"additional hearts and minds to care for" &lt;-- Yep, they'll find food (or even soap) when they need it, but the kiss on the forehead, listening ear, and reassuring, "yep, you're doing alright" hug gotta come somewhere between getting some laundry done and picking up everything on the floor.  If my priorities are lined up, kicking the paper *toward* the trashcan can be good enough.

Oh, and I love how they support and reach out to each other when I'm not available.