photo kristin tennant friday wrote post helpless feeling haiti anger robertson's disaster christians respond overwhelming hurting people respond fellow christian piles hurt situation opinion misrepresents saturday jason retreat members small group church shared we've reading thinking cases wrestling topics grappled death feel sense peace answers left wondering death heaven faith 'right perspective understanding resembles anxiety dream completely stuck place spent life place correct answer find adhere scene resembles anxiety dream you're sitting final exam determine future happiness misery life death you're question foreign you're answer remote corner brain panic increasing minutes tick thankfully woken dream realized life woke dream years verge deciding church woke past weekend spend time figure collective answer puff pride judgment we've landed beat feel truth responses here's learned make cookie cutter people make cookie cutter hearts response haiti robertson individuals created we're wasting time determine response wrong focused knowing heart gave focused knowing heart gave praying listening spirit moving revelation firmly rooted head solidified blog post respond haiti listen urge opportunity develop relationship jesus talk pray find supposed comfort overwhelming 