I totally relate to this story KT...but my issue with it is a bit different. When I was a kid, nobody encouraged/urged me to do anything. I think the only expectation placed on me was college, and that was obviously much later on.

But here is my question, and what I wonder/worry about for my boys. Aside from the social and confidence aspects (which are absolutely critical, I agree), what of untapped potential? As a parent I feel a great responsibility to take notice of the slightest interests in my kids so that I can help encourage them to explore it. I don't know, maybe we naturally find our strengths and follow that path...but what if that's not true? What if by not noticing and encouraging something now, they lose it forever?