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		<title>By: bob pearson</title>
		<link>http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/?p=409&#038;cpage=1#comment-4862</link>
		<dc:creator>bob pearson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 19:30:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>KT,

A model I use is that the range of understanding of what Christians believe is more like a bell shaped curve.  Most churches or denominations like to draw a vertical line of small but varying width through this line at one point and say that that where all truth lies and anyone outside this line is a heretic.  Being a community that is centered on Jesus but open to the broad and vast range of where God is with each person seems like what we are called to do at this time of the evolution of the Christian faith.
Thanks for this blog post.</description>
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<p>A model I use is that the range of understanding of what Christians believe is more like a bell shaped curve.  Most churches or denominations like to draw a vertical line of small but varying width through this line at one point and say that that where all truth lies and anyone outside this line is a heretic.  Being a community that is centered on Jesus but open to the broad and vast range of where God is with each person seems like what we are called to do at this time of the evolution of the Christian faith.<br />
Thanks for this blog post.</p>
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		<title>By: Is Gen Y losing religion? &#124; Bizzy Women</title>
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		<dc:creator>Is Gen Y losing religion? &#124; Bizzy Women</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 11:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] recent study reports that Americans are changing religion. A lot. Some people talk about practicing religion a la carte, while others talk about leaving church entirely and finding a new kind of community as a result. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Is Gen Y losing religion? &#124; Modite</title>
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		<dc:creator>Is Gen Y losing religion? &#124; Modite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 01:53:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] been reading a lot on religion lately. Some state that they practice religion a la carte and others talk about leaving church and finding a stronger community as a result. And a recent [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Alisa</title>
		<link>http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/?p=409&#038;cpage=1#comment-4629</link>
		<dc:creator>Alisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 18:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Charming perspective and so true! Right on, Kristin. Let&#039;s pray this potluck style when implemented leads folks to truly &quot;taste and see that the Lord is good&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Charming perspective and so true! Right on, Kristin. Let&#8217;s pray this potluck style when implemented leads folks to truly &#8220;taste and see that the Lord is good&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Kristin T.</title>
		<link>http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/?p=409&#038;cpage=1#comment-4533</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristin T.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 17:20:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Elaine, yes! You nailed it by pointing out that &quot;I&#039;m better than you are&quot; attitude. The thing that&#039;s so tricky about that is it happens in both directions—there&#039;s the &quot;I&#039;m better than you are because I have accepted this nice, complete faith package with all the perks&quot; and the &quot;I&#039;m better than you are because I&#039;m an intellectual and I don&#039;t accept everything blindly.&quot; We all need to beware of that attitude, no matter where we stand.

Ron, I really like how you put that: &quot;...being more inviting to others on God’s behalf.&quot; And I should add that this is one of the things I appreciate most about our church/fellowship—we are inviting to people with lots of doubts and questions, at all stages of the journey. Thanks for leading in that.

Dave, A) Thanks for your kind words. I love analogies, especially when come to me out of nowhere, almost like they&#039;re God-given, as the potluck and children&#039;s museum analogies did. B) That&#039;s too funny. I&#039;ll only share food pointers if you ask. :) C) Yes, my commenters (you included) are the best on the Internet. I deeply admire and appreciate you all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Elaine, yes! You nailed it by pointing out that &#8220;I&#8217;m better than you are&#8221; attitude. The thing that&#8217;s so tricky about that is it happens in both directions—there&#8217;s the &#8220;I&#8217;m better than you are because I have accepted this nice, complete faith package with all the perks&#8221; and the &#8220;I&#8217;m better than you are because I&#8217;m an intellectual and I don&#8217;t accept everything blindly.&#8221; We all need to beware of that attitude, no matter where we stand.</p>
<p>Ron, I really like how you put that: &#8220;&#8230;being more inviting to others on God’s behalf.&#8221; And I should add that this is one of the things I appreciate most about our church/fellowship—we are inviting to people with lots of doubts and questions, at all stages of the journey. Thanks for leading in that.</p>
<p>Dave, A) Thanks for your kind words. I love analogies, especially when come to me out of nowhere, almost like they&#8217;re God-given, as the potluck and children&#8217;s museum analogies did. B) That&#8217;s too funny. I&#8217;ll only share food pointers if you ask. :) C) Yes, my commenters (you included) are the best on the Internet. I deeply admire and appreciate you all.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Thurston</title>
		<link>http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/?p=409&#038;cpage=1#comment-4473</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Thurston</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 03:09:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tweet Length Comment A: &quot;. . . less like a guided tour with a quiz at the end and more like a hands-on children’s museum&quot; &lt;-- Man, that is like getting something to rhyme with orange.  I&#039;m going to be mentally considering church the next time we go to the Children&#039;s museum.

Tweet Length Comment B:  I didn&#039;t read this one for a few days because of the picture - &quot;ugh, I don&#039;t want any food pointers as I&#039;m making spaghetti again.&quot;  Apparently, I was &quot;off&quot;.

