The problem I find with these pledges is that these kids don't realize what they are setting themselves up against (false ideals).  When thrown into an intense situation, the promises don't keep them from getting a STD or pregnant.  I think what also needs to be taught &amp; what I try so hard to instill on my daughter is the concept of grace &amp; forgiveness.

Saskia's poem was wonderful!  Like dutiful kids of an artist, my kids spend a lot of their free time drawing &amp; creating.  I often look at their creations &amp; wish I could do what they do.