photo scarleth white busy things busy watch movie falling asleep busy busy romantic leisurely walks beach jason beach hand time bigger hurdle fool divorced make time love main love language quality time demand focused attention time gladly trade lower-maintenance higher-efficiency option love language idea love languages concept you're familiar book gary chapman love languages express heartfelt commitment mate term love languages sounds cheesy wait book cover website inspired photo chose post wait read book written style stomach entire time reading simultaneous re-write mind read suffer literary experience convinced concept heart book brilliant concept aware you're married helps understand deeply-rooted things childhood parents relationship deal love adult fresh understanding here's idea nutshell perfectly valid ways demonstrate love responds strongly specific expression love main love language regular sufficient amounts love expressed resonates chapman love tanks full weather life relationship problem people love instance spouse share primary love language tend express love receive buying people type gifts receive result loving people speaking wrong love language partner feeling love problem turns core failed marriage idea time empty love tank decade ex-husband money here's trade love languages primary quality time secondary love language physical affection doubt they're require greatest amount focused time thing life short days context love languages order importance acts service words affirmation gifts great things magic accomplish trick filling love tank full tank plowing deadlines missing beat tonight busy preparing copywriting seminar teaching wednesday jason cleaning entire kitchen cooked dinner typically shared cleanup enormously grateful acts service love language gifts love tank filled jason stopping store home work pick favorite chocolate five-minute detour night happily spent evening tackling work kind encouraging words trick words affirmation jason quite nice things tonight words make feel extra happy make feel deeply loved feel deeply loved jason's undevoted time attention talk listen laugh problem-solve sounding board confidant things time plain simple multi-tasking time half-focused-on-something-else time set-everything-else-aside time realize love languages core part jason fell love jason pointed love languages compliment nicely work primary language words affirmation naturally pours time spent talking craving acts service nice things make spending time trickier kill love languages stone speak helps share secondary language physical contact details leave 