Jennifer-your last paragraph, "But it’s also a feminist issue for me. I want my kids to learn how to avoid objectification. I want my daughters to know they are valuable because of all facets of them not just their appearance. And I want my son to know that hot chicks aren’t just hot chicks. (He’s 5 so I have some time). I want them all to be proud of who they are and what they can do and I want them to treat their bodies in a way that shows the respect it, even if others don’t." reminds me of a story Charlie Peacock (singer/writer) told of his son who was looking at a "girlie" magazine. He took that opportunity to have a discussion with him about objectification &amp; respect of others. I remember being very impressed (and obviously still remember the story many years later) that he dealt with the situation not by saying it is wrong to look at those types of pictures, but rather talking about the effect it was having on him, and his view of women.