Jennifer, being a new mommy is SO hard, isn't it? There are so many expectations, and so-called "rules" that don't fit your situation (but no clear rules when you really want some). I remember talking on the phone to you after Q was born. You had been a mom for two whole months, and you seemed so calm and wise! :) 

Trina, yes, they will always be our babies. That's the moment you really begin to comprehend how much joy and trial will be wrapped up in parenting. I think of Q as my baby not because she's my youngest, but because she was my first. The baby life of the second one has a way of being a bit of a blur.