Sooooo happy you wrote tis - ere'smy thoughts

Mark Regnerus has no clue what he is talking about. This is the continuation of a weak man justifying his own downfalls. Are you having sex outside of marriage? Its wrong. Also, it makes you a weak boy if you you can't resist. MEN do what boys cannot. I am 22 i have been dating for 4 of the past five years. Two wonderful women, two serious relationships. One for two years, and the current relationship for almost two years. I am sexually attracted and tempted by the women I date. But you know what? I DON'T HAVE SEX WITH THEM. It isn't THAT hard...if you can control yourself like a human being. 
Women - if there are no guys in your church that you can date without being pressured to date - leave your church - cause you go to a church full of losers.