Lance - I really liked the idea of the Love List as moments, almost as if the things we put on our love lists are snapshots of certain points in our life and when taken together, tell a story about who we are. I'm glad you were able to connect with my story in some way by sharing the sadness and happiness of your friend. 

Kristin - Once again, thank you for the opportunity to write this guest post. Even just the writing itself was helpful for me. I wasn't sure how others would respond, because it is such a personal story. But if by sharing my story I'm able to provide some insight or perspective to someone else in a similar - yet different - situation (like you and your grandmother), then I'm glad I followed my instincts too!

Carmen - You're right - a good attitude and optimism really do go a long way towards helping us through the sad times. That's why I think the Love List is a part of that good attitude. Having a tangible list (e.g., I keep my in a small notebook) gives us something concrete to literally and figuratively hold on to. 

Jules - Between Kristin's posts and the guest posts, I've really been amazed at how the Love List project has effected people in different ways. I think it's a great testament to how life can take you to some pretty amazing places when you least expect it. Thank you for your prayers. They're greatly appreciated!