Tweet Length Comment C: Although you already know it, your commenters are the perfect frame for your artwork.  I can&#039;t think of any other blog where I read all of the comments like I do on yours.  Well done KT and Commenters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tweet Length Comment A: &#8220;. . . less like a guided tour with a quiz at the end and more like a hands-on children’s museum&#8221; &lt;&#8211; Man, that is like getting something to rhyme with orange.  I&#8217;m going to be mentally considering church the next time we go to the Children&#8217;s museum.</p>
<p>Tweet Length Comment B:  I didn&#8217;t read this one for a few days because of the picture &#8211; &#8220;ugh, I don&#8217;t want any food pointers as I&#8217;m making spaghetti again.&#8221;  Apparently, I was &#8220;off&#8221;.</p>
<p>Tweet Length Comment C: Although you already know it, your commenters are the perfect frame for your artwork.  I can&#8217;t think of any other blog where I read all of the comments like I do on yours.  Well done KT and Commenters.</p>
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		<title>By: Ron Simkins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ron Simkins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 20:52:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really nice image of us being more inviting to others on God&#039;s behalf.  Thanks.</description>
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		<title>By: Elaine Tolsma-Harlow</title>
		<link>http://www.halfwaytonormal.com/?p=409&#038;cpage=1#comment-4456</link>
		<dc:creator>Elaine Tolsma-Harlow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:24:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do think fear is a big part of it.  The fear of failure, disappointment and the fear of being out of your comfort zone inhibits many people (me on occasion too :)).  The realization that God is bigger than our fears sounds easy, but is hard to practice.
I also think there is a bit of &quot;I&#039;m-better-than-you-are&quot; &amp; blatant discrimination.  Moving towards faith and being invited to encompass more than just one idea is much more inviting and more freeing than one size fits all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do think fear is a big part of it.  The fear of failure, disappointment and the fear of being out of your comfort zone inhibits many people (me on occasion too :)).  The realization that God is bigger than our fears sounds easy, but is hard to practice.<br />
I also think there is a bit of &#8220;I&#8217;m-better-than-you-are&#8221; &amp; blatant discrimination.  Moving towards faith and being invited to encompass more than just one idea is much more inviting and more freeing than one size fits all.</p>
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		<title>By: Kristin T.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristin T.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 05:20:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Meredith, isn&#039;t it amazing how others like to meddle in our attempts to reconcile where we&#039;re at and what we think? As if that reconciling isn&#039;t challenging enough all on its own! I&#039;m really sorry (but not surprised) that has been your experience with the church. You&#039;re absolutely right, though, about this model we&#039;re talking about being very much like our experience as children: &quot;A little bit at a time, we learn more about ourselves and our faith.&quot; That just feels so right, to me.

Elaine, you mention the close-mindedness of many Christians, which is a really significant part of this problem. And I think that close-mindedness is rooted in fear, as it so often is. Maybe we need to face our fears together. Maybe we need to sit down and ask &quot;What exactly are we so afraid of? What&#039;s the worst that could happen?&quot; As a cancer survivor, you know the importance of that exercise better than most people. And isn&#039;t the result of facing our fears, even in theory if not reality, an enormous sense of freedom?

Rebecca, I always love getting your wise, in-touch Gen-Y input and perspective. It helps me take the things I&#039;m thinking about now, in relation to me, and spin them out a decade or two into the future, for the generations a step behind me. Fascinating to think about, indeed.

Matt, thanks so much for reading, and for letting me know what you think. I love that through blogs and a variety of other interactions, we can all help provide some fresh air and ideas for one another.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Meredith, isn&#8217;t it amazing how others like to meddle in our attempts to reconcile where we&#8217;re at and what we think? As if that reconciling isn&#8217;t challenging enough all on its own! I&#8217;m really sorry (but not surprised) that has been your experience with the church. You&#8217;re absolutely right, though, about this model we&#8217;re talking about being very much like our experience as children: &#8220;A little bit at a time, we learn more about ourselves and our faith.&#8221; That just feels so right, to me.</p>
<p>Elaine, you mention the close-mindedness of many Christians, which is a really significant part of this problem. And I think that close-mindedness is rooted in fear, as it so often is. Maybe we need to face our fears together. Maybe we need to sit down and ask &#8220;What exactly are we so afraid of? What&#8217;s the worst that could happen?&#8221; As a cancer survivor, you know the importance of that exercise better than most people. And isn&#8217;t the result of facing our fears, even in theory if not reality, an enormous sense of freedom?</p>
<p>Rebecca, I always love getting your wise, in-touch Gen-Y input and perspective. It helps me take the things I&#8217;m thinking about now, in relation to me, and spin them out a decade or two into the future, for the generations a step behind me. Fascinating to think about, indeed.</p>
<p>Matt, thanks so much for reading, and for letting me know what you think. I love that through blogs and a variety of other interactions, we can all help provide some fresh air and ideas for one another.</p>
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		<title>By: Wednesday Roundup</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wednesday Roundup</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 02:28:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] One of my recent favorite blog finds is Halfway to Normal by Kristin Tennant. Here she offers some thoughts on giving people some breathing room as they figure out where they are in their faith [...]</description>
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