Thinking in terms of 'hate' is just too much for me. I feel that hate brings such trauma and turmoil in our world. Sure, there's little daily imperfections, I try to reference them inidividually as in I'm frustrated, annoyed, disappointed, resentful as the case may warrant. Sometimes I dwell on the situation and spiral in it a bit/ a lot, but mostly I choose not to sweat the small stuff. Because I can take on others anger and internalize it in a bad way (physical stress response) I try really hard to let others bad behaviour - which I might 'hate' - be their problem and not mine. I apply that to driving conditions, line ups, bad attittudes etc. 
Not 'liking something' makes the 'liking something'  even more delicious.