It is interesting how over the years, as we mature,how our perspective on things change. Even as adults, though, we all still tend to make judgments that are not entirely based on the true essence of others reality. How can anyone really know someone's truth, especially when we all usually attempt to hide it so deeply? Look at our current world "financial crisis", the clear over spending of the masses and simple greed.  While many of these people are losing their massive homes and their luxury cars, because they really could not afford them in the first place, there are the rest of us that are simply trying to "keep our heads above water" even when living within our means. I suppose, in many ways, THIS is what you are also writing about today. Life is a series of choices, including how you will spend your money. I tend to deny myself too much, and end up feeling "removed" because of it. Good for you (and the girls) that you chose wisely, my dear.  You are a smart woman.