution.com', 'http://freakrevolution.com', '74.202.71.203', '2009-07-16 10:33:57', '2009-07-16 14:33:57', 'Interesting!\r\n\r\nYour post has gotten me thinking about my experiences with denominations of other religions.\r\n\r\nFrom Unitarian Universalism I learned that spirituality and ritual don''t require religion to "work".\r\n\r\nFrom <a href="http://reclaiming.org" rel="nofollow">Reclaiming</a> I learned the importance of self-care, sacred communication, and safe space.\r\n\r\nFrom <a href="http://feritradition.org" rel="nofollow">Feri</a> I''m learning about personal power.\r\n\r\nFrom <a href="http://www.heartofbusiness.com/" rel="nofollow">Sufism</a> I''m learning humility in the face of the Divine.\r\n\r\nThanks for stirring up some interesting thoughts! (:', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (X11; U; Linux i686 (x86_64); en-US; rv:1.8.1.14) Gecko/20080404 Firefox/2.0.0.14', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(2313, 330, 'Elaine Tolsma-Harlow', 'reoharlow@hotmail.com', '', '24.231.153.71', '2009-04-18 11:09:53', '2009-04-18 15:09:53', 'I have been pondering this over in my brain while tinkering around the house and these thoughts came to me.  I was very accepting when I was told I had cancer.  I accepted this was God''s plan for my life.  What I had a near impossible time accepting was the chronic condition that resulted from the cancer treatments I now have &amp; will possibly have for the rest of my life.  Wether it be the failure of those around us or the failure of our bodies, there comes a time when we need to do a little wrestling with God.  I ddi not walk away unscathed from wrestling God, but what I have learned is that ultimately it is not about me, but it is about Christ and his deep love for me.  If his eye is on the sparrow, it must also be on me.  Suffering makes us self-centric. I still struggle daily with that, but being compassionate, loving, forgiving brings it back to God.  It is not just about being whole, it is about also being holy.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2203, 316, 'Rebecca', 'rlthorman@gmail.com', 'http://modite.com/blog', '69.128.50.90', '2009-04-03 12:53:25', '2009-04-03 16:53:25', 'Right on! Awesome post and so true. The best bloggers tell stories and you''re a fabulous storyteller. Thanks for the link, and I''m looking forward to getting to know the others peppered throughout this post as well. Have a great weekend :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.8) Gecko/2009032609 Firefox/3.0.8', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1730, 284, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-03-04 12:02:52', '2009-03-04 16:02:52', 'yay you! Happy Cake Day! I love being my age, 47!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1986, 300, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-03-19 13:28:40', '2009-03-19 17:28:40', 'That is a great accomplishment to have your essay accepted, KT. I hope I can pick up a copy. I wrote an essay about my divorce in 2002. Actually two different essays. 1: When the White Picket Fence Burns Down and 2: To Teeter On Ararat. I''ve been publishing some of my original open diary web log entries on my blog. I haven''t made an issue of it. It''s mostly for my children - to get a glimpe of me at the dawn of 30. Not much about the divorce there now - if ever. \r\n\r\nI can''t even begin to respond to the sheer audacity of that reader comment. His ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts, higher than our thoughts. Thankfully it is so and I rest daily in His understanding.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; InfoPath.2)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2385, 339, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-04-30 21:06:36', '2009-05-01 01:06:36', 'jenx67, what a perfect use of the word "Blehhhhh!" Love it! I can see how Acts of Service could seem like a lame love language. Maybe it''s like the whole curly hair/straight hair phenomenon—the one you *don''t* have is always going to be the one that looks more appealing. :)\r\n\r\nTrina, yes, clearly you and I could discuss this for days! Regarding the size of people''s love tanks, I have this feeling that some people have extra big tanks, like big trucks do; some burn through a full tank faster than others, who utilize that fuel more efficiently; and some need a full-on tuneup more desperately than others. (I''ll stop now. I do believe I''ve taken the car analogy far enough.)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.8) Gecko/2009032608 Firefox/3.0.8', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2386, 339, 'Zoe', 'zoe@zoewesthof.com', 'http://www.essentialprose.com', '125.25.25.236', '2009-04-30 23:10:14', '2009-05-01 03:10:14', 'What an interesting concept, and you''ve explained it so well that I probably don''t need to go through the pain of reading the book :)\r\n\r\nIt''s a simple idea, but now that I''m thinking about it, I realize it truly does explain so many relationship dynamics. Like you, I''m really big on quality time, and have been lucky on that front. It''s interesting to think about how our love dynamics with parents may have influenced our love languages...', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042315 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2422, 339, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-05-02 22:23:43', '2009-05-03 02:23:43', 'Zoe, I''m glad I could save you from reading the book. :) Actually, there''s a lot more to it, of course, but it''s fun to start thinking about it, even on a basic level. Let me know if you have any big revelations!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.9) Gecko/2009040820 Firefox/3.0.9', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2388, 193, 'jenny ward', 'jenny@playward.com', 'http://www.playward.com', '67.169.166.164', '2009-05-01 02:14:56', '2009-05-01 06:14:56', 'thank you for your honesty. reading this made me feel not alone- i appreciate how much you look for the gifts in such a challenging life lesson. i relate. and i thank you with all my heart\r\nkeep expressing.....\r\njenny', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X 10_4_11; en) AppleWebKit/525.18 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.1.2 Safari/525.22', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2389, 341, 'Writer Dad', 'seanmichaelplatt@gmail.com', 'http://writerdad.com', '71.108.131.118', '2009-05-01 09:34:52', '2009-05-01 13:34:52', 'Won''t we always have stereotypes in one way or another though?  Aren''t they just over exaggerated versions of common thought. I''m not saying that stereotypes are a good thing, but I can''t think of too many that were born in a vacuum. They usually have some root of truth that has spiraled past consideration. The biggest enemy of a stereotype, I believe, is the time to prove it wrong and let it slip from the public mindset.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.16 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0 Safari/528.16', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2367, 339, 'Marie', 'marie.mckinney@gmail.com', 'http://www.mckinneyoatescereal.wordpress.com', '70.43.204.186', '2009-04-28 12:28:12', '2009-04-28 16:28:12', 'Be careful, you might start a revolution among the GTD crew:  "Efficient-ize your Relationships: Change your partner''s love language to "Gifts" :D\r\n\r\nOn, like, our second date Mark handed me the 5 love languages book (I felt the same way about it, brilliant and dull at the same time).  He is a quality conversation/time person.  I think I''m a physical touch person.  It is so helpful to have this knowledge because it at least gives a couple a starting point for why the relationship isn''t clicking ("Ok, how is your love tank doing? Mine''s kinda low.")\r\n\r\nAnd I love Karen''s point that love tanks can truly be filled by more than just a "significant other".  So true.