photo jolante moves won't true friends move date friend speeds angst grows leaps bounds instinct true lots friends start naming so-and-so forget birthday party great time important parent acknowledge respect feels makes sense she's experiencing life moment debate she'd started listing friends lots friends friends understands likes pretend tired childhood experience biggest reason discount feeling loads friends time feel friends state leads bizarre circular arguments head part playing lonely child playing all-too-matter-of-fact mother argument brought conclusion clear definition friend clear understanding categories friends kids pretty simple category friends enjoy interacting school category friends occasional playdate small handful category friends invite birthday party category friends true friends friends sort friend fits description breaking grownups translate adults pretty category friends people stop chat awhile cafe they're friends facebook facebook clue what's day-to-day life category friends encompass people co-workers members broader church community parents kids friends talk regularly necessarily decide call meet lunch invite party you're expectations relationship interactions casual category friends complicated relationship deeper expectations clear they're go-to friends feel group people saturday night dinner celebrate birthday feel inviting dinner friends spend time month hearts distance protect feeling left hurt disappointed category friends describe nine-year-old daughter understand core means completely worrying category friends spend time things feel urge they're ready waiting thrilled possibly make happen makes sense friends feel friends first-tier category empty people live town regularly spend time means heart feels empty daughter's 