When did the church appoint itself judge and jury over people's lives?  People have NO IDEA what kind of pain others cover up in order to look good at church. Amy Grant owes exactly no one an apology or an explanation. In fact, it may be better that she keep the private private. Same for every other divorced person out there. The church is meant to be a place of love, growth, teaching and fellowship. Not condemnation, judgment and hate. Clearly, there is still a need for your writing because we have not reached a place of extending grace to others. Can you tell you struck a nerve? This fires me up like nothing. When others presume to know my story or my heart and decide for me how I am or how I should live, it makes me want to run in the opposite direction. I am thankful that God loves you, in your humanity, and that you did not run so far that you couldn't hear him calling you home. Well done friend.