Dave, thanks so much for writing this post. One of the things I appreciate about the Love List Project is its flexibility—it works in different ways for different people. As you pointed out, for analytical problem-solvers like you (and I guess I should include myself in that category, even though I'm not an engineer), our lists help us let go and simply revel in what *is*; for those who know they aren't happy with how their life is but they have a hard time focusing enough to make concrete changes, the Love List can become a catalyst for something new. The lists somehow affirm exactly who we are while helping balance our extremes. Pretty amazing, eh? I'm so glad you've experienced that, too, and I hope Sugar and others start making their lists!