last night jason went with heather hear -piece psychedelic rock band called dark meat they were playing upstairs mike molly's stuff pieces napkins ears combat regular screaming into mike general chaos ears while downstairs fetching materials hand-crafted earplugs figured good time restroom regular need pretty sure bane existence take preventative measures whenever possible handful other women apparently same need stood together outside single-toilet ladies room waiting turns women unpredictable many ways thing i've begun count certain restroom camaraderie find phenomenon really fascinating women might otherwise feel threatened suspicious simply around another seem down defenses find reasons connect when they have it's like acknowledgement that have something common we're sisters tend more often than need stall down have purses with because need lipstick tampons mints while we're there strangers each other's straps tuck shirt tags compliment another's haircuts shoes it's like need social lubricant once we've gathered bathroom with bunch other women seem know just what other more commonly-known social lubricant probably plays part since notice this phenomenon more often bars late night there's music sense connection seems even stronger like we're going through some larger experience together have common starting point because chose come listen same music last night when joined three women waiting restroom camaraderie immediately first women were talking about their height they were wearing heels they felt about heels when walked smiled made some comment about using bathroom such popular concept they turned smiled asked tall boom were conversation found band loud amazingly short members were then homemade napkin earplugs before turning back topic heights glad were have found tall woman took turn bathroom almost reluctant leave conversation then another person joined line showed them shoes sandals with three-inch wedge talked about shoes while where them hate sacrificing comfort heels versus wedges woman line impatient went men's room upon opening door discovered peeing lock broken shared moment that trauma hilarity finally made pact take turns guarding door men's room each other soon peeing finished were suddenly cahoots recklessly peeing men's room without lock when said done probably grand total eight minutes later this trip bathroom netted only bladder relief four friends it's kind small moment that makes happy woman friendly midwest 