"An escape hatch to a better life." Even (especially?) if that escape hatch leads you to being happy and satisfied in your own skin, with your own wits, and with finding the love that remains around you.

I know of but only one of the many reasons that people get divorced.  I know of many that have not walked in divorce-shoes and yet provide non-experience-gained words and (worse) judgement.

It is a Journey:  For the Travelers, Godspeed and learn well.  For the Watchers, Listen and Love.