Kristen, Very good post today. I love this question, "How can we inspire them to work hard at something because they want to, not just because they’re forced to? Where’s that fine line between discipline and desire, and is there a way we can help nurture it?" This realtres to every aspect of child development. I wish I had found one answer to apply, but the funny thing is that I have three children and I'm looking for three answers times the number of endeavors they begin.But that process helps me know my child even more, on an in-depth level and as a side note it brings me to know myself even better along the way.