valentina husband jeremy people love facebook people stop complaining approach healthy moderation life meaningful interesting stories facebook meeting valentina explain connected valentina close attention bizarre one-degree-of-separation connection valentina decade she's brother's close friends portland bill valentina husband jeremy shortly moved briefly visit portland connection valentina uncovered summer facebook jason recently returned week cottage rent lake michigan brother bill flown portland join lake vacation photos uploading tagging facebook valentina noticed photos bill tagged jason high school boyfriend evanston illinois years valentina dated husband moved portland friends brother place married jason week jason portland visiting bill great time dinner lovely pregnant valentina husband jeremy crazy surprising connections existed uncovered pre-facebook reuniting tuesday evening week dinner valentina jason made dinner dear friend year then-boyfriend husband drove pittsburgh michigan attend wedding touch pregnant babies life geography gently pried completely lost contact months unexpectedly surfaced mind occurred facebook digging reaches memory married spell facebook search wrote story lost found friend back december wrote back facebook catch lives babies move divorce marriage urged active twitter extra ambient awareness recently made plans husband kids stop urbana tulsa pittsburgh visit jen's family tuesday evening porch flesh giving kids meeting kids including -year-olds pregnant birth talked kurt husband helping jason dishes dinner weaving walk dark neighborhood feeling overwhelmed time time visit feel chance reconnect made instantly remember reasons drawn place connection feel strong hours homes twitter facebook 