Jennifer, how wonderful that you discovered this aspect about your personality when you did, and that you had someone tell you clearly and firmly what to do with that information. Having the support of your husband along the way is key, I think. As someone who has been through a divorce, I feel very strongly that half the struggle of marriage would fade if couples simply took the time to really understand and accept the other person's individual quirks and needs. As humans, we spend far too much time trying to change ourselves and others.

Thanks for reading--I'm a fan of your blog!