used think god's love mirrored parent's love it's common child grasp sure it's such metaphor some ways even your parents nearly perfect they love bound somewhat tainted parents instance send message harsh judgment have very clear idea what would make them happy with what would make them unhappy with assumed whatever reason that when they were less happy with they loved less therefore must work same concluded really glad this case turns especially that parent mean always love children don't always love them that love someone always want near close cuddly because everything they pleases 