photo dizznbonn fairly established fact politics religion they're topics we're supposed bring family events parties make people notice squirm carry weight individually they're combined single discussion explosive stop thinking yorker article read blue evangelical teenagers pregnant evangelical christian thing religion shapes earliest understanding sexuality kinds consequences perspective road blame divorce part understandings mother girls ages makes extremely interested subject youngest began questions babies made year jason married logic you're married you're babies she's scientifically-minded girl decided time technical explanation baby-making birth control rate girls inquisitive exceptionally cute jason bracing they're subject education lightly we're convinced paradigm sexuality christian children inheriting parents pregnancy marriage statistics tied blue states found fascinating yorker article statistics back long suspected states highest divorce rates youngest marriage teen pregnancies traditionally states traditionally pre-obama reverse statistics blue states exception north dakota lowest teen pregnancy rates here's article's author margaret talbot summarizes state-blue state divide teenagers pregnancy social liberals country's blue states tend support education troubled idea teenagers marriage regard teenage daughter's pregnancy devastating news social conservatives states generally advocate abstinence-only education denounce marriage unruffled teenager pregnant long choose abortion story daughters grew blue state blue family church sunday experience fell extremes biggest problem back simply discussed church home school matter knew parents greatly disappointed knew married connected viewpoint religious beliefs living college boyfriend graduated main reason married long healthy young adults expected exist long sneak hide fact they're whichever case lots people married young essentially reason tired waiting tired living feeling guilty husband jason people yorker article points women marry mid-twenties significantly divorce marry married young divorce directly blame parents religious beliefs early marriage divorce encouraging daughters married young greater priority encouraging hang virginity costs encouraging waiting promoting good important kids understand sexuality good thing thing parents pound idea kids heads attempt convince avoid backfire develops deep sense shame guilt relationship sexuality suspect issue played complex negative role problems marriage time churches break guilt-spreading cycle doubt issue complex growing here's good summary problem blue article american teens young evangelicals live world internet porn celebrity scandals raunchy reality hormonal urges peers families communities sexual life supposed forestalled night transcendent honeymoon confusing daughters wait respect bodies sexuality decision make extremely cautious safe mess process waiting tackle problem girls coming years talking answer continuing blindly present kids presented churches homes schools answer honesty lots information good places start parents girls love complicated angles affect affect road here's messed learned here's vision hopes read post lose 