jason honeymoon years wednesday friend husband kurt celebrated wedding anniversary wednesday jason celebrate time strange hand years amount time lined years moments feel jason decades recall life times friends celebrate anniversaries years feeling pure chose they've worked hard they've struggled loved smiling decade accomplishment doubt wave emotion feels pang sadness loss leap hate admit icky part psyche part it-somehow-must-be-about-me-even-though-it-clearly-isn't competitive side tossed score kristin love race board game competition number years you've married true measure love couple years belt stories experiences necessarily love suspect part feels failed divorce running long race stepped route shoe told back beginning start board games childhood difficult time good sport playing candy land perfect metaphor feel long slide chutes ladders sends back started brink winning brother confirm slide game stomping frustration time measure legitimacy part frustration tied legitimacy tend yoke time successful business consistently years great baseball team reputation making playoffs good season luck jason celebrating anniversary feels prove remember feeling high school college relationship felt significant lasting wanting people fact month amount time line amount feeling guess realizing things tested time things time measurable concrete linear element lives surprisingly good indicator concrete aspects love relationships commitment problem-solving ability withstand variety downs good indicator abstract parts love articulated measured people refer chemistry deep compatibility soulmates time measure what's simply core encompasses two-year marriage suspect serve move forward withstanding test time glue kurt years 