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; GTB6; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; InfoPath.2; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.30; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.648)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(1732, 284, 'Bamboo Forest - PunIntended', 'teafields@gmail.com', 'http://www.punintended.com/blog', '72.25.127.188', '2009-03-04 14:02:27', '2009-03-04 18:02:27', 'Happy Birthday.\r\n\r\nI think the key is to focus on the present moment and all the potential that is there. When we start thinking about the past, we compromise the potential we have right now. \r\n\r\nLife is a start to finish for anyone, regardless of his or her age. So in that sense, it is as if we are all the same age.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9) Gecko/2008052906 Firefox/3.0', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1733, 284, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-04 15:46:30', '2009-03-04 19:46:30', 'Cobalt-Blue, I wouldn''t mind having the wisdom without the marks to prove it, but they do seem to be a package deal, don''t they? :)\r\n\r\nAshley, I think you''re exactly right about the importance of laughter and a sense of humor, and I''m so glad that part of who I am comes through in my writing.\r\n\r\nLinda, you said "the notion that we should avoid revealing and celebrating our age has always confounded me. It’s not like living another year is a dirty little secret." I love it! So true. And I''m glad it''s finally starting to confound me, too. Thanks for your encouragement and blessings.\r\n\r\nLisa, I plan to take the very same approach when my daughters reach 25. Is the secret to keep walking? :)\r\n\r\nBetty, what you write resonates with me so much, too. A big part of coming to terms with how old I actually am is just what you said: I feel like I''m 19, so being 39 kind of takes me by surprise! We *are* on the cusp of our lives, in so many ways, and I love your take on getting older:  "one is less likely to suffer from ''imposter syndrome.''"\r\n\r\nThe Modern Gal, my "beautiful attitude about age" was mighty slow in coming, but I''m glad it is finally making an appearance. \r\n\r\nLoren, thanks for keeping me company in my boat. I hope you''re feeling great about turning 39!\r\n\r\nTrina, I think that''s all that matters, is that we are able to say "I love being my age," whatever age that is. Hearing you say that about 47 is a breath of fresh air.\r\n\r\nBamboo Forest, I''m really glad you brought up the potential in the moment, and how we compromise that when we fail to be content in the moment. \r\n\r\nThanks for the birthday wishes, everyone!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1734, 286, 'Jennifer', 'jkluit@yahoo.com', 'http://hollyhouse.blogspot.com', '70.177.70.72', '2009-03-04 15:47:08', '2009-03-04 19:47:08', 'Your halfway to normal self is just fine with me, girlfriend. I often wonder about the largeness of our "small" world. People I don''t know knowing things about me I didn''t know I was revealing. And yet, it is liberating. And fun, in a weird way.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1735, 286, 'daisy17', 'karennachbar@yahoo.com', '', '208.0.235.1', '2009-03-04 17:02:44', '2009-03-04 21:02:44', 'Great, timely topic that I''ve thought about a lot myself. I frequently catch myself revising my updates and tweets before I post so they''re more positive and less snarky, but I also want them to be real.  And real isn''t always happy or easy.  Real is sometimes irritated, annoyed, or frustrated.  And I''m always aware (too aware, perhaps) of the audience.  Ex boyfriend''s friends and friends'' moms on facebook means I don''t get too personal.  I think I''m much freer with my thoughts on twitter.  Is there a different for you?\r\n\r\nWhen my waxer lit into me on Saturday about why I don''t have a boyfriend (could I be in any more of an awkward position?  literally.), I decided NOT to tweet about it - hesitant to fall into the "my life as comedy" trap.  Thought about it though, I''m always looking for a laugh :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.8.1.20) Gecko/20081217 Firefox/2.0.0.20', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1736, 286, 'Patrick', 'patrickbowen@unraveledideamill.com', 'http://www.unraveledideamill.com', '71.205.73.126', '2009-03-04 17:56:49', '2009-03-04 21:56:49', 'First, you once again have elegantly turned a random (at least in my head) bunch of thoughts into a concise and organized piece of writing.  Brilliant.\r\n\r\nSecond, I have struggled with this issue.  What do I say?  What do I leave out?  Who might be offended?  What is my purpose for posting?  Do I want to just post what I am doing, how I am feeling, etc. OR should I post something hoping to generate feedback and create meaningful discussion? Why shouldn''t those be the same?  Am I that boring or self focused?\r\n\r\nOnce again I find myself rambling with no particular goal.  Maybe that is what I left unspoken in my status updates. "Here is Patrick, he rambles, he does things, but for no apparent reason."  Yes, that is indeed my common theme.\r\n\r\nNuff said.  I enjoy your blogs and your status updates, so whatever that''s worth, keep them up.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1737, 286, 'Kathryn', 'kathrynr71@yahoo.com', 'http://www.motomom.blogspot.com', '65.102.45.168', '2009-03-04 18:19:51', '2009-03-04 22:19:51', 'New reader/lurker...\r\n\r\nIt is a balancing act for sure.  It is difficult to measure your struggles which are real and important to you against what others are going through.  On the other had it is difficult not to compare yourself to those who seem to have it all together and seem to have wonderful husbands, intelligent well-behaved children, and no worries financial, spiritual or otherwise.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1990, 300, 'Marie', 'marie.mckinney@gmail.com', 'http://www.mckinneyoatescereal.wordpress.com', '98.193.235.132', '2009-03-19 19:41:55', '2009-03-19 23:41:55', 'Congratulations on your essay being included in the book.  That''s great!\r\n\r\nMy husband was married before, and despite all the pain it caused he has said many times that the whole divorce experience helped he grow closer in his relationship with God.  Approaching something as painful and devastating as divorce with a spirit of hope and faith is, in my opinion, exactly what it means to be Christ.  I''m excited to read it!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X; en-US; rv:1.8.1.7) Gecko/20070914 Firefox/2.0.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(3623, 375, 'Tracy', 'tracy.oconnor@gmail.com', 'http://www.ihatemymessageboard.com', '70.145.133.65', '2009-06-13 14:36:11', '2009-06-13 18:36:11', 'I am tired of everything being about building relationships with my transparent community based on the authority of my brand. \r\n\r\nThat is all.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(5277, 443, 'Angela Harms', 'angela.harms@gmail.com', 'http://radicalloveproject.com', '71.56.158.166', '2009-08-14 18:39:59', '2009-08-14 22:39:59', 'Thanks for sharing with us as we go through this. Your gentle words always inspire me. I hope Q is healing well, and off running in her cast!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US) AppleWebKit/530.5 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/2.0.172.39 Safari/530.5', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
