Kristin,
   Hi again.  When I think about being unintentional, spontaneous, it makes me want to go hide in my room.. getting back to your blog about needing time alone.  I think that part of my need for "alone time" and my house guest fatigue relates to my need to present a certain image of myself to everyone.  That is exhausting at times!  Being unintentional takes a leap of faith that I will be okay and will be accepted and enjoyed as I truly am.  As a result, those times when I manage it are the least frequent but the most satisfying times of my life.
   So, I guess now I can't shut up!
Judy