I live nine blocks from the beach and I'm too busy, don't feel bad. 

I believe it's all about stealing the moments when you have them. Despite living together and working together, my wife and I actually have few scant moments together where we're not talking shop or childcare. Yet those moments that we do have, we make sure, are imbued with the five languages. Even though we didn't know that's what they were. : &gt; )