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(3625, 375, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-06-13 16:08:24', '2009-06-13 20:08:24', 'Mocha Dad, you''re right—once Twitter becomes a regular part of your day, it is hard to imagine life without it, isn''t it?. Like all good things, though, it has the potential to rule me, or at least distract me. This post is part of my attempt to have a healthy attitude and balance about all my social media activities. Thanks for stopping by!\r\n \r\nTrina, I love the "complaints are like armpits" comment. Too funny. And there are definitely many different ways to use and enjoy Twitter—to each his/her own. Thanks for being OK with me quoting you in the post!\r\n\r\nMeredith, I had a feeling you weren''t a big fan of "this is how it should be done." :) The quality-trumps-quantity point that you make is really key, I think, because that''s probably what encourages people to not be themselves in the first place—they''re hoping to get lots of followers really fast. Seems like a recipe for a bland social media experience.\r\n\r\nRebecca, I''m so glad you love it! Thanks for giving me an added dose of courage.\r\n\r\nJen, isn''t it amazing how much people can be thrown by the simplest things? It''s as if we''re so accustomed to everything being overwhelming and complicated, that we''ve become addicted to complication and rules over what comes naturally. I''d say the fun has been sucked out of enough of life (and I''m glad others, like you, seem to agree!).\r\n\r\nDaisy, it seems like you''ve definitely figured out what Twitter''s value is for you, and you''re not about to be swayed. Good for you! And good for those of us who follow you on Twitter!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042315 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2380, 337, 'Angela Harms', 'angela.harms@gmail.com', 'http://radicalloveproject.com', '71.56.158.166', '2009-04-29 18:02:47', '2009-04-29 22:02:47', 'Kristin, this ("Almost as soon as I said it, I spotted my own hypocritical and inconsistent self, plain and clear. Man, I hate it when that happens.") is what I love about you. To be honest, I''m not too concerned with Obama or Notre Dame, so I don''t have much to say about it, except that I love how you talk about what''s real in all of us, and you do it fearlessly (or apparently so!). Thanks. :)\r\n--Angela', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2382, 339, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-04-30 09:27:30', '2009-04-30 13:27:30', 'Oh, I couldn''t agree more. I want to trade mine in, too. My primary is ACTS of SERVICE. Blehhhhhhhhhhhhh. Great post, KT. You always make me connect with a deeper part of myself that needs a good dusting.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; InfoPath.2)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2223, 316, 'Jeb Dickerson', 'jebdickerson@mac.com', 'http://www.howtomatter.com', '71.237.106.69', '2009-04-03 20:57:50', '2009-04-04 00:57:50', '3 Easy Steps To Help You Ignore the Experts:\r\nStep 1:\r\nWrite, first and foremost, for yourself. There is nothing more useful in the world to me than getting my thoughts down on (virtual) paper so I can see them, move them around, consider them in a new light. I''m a better person for my writing...more confident about who I am and, thus, more able to disregard those who thrive by telling people they don''t measure up.\r\n\r\nStep 2:\r\nRecognize that all the lists in the world will not fix the problems in your life. Focus, instead, on being honest with yourself, on expressing the parts of you that may prefer to stay hidden beneath the surface but, in fact, serve you best when they''re out in the open. All of which leads to the final step in this process...\r\n\r\nStep 3:\r\nUse your newfound honesty and self-reflection to connect, authentically, with others. Recognize (ala @ccseed) the power of each and every story (yes, that includes yours) to help others frame their own.\r\n\r\nps...if you apply these 3 easy steps consistently and it doesn''t seem to help, write blog posts with lots of curse words.\r\n\r\n(Thanks for the shout-out KT. You''re as useful as they come.)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(2224, 316, 'Kira', 'kmc.tcp@gmail.com', '', '75.196.201.25', '2009-04-03 21:22:58', '2009-04-04 01:22:58', 'Kristen--\r\nIt seem to me that your blog is a wonderful forum for discussing the shared human experience.  I think that most individuals are awash with information. Most websites have so much content, that most people aren''t taking the time to glance at half of it!  Because it''s just *information*.    BUT, show me a community of individuals who feel comfortable to share in each other''s lives, and I think you have the real definition of a successful blog.  It isn''t about information, as much as it is about conversation.  And conversation--true dialogue, a mutual exchange of ideas or shared experience--has more value than a list of facts.  Because THAT, in the age of fractured communication, is what is truly useful to many individuals.  You should take great pride in Halfway to Normal; it records your own life with humor and sensitivity, and in doing so it invites your readers to do the same.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_4_11; en) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(2225, 316, 'What do you think? &laquo; True Tales From Apathetic America', '', 'http://apatheticamerica.wordpress.com/2009/04/03/whatdoyouthink/', '74.200.245.188', '2009-04-03 22:38:30', '2009-04-04 02:38:30', '[...] struck by how much we value other people&#8217;s opinions. You see, I was reading this particularly interesting piece on blogging. At once again it hit me about how much we care about other people&#8217;s [...]', 0, '1', 'The Incutio XML-RPC PHP Library -- WordPress/MU', 'pingback', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2357, 337, 'The Modern Gal', 'themoderngal@gmail.com', 'http://themoderngal.blogspot.com', '67.187.116.24', '2009-04-24 21:17:57', '2009-04-25 01:17:57', 'Well, for what it''s worth, I''m pretty staunchly Catholic, but I''ve never understood this kind of outrage. I understand what Blackwasp is saying, with "Commencement is not the right venue to have someone who is ideologically opposed to something the institution is adamantly for," but I respectfully disagree. If he''s not talking ABOUT abortion one way or the other during the commencement (and why on Earth would abortion be an appropriate commencement speech?), what the heck does it matter that his beliefs about it are different? I don''t see that allowing him to speak translates into an endorsement of his views on abortion. I would hope a Notre Dame-educated graduate would be smart enough to make the same distinction.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2358, 337, 'Mark', 'Harvey@me.com', '', '99.18.81.22', '2009-04-25 21:03:57', '2009-04-26 01:03:57', 'I am curious how you deal win your Christians against Christians issue and the last paragraph of your post? Are you trying to move past that tension?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (iPhone; U; CPU iPhone OS 2_2_1 like Mac OS X; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.18.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.1.1 Mobile/5H11 Safari/525.20', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2359, 337, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-04-26 17:41:41', '2009-04-26 21:41:41', 'Blackwasp19, when I first read your comment a couple of days ago, my thoughts were very similar to what The Modern Gal ended up writing. I guess what I''m thinking, the more I ponder this, is that no matter how ideologically clear an institution is, it will still be filled with people who disagree with one another. I saw that plainly at Calvin College, where the Young Republicans were a ridiculously strong organization, but where most of my professors (at least in the humanities where I took most of my courses) were openly liberal. My point is that you will never find someone to invite to commencement that everyone agrees with. And part of what education is all about is challenging people, and encouraging debate. The interesting question is where to draw the line. An atheist speaking to graduates at Calvin College? A KKK leader speaking at the commencement at an historically black university? Clearly, there are lines, and common sense. I just don''t think Notre Dame came anywhere close to crossing that line.