Angie, yeah, life is pretty much complicated, isn't it? I'm amazed when I meet people who seem to be able to see everything as black and white. The good thing about shades of grey is that there's so much room to move around in, explore and ponder. We never have to just be stuck.

Carmen, no need to apologize! I was already worried, as you could tell (and now that it's history, your response to me at that moment makes a great part of the story, right?). And this is a huge compliment: "...you approach everything with curiosity that’s devoid of judgment...." That's definitely how I feel—I'm so glad it comes across. :)

Trina, I am very slowly learning what you're saying about being real. Why is it such a hard lesson? Thanks for being someone I can always count on to join me "in our sameness" and accept our differences.

Maureen, the essay is in the book "Ask Me About My Divorce: Women Open Up About Moving On." (The link is in the post.) I definitely think it's worth a purchase, but of course I would think that! :)

Elaine, I give thanks for Jason every day, too. I never doubt his complete support or his powerful belief in me, and I'm pretty sure I could do anything with him by my side. Sounds cheesy, but it's true.