Ron, this is absolutely true: "...what we all wish is that other people OBSERVED US CAREFULLY ENOUGH and KNEW US WELL ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT THAT REALLY MEANS." Human desire (and Jesus' reality) in a nutshell. Thanks so much for your honesty and willingness to always dig deeper and be more honest with yourself and others. I'm so blessed that you not only do that at our church fellowship, but also here on my blog.