\r\n\r\nRegarding how I think having Bush at Calvin reinforced stereotypes, I think the stereotypes are pretty basic: Christians are all Republicans; Christians might be pro-life when it comes to abortion but they''re just fine with sending people off to die in unjust wars; Christians talk about helping others, but when it gets down to it, they''re greedy and want to keep their hard-earned money to themselves and in their churches and private schools, rather than paying more taxes to help those with less money, education and opportunity. You might think that by bringing this up I''m reinforcing stereotypes, but many non-Christians have told me how amazed and relieved they are to find out where I stand on these matters. The stereotypes are alive and well; being quiet about them only reinforces them. \r\n\r\nThe Modern Gal, thanks for doing my job for me! :) I know you were actually speaking for you, not me, but you summed up where I stand quite nicely. If Obama was planning to go in there and try to convince people to give up their pro-life stance, that would be a big problem, but he''s obviously not going to do that, just like Bush didn''t come to Calvin to convince people that God wants us to fight for freedom in Iraq. (Ack! I can hardly type that!) It seems to me that generally, when people feel uncomfortable listening to someone who disagrees with them, it''s because they''re less sure of their own stance than they''d like to be, and they don''t want more seeds of doubt to be planted.\r\n\r\nMark, good question. I guess referencing "my own inconsistencies" in the headline was doubly fitting. In some ways, maybe I am trying to move past that tension. Or maybe I''m trying to reframe it. The problem isn''t that I disagree with many Christians on many issues (even though I do, and much of what I hear Christians proclaiming doesn''t line up with my understanding of Jesus, at all). The problem lies with how that majority is able to make more noise, so those are the voices non-believers end up hearing most clearly. I don''t believe it''s a fair representation. Ultimately, I want everyone to be more open-minded about what it means for someone to be a Christian. There is no such thing as a "normal" Christian. (Just curious—do you think I should give up my recurring Christians Against Christians theme?)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.8) Gecko/2009032608 Firefox/3.0.8', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1754, 286, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-03-05 13:13:02', '2009-03-05 17:13:02', 'Nice collection of thoughts on something that can be so random. Used to be people used diaries to pour out their obsessions, triumphs and failures...plus, they were never meant for an audience. It does suprise me what some will reveal about themselves in the FB sense.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1996, 303, 'Katey', 'katey.berg@gmail.com', '', '66.150.110.71', '2009-03-20 14:18:58', '2009-03-20 18:18:58', 'I agree that a dog is needed, but what is one to do with an allergic kid?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; GTB5; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.30; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.648; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1997, 303, 'Ashley', 'ashleygvelez@gmail.com', 'http://www.ashleygraceless.com', '68.153.33.3', '2009-03-20 15:21:55', '2009-03-20 19:21:55', 'Kristin - \r\n\r\nI wholeheartedly agree!  Across the board pets have an ability to de-stress their owners, and I''m a die-hard dog person myself.  My husband and I got a puppy last April (she was just 9 weeks old - practically like having a baby) and we started the daunting task of training her on all fronts.  He was uncertain of getting a dog but I wanted one so badly.  About halfway through our honeymoon (last October) we had a moment where we looked at each other and said "I miss the dog."  She''s a part of our family now.  :)\r\n\r\nCan''t wait to hear about your new pup!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021906 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2232, 316, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-04-04 16:35:20', '2009-04-04 20:35:20', 'Jamie, I sense a theme: connecting people! Maybe you should write a post about it. :)  And these are words to live by: "write from the heart and the right people will think your blog is useful." Btw, I''m glad that my collection of "right people" includes you and others who don''t necessarily have everything in common with me. I really like that. \r\n\r\nTrina, thanks! I''m glad that whatever I''m doing encourages involvement, because when you all share your two cents, your own stories and your individual perspectives, it makes what I ultimately want my blog to be about all come together.\r\n\r\nJeb, HA! Genius. And wise and true. You''ve outlined something I was getting at in my response to Shell (above). That writing for ourselves (step 1) isn''t necessarily selfish, because it leads to step 2, and finally to step 3—the connecting part, which is what it''s all really about. Sharing our stories helps others frame and share theirs.\r\n\r\nKira, I love that you brought up the sense of "comfort" that''s critical in true community: "a community of individuals who feel comfortable to share in each other’s lives." Feeling safe and comfortable with who we are, even while we''re being challenged by different beliefs and opinions, is the best foundation for good dialogue. I''m really glad so many people can feel that way here. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021906 Firefox/3.0.7', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2233, 316, 'Jody', 'reviews@singleoftheday.com', 'http://singleoftheday.com', '69.108.116.39', '2009-04-04 17:05:58', '2009-04-04 21:05:58', 'I know I''ve gone thru that with my blog posts as well. Part of what keeps me going is when people whose music I feature end up telling me how great it was to have their music shared in such a fashion as my blog. I''m pretty sure I''ve gotten away from my original goal of only writing about the music. At some point I will come back around to focusing only on the music, but it''s a journey.\r\n\r\nIf your blog is making you happy then why worry about whether it''s useful? Right?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.16 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0 Safari/528.16', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5033, 432, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-08-03 17:11:34', '2009-08-03 21:11:34', 'Overwhelmed can become Burnout which can become Inaction. I''m glad to hear your group is addressing the big issues in smaller yet productive ways.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; Trident/4.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30618)', '', 0, 0, 'N');
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(3185, 6, 'Rebecca', 'rlthorman@gmail.com', 'http://modite.com/blog', '69.128.50.90', '2009-05-26 10:58:36', '2009-05-26 14:58:36', 'Thanks for sharing this post... it''s good to read this and then compare it with your most recent post on your anniversary. I so appreciate all your support :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(3186, 357, 'TJ Hirst', 'tj@tjhirst.com', 'http://www.tjhirst.com/', '71.217.181.229', '2009-05-26 11:01:20', '2009-05-26 15:01:20', 'First of all, happy anniversary. Newer marriages of just a few hours, days, months or years have a unique quality that is feels dynamic compared to older relationships. On the other hand, older marriages can also hold within them a strength that is not easily revealed in appearances. It comes from those hills that have been climbed. And that, too, can feel superior to the other. I celebrate both for those individual characteristics and qualities that make either new or older special. And that is why we certainly cheer at all weddings and all anniversaries.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042316 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(3534, 373, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-06-10 11:56:22', '2009-06-10 15:56:22', 'Amazing conversation! I''m loving S already: can she be in my class? Please? Of course, she might defect for the environmental charter school down the road. They have a wonderful program, integrating nature into all parts of the curriculum.