The Modern Gal, HA! I love it. I know what you mean about worrying that you're reading too much into things. Twice in my past, I thought God had something very big up his sleeve because of how I met two different men, and it didn't end up like I thought. At the same time, a number of these non-coincidental moments fill the story of how I met my husband. :) I think the key is to realize that although God might be "up to something," as you put it, that "something" might turn out being completely different than we suspected.