photo ha-wee case early marriage amid purity pledges attempts make chastity forgot teach young christians knot words case early marriage christianity today website caused seize inside automatic physiological response bodily equivalent shouting jason determined marrying spouses young heart marriages failed we've long discussions beliefs families church communities directly indirectly marriage husband jason wife we've spent time talking daughters understand sexuality relationships eventually marriage we're quite we'll communicate message we've decided waiting married loosely defined time important waiting wrote detail post politics religion christian author thinker blatantly encouraging people married younger church alarming formula love happiness agree things article's author mark regnerus message change writes agree regnerus suggests church focus exact agree agree takes argument case earlier marriages wrap head encouraging christians marry younger rule real evidence marrying young happiness waiting marriage christians marry doomed train wreck marriage life absolutely depends people question period devoting energy wrong issue thought protestations logical arguments approaches returning elemental question church decide elevate issues sinful behaviors black white you're married person alcoholism porn addiction hand trickier pinpoint lines crossed sins fuzzy pride anger greed unforgiving heart placing gods fall categories thick grey soupy begin church feels easier things back burner elevate obvious sins shifting focus early marriage love compassion thoughts lead followup question ignoring we're process spending time energy focused issues world instance church spent time teaching teenagers love compassion spend pounding no-sex-outside-of-marriage message heads parents spent time guiding children journey discovering created time telling bible they're supposed marriages churches began honestly addressing varied ways marriage focusing sins place legal marriage ultimately leads jesus compassionate merciful forgive freely love neighbors love focused things healthy fulfilling relationships included fall organically place intended 