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; .NET CLR 3.0.30618)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7305, 551, 'Dave Thurston', 'dave@orangeshirtguy.com', 'http://www.orangeshirtguy.com', '24.223.179.5', '2010-01-05 23:24:03', '2010-01-06 03:24:03', 'Dude (aka Kristin): You Rock! (exclamatory verb, Gibraltar, and/or Peter). \r\n\r\nPS: You look a bit taller - did you lose some weight off the tops of your shoulders?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_6_2; en-us) AppleWebKit/531.21.8 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.4 Safari/531.21.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7306, 551, 'Anita Cater', 'anitalcater@gmail.com', '', '99.35.215.75', '2010-01-05 23:50:47', '2010-01-06 03:50:47', 'I was in therapy and medicated after our first child was born for anxiety with extremely difficult thoughts.  I''m so open about it now and often am met with: "thanks for telling me your story, I wish I had known and I probably should have gotten help but didn''t." As my psychiatrist said, you''ll feel better if the instructions are followed. I''ve often said to new moms, if you feel horrible, don''t worry it''s actually normal for 50% of new moms, but it is diagnosable and there is help.  I really enjoy hearing other people''s comments and your story.  If someone isn''t or hasn''t dealt with anxiety/depression, they know someone who is.  Thanks.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X 10_5_8; en-us) AppleWebKit/531.9 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.3 Safari/531.9', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(3193, 362, 'jessica', 'bernzee@mac.com', 'http://bernthis.typepad.com', '71.156.49.213', '2009-05-26 14:51:42', '2009-05-26 18:51:42', 'first of all I''m glad to know that one can find love after divorce. (I''m still waiting) second: what a beautifully written post. My daughter''s school is a huge melting pot of kids and I''m so grateful for it.  I think it''s important to know that there is a world out of people that are different from her but no less important', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.1) Gecko/2008070206 Firefox/3.0.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1786, 288, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2009-03-07 17:15:20', '2009-03-07 21:15:20', 'I remember learning Bible stories in my liberal Presbyterian Sunday School and then attempting (unsuccessfully) to discuss them with friends who belonged to churches with much more literal interpretations. Maybe that''s why as I grew up I liked Bible studies less and less; it seemed like the open minded discussions were missing. Each religion seemed to think their way was the only way to see the story.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; WOW64; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; Media Center PC 5.0)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2244, 318, 'paul merrill', 'phmerrill@gmail.com', 'http://pmerrill.com/', '97.118.219.27', '2009-04-06 19:23:24', '2009-04-06 23:23:24', 'Your grace pours out from this post.\r\n\r\nThanks for your vulnerability. That will help many who read this to move toward healing in their own lives and relationships.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.16 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0 Safari/528.16', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2245, 318, 'Jeb Dickerson', 'jebdickerson@mac.com', 'http://www.howtomatter.com', '71.237.106.69', '2009-04-06 20:00:09', '2009-04-07 00:00:09', 'Lip service is never enough KT...no matter the situation. Authenticity demands...well...authenticity. For the record, that''s one of the things lacking in many ''useful'' blogs. :)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(7290, 551, 'Sam', 'sundayschoolrebel@yahoo.com', 'http://www.sundayschoolrebel.typepad.com', '98.239.18.198', '2010-01-05 15:07:29', '2010-01-05 19:07:29', 'So weird about depression - why is it okay (in my mind) for anyone else to have depression, but for me, I didn''t want to admit it. I was right there in the closet with you, Kristin. I honestly think I suffered more from a SAD situation - winter was always bad for me, and you know we don''t even have bad winters here in South MS. \r\n\r\nFortunately, I got pregnant three years ago, and all those pregnancy hormones evened me out. Seriously. The breastfeeding prolonged it, and here I am, not even considering depression as a factor in my life. I promised myself the winter I got pregnant, that if I felt as bad as I did the years before, I would tell someone, I would get some meds. I didn''t need to, after all, but even giving myself permission to do that was powerful. \r\n\r\nI''m so glad you felt you could share this with us, Kristin.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US) AppleWebKit/532.0 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/3.0.195.38 Safari/532.0', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7291, 551, 'Julie', 'juliemery@gmail.com', 'http://julieannemery.wordpress.com', '67.87.250.141', '2010-01-05 15:21:19', '2010-01-05 19:21:19', 'Hi Kristin, I''ve been reading for awhile but never responded.  I saw your tweet last night and felt so thankful for your presence and honesty.  For those of us who struggle with depression on and off (me too) it just feels so reassuring that we''re not alone in this - not totally broken but instead in company with some wonderfully talented, beautiful, blessed people.  I find these dark months the hardest.  It''s good to  be with you in this - even in cyberspace.  Bless. Julie.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_8; en-us) AppleWebKit/531.21.8 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.4 Safari/531.21.10', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(5743, 462, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-09-03 21:46:24', '2009-09-04 01:46:24', 'Elaine, HA! Let her roll her eyes, and even squirm a little. I now realize there were so many things I needed at that age that I never would have admitted to or asked for. (Also, I really hope when I get a chance to see you, I can also meet O. I can''t believe she''s 11!)\r\n\r\nDaisy, is 11 a dangerous age? :) It''s interesting that you bring up role reversals. Although it''s not the same thing, I was thinking today about how much both of my grandmas need my parents, and how that has changed their relationship. Life is so fascinating, isn''t it?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.13) Gecko/2009073021 Firefox/3.0.13', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(5051, 432, 'Jason', 'halfway@jason-berg.com', '', '66.209.208.1', '2009-08-04 10:36:54', '2009-08-04 14:36:54', 'I''ve been reflecting lately about what makes the difference between times when we''re full of energy and are able to accomplish big things and other times when even menial tasks seem hard. The starting point was reading a few chapters of this classic book - Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihály Csíkszentmihályi. (chick-sent-mih-high) So far his idea is that People are happiest, most satisfied when they are working hard toward a challenging but attainable goal. It is at this moments when consciousness about self and time fade to the background and you have boundless energy to keep working toward your goals. \r\n\r\nThis seems to fit perfectly with your post, the idea that until you can "see" a way to help that is attainable, (helping these 15 people, not all homeless) that we feel invigorated, capable of helping, and that its a pleasure to do so.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.4; en-US; rv:1.9.0.8) Gecko/2009032608 Firefox/3.0.8', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
