I want my kids to know that sex and sexuality is a complex and beautiful thing.  I want them to know that there are many facets and layers of a relationship and that physical intimacy is but one of them.  I want them to feel comfortable talking about their health and their bodies with someone they know they can trust (and I realize - since I never had those conversations with my mom, that as a parent that might not be me). I want them to believe they are beautifully and wonderfully made and to never feel ashamed if they don't look like other people. 

As far as marriage and relationships go, I want to encourage them to spend their time with people who they feel like they can honestly be themselves with.  I want to tell them that marriage is a journey that begins long before a wedding and continues long after you have said "i do."  I want to tell them that love is a choice we make, rather than a feeling we have. I want to encourage them to date, but when they have found someone that they want to build a relationship with, I want to support them, 100%, and encourage them to live into create a mutually self-giving covenantal relationship.