Jennifer, isn't it amazing how good it feels to just hear someone else say "being a mama is hard"? It magically makes it a tiny bit easier. And YES to this: "Seize who you are and show those girls what mamas can do. Anything!"

The Exception, that's a great point—that we are teaching our kids, by example, how to nurture themselves. Even better if they can learn to do that guilt-free! Your love list is absolutely lovely. I know this isn't the point, but I can relate to everything you've included. :) Thanks for sharing it with the rest of us. 

jenx67, are there people out there who *don't* want more time in their lives? :) So...first we need to figure out how to section off some #lovelist time every day or week, then we need to be ready to use that time in ways that fulfill us and make us more of who we are. Let's start with an easy goal: 2 hours this weekend. Are you in?

Meredith, your mind works a lot like mine does! You are spinning a story, but it's a true one. If we don't take care of ourselves first, we'll have a hard time being present for others. (It's like that oxygen mask rule on airplanes!)

Katie, I think your husband's ability to benefit from your benefits is a really healthy sign (and it goes both ways, of course). Not only does it bode well for a happier home and marriage right now, it says a lot about how you will be able to grow together and offer mutual support as you inevitably change as individuals. If kids ever become a part of your family, they will benefit, too! (I'm loving your blog posts, btw.)