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(5434, 447, 'dee', 'deanna.froeber@vanderbilt.edu', '', '76.22.131.129', '2009-08-20 00:53:16', '2009-08-20 04:53:16', 'I''ve been thinking, recently, about what I wish my parents had told me. Again, in the hopes of truth, respect, safety, and full disclosure: I am a lesbian who went to seminary and works in health services. Sexuality, theology, and the body then...I can talk about all day.\r\n\r\nIn most congregations and communities of faith (including the congregation which raised me and in which my father still pastors), I am excluded from the marriage covenant. That is, most communities of faith will not share with me in my joy and support me in my turmoil if I should find one person with whom I would like to enter into a life-long commitment. So…\r\n\r\n<em>Celebration:</em>Growing and living in this atmosphere of exclusion, then, I have one hope greater than all others for any child with regard to its relationships in life. I hope for any child’s life will be uplifted, that this child’s <b>entire beings</b> will be <b>celebrated</b> by those around them, especially by their partners in love and/or marriage. Tolerance, acceptance, etc.: these things are not the same as nor do they wield the same life-inspiring power as another’s celebration of one’s entire being.\r\n\r\n<em>On Sex:</em> Before I began coming into myself as a lesbian, I exploited and abused my own sexuality. After coming out after years of unfulfilling sexual encounters with men that I didn’t and couldn’t care about, however, I was suddenly entirely unwilling to engage women in the same ways. I realized that I actually <b>cared</b> about women. I realized that, in coming to find a wholeness and delight in my sexuality, I could no longer mistreat that created being nor the others that would be my partners. I would be hurt to know that I only had a woman''s body with mine, absent of her heart, spirit, soul, mind, strength. I would be hurt to know that a woman only had my body, absent of my heart, spirit, soul, mind, strength. <b>I wish I had known (I wish all children and adolescents might know) that intimacy is only truly life-giving in its integration of each of these components.</b> \r\n\r\nGod’s relational being <i>invites</i> life-giving intimacy with self and others; God’s being as Creator, Reconciler, and Sustainer desires that this intimacy be life-giving. I believe sexuality can be understood as a gift of God. Sexuality is a component of the imago dei, the expressions of which are multiple and varied. This gift of sexuality can give life. This gift of sexuality, when respected and honored in the self and in others, can enhance life, making it more abundant and fruitful. Yet sex and sexuality can be used as tools for discrimination and oppression, violence and aggression. Sexuality can likewise be used to exploit persons, divorcing their bodies from their minds and spirits, and denying their whole personhood as imago dei, image of God. I wish I had known these complexities...\r\n\r\n<em>On safe sex, good sex, and abstinence</em> I wish I had known that only communication, trust, and honest make for safe(est) sex and good sex. One of my dearest friends was a virgin until her wedding day. And she unknowingly got HPV from her husband. I hope everyone might know that not even abstinence is a guarantee that sex will be safe. Even then, however, I don''t want anyone to be afraid of sex. I''ve seen too many young spouses in sex counseling because "wait" translates (poorly) into young, still-psychologically-developing adolescent minds as "NO" or "sex is bad". I hope for adolescents to know that sex is awesome...but only when you are in a situation of mutual care, support, and love. I feel like it''s only with these components in place that real discussions about sexual history STIs can take place, that STI testing is less stigmatized. I feel like it''s only when these components are present can real dialogue about desires, anxieties, passions, dislikes, and curiosities come into play (and, hopefully, the number of fake orgasms thus decrease--these, too, are little lies not conducive to fostering healthy relationships). [line crossed?] I feel like it''s only when these components are in place that one''s sexuality becomes less a weapon to be wielded than a gift to be shared.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; PPC Mac OS X 10.4; en-US; rv:1.9.0.13) Gecko/2009073021 Firefox/3.0.13', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2056, 282, 'A modern day penpal reunion', '', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/?p=308', '67.205.26.185', '2009-03-25 21:01:27', '2009-03-26 01:01:27', '[...] I could write endless posts about social media and the many ways it affects community and friendship—both conceptually and in terms of the day-to-day logistics surrounding how we interact. It&#8217;s fascinating. Here&#8217;s part of what I wrote on the topic last month, in the post Becoming (slightly) more than a face in the crowd: [...]', 0, '1', 'Incutio XML-RPC -- WordPress/2.5.1', 'pingback', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1862, 292, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '216.43.98.214', '2009-03-11 10:19:36', '2009-03-11 14:19:36', 'TJ, that''s a classic one. You are getting more SNOW? So sorry. You can blame me for jinxing spring with this post (or blame yourself for cleaning your car!).\r\n\r\nTrina, where do you live?!? Wherever it is, you must be longing for spring even more than I am. Your list is great—I can especially relate to being sick of comfort food. Hope your son stays warm!\r\n\r\nDaisy, once again, you provide that other perspective. :) I''m so glad you do! Parents need to be reminded of how teachers experience their kids. (My parents were both teachers, but in my world they were parents, of course.)\r\n\r\nLesley, I love the pictures you''ve painted! So many great details. The smell of trip tip! (I guess we''ll forgive you for being a California girl. :)\r\n\r\nElaine, you are cracking me up, girl! Your trunk sounds like our dresser drawers and shoe rack and coat hooks. And the whole tempting fate thing? Ah yes. As grownups, we try so hard to pretend like we''re not getting our hopes up, don''t we?', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1863, 292, 'Arathi', 'arathi.kylasam@gmail.com', '', '128.174.60.182', '2009-03-11 10:48:03', '2009-03-11 14:48:03', '....you fight with the kids about getting to bed on time thanks to Daylight Savings. \r\n... you watch the weather obsessively because who knows what might happen? \r\n...you have every single coat out, ''cos you don''t know what degree of coverage you are going to need. \r\n...you watch students parade around in shorts in 40 degree weather and laugh at their goose-pimpled legs. We were never that stupid! \r\n...you just want to move to someplace that has predictable weather. \r\n... you start thinking about your garden -- then you get outside and realize there is now way anything''s going to grow just yet!\r\n \r\n\r\n\r\nA', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.0.3) Gecko/2008092417 Firefox/3.0.3 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1864, 292, 'Betty Duffy', 'bettyduffy2@yahoo.com', 'http://bettyduffy.blogspot.com', '67.177.100.218', '2009-03-11 11:46:00', '2009-03-11 15:46:00', 'You nailed this feeling for me already. Definitely sent the kids to school without enough clothing.\r\n\r\nI''ll add it''s the time of year when one rushes around the yard to collect the daffodil buds so they can bloom inside rather than letting the freeze take them. (Don''t they realize this is the Midwest and a couple days of sunshine does not mean it''s time to bloom?)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; .NET CLR 1.1.4322)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1865, 292, 'Jeb Dickerson', 'jebdickerson@mac.com', 'http://www.howtomatter.com', '71.237.106.69', '2009-03-11 13:45:20', '2009-03-11 17:45:20', '...you commit to running up Longs Peak, even though the winter has taken a toll on your running routine.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.27.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.1 Safari/525.27.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(2586, 345, 'PsychMamma', 'psychmamma@hotmail.com', 'http://psychmamma.wordpress.com', '67.163.45.93', '2009-05-07 15:02:18', '2009-05-07 19:02:18', 'The Rwanda story is amazing.  I''ve seen videos of Gacacas that cover the process of reconciliation and I was floored.  Peace IS possible.