TJ, it's taken me SO long to realize that it's OK to say "I'm not sure, but this is kind of what my gut is telling me," in regards to faith questions. I always feel like people will call me out if I admit I can't explain something, 100%, but I've found they actually seem relieved and respect me more. I've also found it really helps me to be able to admit that I often feel a bit embarrassed by this topic. Little by little, very slowly, I'm learning how to talk about these weighty topics. :)