\r\n\r\nAnother great book is Amish Grace: How Forgiveness Transcended Tragedy\r\n\r\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Amish-Grace-Forgiveness-Transcended-Tragedy/dp/0787997617/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1241722713&amp;sr=8-1\r\n\r\nIt''s about the Nickel Mines, PA Amish school shooting.  The story is another amazing and truthful one about forgiveness, grace and reconciliation.  Very thought provoking.\r\n\r\nThanks for the awesome post!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.10) Gecko/2009042315 Firefox/3.0.10', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1867, 292, 'Cobalt-Blue', 'michelle.feelingroovy@gmail.com', '', '69.221.238.152', '2009-03-11 17:05:25', '2009-03-11 21:05:25', '...you still wake up to a 7 degree wind chill and snow, yet strangely enough, it was warm enough to rain 2 nights ago. \r\n\r\nYou mentioned the possibility of a dog in your future : )  I totally agree that walking the dog and playing fetch in the yard is lots of fun! Get a dog who enjoys a mid-western winter and you can have fun all year round.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_6; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.18.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.1.2 Safari/525.20.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1868, 292, 'Trina', 'colour144@yahoo.com', '', '66.222.252.31', '2009-03-11 17:07:11', '2009-03-11 21:07:11', 'Hi ya, that lovely weather is a treat in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. The funny thing is, we can have such flops in the temp that wearing a tshirt oneday, and facing -24C the next is not really unusual. It is sunny and beautiful today, and htat does wonders for the soul. i''ve been thinking about the boy all week, but ''no calls home'' is a good thing. :-)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011913 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1869, 292, 'Robin', 'sheldor@olivetschools.org', '', '24.56.202.168', '2009-03-11 19:55:47', '2009-03-11 23:55:47', 'Personally, I think the best spring indicator around is the "time to shave your legs again feeling" that all women get when they feel the first warm breeze of the season.  However, there are a few others that are near and dear to my heart.\r\n\r\nYou know it is almost spring when the kids come home from school with more mud on their snowpants than snow.\r\n\r\n...when you start to see teachers buying earplugs...yes, they get incredibly loud between February and spring break!\r\n\r\n...when you start to see flowers bloom but you know that in a couple of days there will be a freeze and they will be goners.\r\n\r\n...when you start to dress in layers - not because it is cold out, but because you don''t know what will happen by noon.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(1881, 296, 'Amy', 'amyjones65@gmail.com', 'http://www.twitter.com/amyjones65', '67.60.39.158', '2009-03-12 13:47:53', '2009-03-12 17:47:53', 'I am forever finding myself in this same struggle..."I''m a Christian, but not that kind of Christian." I attend a fairly traditional church, but because our pastor preaches such a compassionate gospel, I am continually drawn there.  In studying the Bible, I strongly hear the messages of newness, connectedness, the compassion of Christ and resist (spirit-led) any interpretation that He is exclusive.  I keep quiet too often and want to embrace the "It is time" mantra with you.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7 GTB5 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(1882, 292, 'Kristin T.', 'KTENNANT@GMAIL.COM', 'http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/', '76.199.13.89', '2009-03-12 14:29:54', '2009-03-12 18:29:54', 'Arathi, that''s a great list. I can tell we live similar lives in the same town. The college students wearing their shorts (and flip-flops!) when it''s 50 degrees is always entertaining.\r\n\r\nBetty, I think daffodils in the Midwest are eternal optimists. The people who live in the Midwest have learned their lesson and been hardened by disappointment. :)\r\n\r\nJeb, yeah, I can''t relate to this one so much. Good luck with that mountain!\r\n\r\nCobalt-Blue, wait, are you the one who was urging me to get a dog months ago? Look what you''ve done to me! \r\n\r\nTrina, yes, the sun does wonders for the soul, whatever the temp. I hope you have lots of it way up there.\r\n\r\nRobin, these are great additions. Sadly, those early spring flowers were goners in my town, this morning. The temps went below 20. And I''ve heard the kids get loud. (Make sure you read Daisy''s post, for more on that. She posted the link in her comment, above.)\r\n\r\nJoi, clearly you''ve lived through enough Michigan springs to be a realist. Do you remember how long it took before you stopped hoping spring would actually come to stay in April? I love the description of Calla, enjoying the combination of warmth and cool.\r\n\r\njenx67, I''m so glad spring makes you long for summer now, rather than dread it. What a gift—for both you and your kids. (Btw, your knack for complimenting me makes me all happy inside. Thanks blogger buddy!)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.6) Gecko/2009011912 Firefox/3.0.6', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(3484, 371, 'Anne', 'annewillis2@gmail.com', '', '70.230.158.25', '2009-06-05 15:03:38', '2009-06-05 19:03:38', 'Wow, lovely post. In April we spent one day at attending a funeral of close family friend and the next day at the hospital awaiting the arrival of my brother and his wife''s first baby. It''s amazing what change a minute / day / week can bring. I''ve really been thinking about this a lot recently - thanks for sharing your story - totally made my day today!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_7; en-us) AppleWebKit/525.28.3 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/3.2.3 Safari/525.28.3', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6644, 514, 'credis', 'credisdervish@ymail.com', '', '93.73.143.217', '2009-11-03 00:28:52', '2009-11-03 04:28:52', 'ron, thanks for the reading tips. i have not read pulkinghorne or stark. but i will now be on the look out for them. i have enjoyed francis eagleton''s critique of compatriots dawkins and hitchins. \r\n\r\nintelligence is not the issue. reason is. coherent explanations i find much more compelling that spiritual rants. just my preference.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.4) Gecko/20091016 Firefox/3.5.4', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6750, 533, 'xmartinj', 'xmartinj@gmail.com', '', '69.129.41.26', '2009-11-19 10:56:05', '2009-11-19 14:56:05', 'True empathy isn''t simply putting yourself in someone else''s shoes, that can still be incredibly self-centered.\r\n\r\nKnowing and understanding the affected party is critical. An empathetic meat-lover wouldn''t put steak in front of a vegan. \r\n\r\nIt seems like the nuanced advice for children should be "How does that make him/her feel?" and then "Would you like him/her to make you feel that way?"', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.1; en-US) AppleWebKit/532.0 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/3.0.195.33 Safari/532.0', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6751, 533, 'ed cyzewski', 'julieanded@gmail.com', 'http://www.inamirrordimly.com', '66.168.41.244', '2009-11-19 11:09:51', '2009-11-19 15:09:51', 'This post is "golden." wink, wink. \r\n\r\nYeah, it can be shocking sometimes when you think you''re doing something that will help someone and you find out that it has only made things worse!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.9.1.5) Gecko/20091102 Firefox/3.5.5 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6907, 539, 'Andi', 'misadventureswithandi@gmail.com', 'http://www.misadventureswithandi.com', '98.248.175.73', '2009-12-04 15:06:51', '2009-12-04 19:06:51', 'Great post. I do in fact think that most of the time our purses are survival kits. From time to time I go through mine and I am amazed at the things I have collected inside. Then I go through a cleansing, back to a minimalist amount of items, only to return to a state where I am prepared for everything again!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.6; en-US; rv:1.9.1.5) Gecko/20091102 Firefox/3.5.5', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6754, 533, 'Maureen', 'whizmobc@telus.net', 'http://whizmobc@telus.net', '66.183.75.201', '2009-11-19 13:34:53', '2009-11-19 17:34:53', 'check out www.charterforcompassion.org\r\nVery cool org who created a Charter of Compassion based on the Golden Rule.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_6_2; en-us) AppleWebKit/531.21.8 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.4 Safari/531.21.10', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(6755, 533, 'Sara', 'sara@sarahealy.com', 'http://www.sarahealy.com', '71.203.106.224', '2009-11-19 13:35:02', '2009-11-19 17:35:02', 'I really liked the point you made in this post. It is very true that we don''t teach our children enough about understanding and respecting differences. \r\n\r\nI really liked how you adjusted the "Golden Rule" and ended your post with this sentence:\r\n\r\n“Imagine how you might feel if you were in her place, my daughter, but also remember that no one else sees the world exactly like you do.â€\r\n\r\nExcellent point and well taken:~)', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-US; rv:1.9.1.5) Gecko/20091102 Firefox/3.5.5 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(6756, 533, 'jessica', 'bernzee@mac.com', 'http://bernthis.com', '71.156.50.3', '2009-11-19 16:11:04', '2009-11-19 20:11:04', 'very true. I''m waaay more sensitive than my older sister. WE look at the world very differently. Sometimes I envy the fact that she is way less empathetic than I am.  Being that way can be very depressing.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10.5; en-US; rv:1.9.0.1) Gecko/2008070206 Firefox/3.0.1', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7408, 552, 'Claire', 'claire.sauer@ntlworld.com', 'http://anna-world.blogspot.com', '86.15.148.120', '2010-01-12 12:00:49', '2010-01-12 16:00:49', 'i''m so glad i found you...\r\nand thanks for the opportunity of joining other seeking souls...\r\ni''m hopeful i''ll find my tribe within the flock community :)\r\nthank you!', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 5.1; Trident/4.0; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7677, 558, 'cynthia', 'cynthialottvogel@gmail.com', 'http://www.cynthialottvogel.blogspot.com', '24.102.178.91', '2010-01-23 13:45:11', '2010-01-23 17:45:11', 'Well, your question is interesting to me and I feel compelled to answer it, not because you need to hear what I have to say, but because I need to work it out into words.  So here goes.\r\nI USED to overengage. To the point of pain.  To the point of mentally rehearsing converations and wording letters to people ALL NIGHT LONG.  The the pain and frustration of the whole business got to me.  I ran headlong into the truth of your tweet some years ago.  I would like to say that I learned to choose to disengage, as you have, but instead, I turned the whole response factor OFF.  Now nothing much excites, or riles, or ignites me.  Not at least in person.  However my writing still catches the waves as they come and rides them for a season.  I am intrigued by your suggestion that one might respond for a season and then, when you sniff out impending futility, turning back and walking away.  I don''t like the thought of myself as a deadpan person.  I am way too passionate for that.  I know I''ve had arguments (or debates) where I realized that NO ONE was going to win, and I walked away....but I guess in my all or nothing personality, that distance and lack of vulnerability was too enticing.  It was a fortress...a wall behind which no one could reach and sway me.  So I bought the whole kingdom behind the wall.  And stayed there.  I''m still not sure I have the ability to quell my passions and learn to shut them off at will, but it does seem to be worth a try.  Question is: can I turn them back ON??', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 6.0; Trident/4.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; Zune 4.0; .NET CLR 3.0.30729; yie8)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7678, 558, 'Daisy', 'okaybyme@gmail.com', 'http://compostermom.blogspot.com', '75.62.43.76', '2010-01-23 13:50:55', '2010-01-23 17:50:55', 'This is a hard topic for me. I am by nature a peacemaker; I want to mediate, to help people find common ground. I have become more involved in politics locally and nationally (through blogging). In politics, peacemakers are rare and frankly, not well respected. It is tough to leave my inner peacemaker by the roadside, get in the thick of things, and still know when to re-engage my peacemaker self to help me disengage at the right time.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; .NET CLR 1.0.3705; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; Media Center PC 3.1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(7347, 552, 'Cynthia', 'cynthialottvogel@gmail.com', 'http://www.cynthialottvogel.blogspot.com', '24.102.178.91', '2010-01-08 14:00:50', '2010-01-08 18:00:50', 'Funny you should write about this...today.\r\nI''ve been buried by my circumstances: poor health, a struggling marriage, a daughter who is on the verge of leaving home, pain, and mental illness.  And I was slogging along in self pity, forgetting gratitude, feeling hopeless and desperate.\r\nToday, I read an assortment of "random" blogs which were in my Google Reader...and each one of them revealed a new side of a point God was trying to make to me....Basically that my future is, in part, in my own hands.  And it is also in the hands of God.  God is more than able to turn the tide and bring hope to my darkness, but He is waiting on me to change my attitude and take some action.  While I''m not a proponet of "God helps those who help themselves,"  there is SOME truth to that statement. Perhaps you''ve heard the expressionn "God cannot steer a car that is standing still."\r\nAnyway, that was my epiphany; both a prod and a reminder not to lose hope in a God who can do anything.  I wrote a blogpost about my discoveries.  See: http://cynthialottvogel.blogspot.com/2010/01/no-more-excuses.html--thanks for sharing your story with us, Kristen', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 6.0; Trident/4.0; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; Zune 4.0; .NET CLR 3.0.30729; yie8)', '', 0, 0, 'Y'),
(7374, 552, 'Mel', 'melanie_martin1@yahoo.co.uk', 'http://memyselfandotherthings.wordpress.com', '86.140.244.46', '2010-01-10 15:23:27', '2010-01-10 19:23:27', 'I had an epiphany when I realised that letting go was the only way forward, the only way I could be happy. I had held on so dearly to the past, to all the bad stuff that my life was a perpetuated negative rollercoaster... I got off, let go and things have turned around like you would not believe... it''s been a revelation.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 6.0; en-GB; rv:1.9.1.7) Gecko/20091221 Firefox/3.5.7 (.NET CLR 3.5.30729)', '', 0, 0, 'N'),
(4012, 385, 'jenx67', 'jenx67@cox.net', 'http://www.jenx67.com', '68.227.97.30', '2009-06-25 09:09:35', '2009-06-25 13:09:35', 'Church camp was the highlight of my summers. The one divine week all year, spiritually and socially. My daughter now goes and she, too, looks forward to it all year. \r\n\r\nI love the keen observation of your own memory - thick spaghetti, cold eggs, iceberg lettuce. You nailed that for me. So true. Also, watered-down Kool-aid.\r\n\r\nThis post also reminds me that my first husband and my huband neither one had camp experiences and as adults they''ve actually kind of mourned that loss. As one who did have them, I know how much they missed, and there is no way, as an adult, that these adventures can be created.', 0, '1', 'Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 6.0; SU 3.23; SLCC1; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; Media Center PC 5.0; .NET CLR 3.0.04506; InfoPath.2)', '', 0, 0, 'N');
